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Joy, 50

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Hi there. Thanks for looking at my profile. I'm a divorced mom of 2 great kids ***and ***They're my first priority. Sorry, but that's non-negotiable. I am, however, extremely talented in multi-tasking and have time to dedicate to a relationship.I'm of Italian descent and originally from NY, with a very sarcastic sense of humor. I'm warm, passionate, loving, honest, confident, generous, loyal and above all; always myself. I'm looking for a relationship with a man who understands the life of a working single mom. I take very good care of myself and am in the best shape of my life. My photos are very recent; haven't gained a pound. I love working out at the gym ***days a week), walking my yellow lab (almost everyday). I eat very healthy, but still enjoy my daily glass of wine and occasional dessert. My favorite foods are sushi, steak, and italian. I'm open to trying any restaurant and also like cooking at home. I recently bought golf clubs and am learning to play. My kids play and basically every man I meet, so I thought it was time.I'm interested in finding a man who wants to be in a relationship with one woman. I know what I'm looking for and don't plan on settling. I'm very happy on my own. I don't need a man, but would really like someone special in my life. I think we should learn something from every failed relationship. The following has resulted in some pretty rude responses from those offended by it. I apologize, but have been at this for awhile and really don't want to waste mine or anyone else's time. If you're not interested, I'd prefer it if you didn't respond.Please DO NOT contact me if:1) you're just here to play the field.2) you're not financially stable; you don't have to be wealthy, just stable; own your home, very little or no debt, have some sort of savings, can afford to send your kids to college and do some traveling (with me). Not looking for a "sugar daddy". I AM financially stable. I'd like to meet someone who I can enjoy life with and not expect me to pay for him. I do, however, believe that gentlemen should pay for dinner, drinks...3) you're dishonest in your profile (old photos).4) cheated on your wife (ever) or are not yet divorced.; (I'm that height in heels); are overweight and don't workout regularly.6) post photos of you holding a fish, sitting on a motorcycle, in your underwear, or taken by you in your bathroom mirror.7) you have an incurable std.8) you're in recovery of ANY addiction.Lastly, while I'm very flattered to receive *** you younger guys, please don't contact me if you're under the age of ***or over the age of 54). I great first date for me would be meeting at a nice restaurant with a bar for a glass of wine. . If things are going great, maybe we can order something to eat. I'm really not interested in meeting for coffee or for wings and beer (yes, I've been asked).

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jerusha

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    In many ways, I am not your typical "gal." I would rather watch a gangster movie than a chick flick and I do not fit into your typical demographic for a woman my age, geographic location. I also enjoy old, low budget horror movies. The more obscure and cheesey the better.-wave) to old country and even a little folk and world music. I am a big sucker for 70's music. I have really gotten into trying out new genres and bands but I still cannot warm up to today's top 40, however I do like to explore modern alternative music.I do not have children. This is partly by choice. Please do not quiz me endlessly on this subject. Trust me, my uterus is not an interesting topic of conversation.I am divorced and am not looking for a serious relationship. I am very easy going and am interested in exploring new directions. I am who I am and am honest about what I want and like.... Good, bad or ugly. But I do not like to nor try to hurt people.I tend to be attracted to people who see things a little differently than most. A slightly sick or twisted sense of humor is a plus. If one of your goals in life is to own a Harley or you like "new" country music, I am sorry but you want a different woman. I am truly "drama free" as they say. I have a civil relationship with my ex and I lead a pretty laid back life. Making more stress and strife for myself would just sap me of energy I need for other things. However, if you are a guy who states "I am looking for no drama" that usually tells me that you are attracted to exactly that type of woman,,,,,, you can't help it and you may not even realize it.If you put me in your "favorites" but do not message me, I will not contact you. If you are too shy to contact me directly, then I am not for you, anyway. I think the whole favorites thing is kind of creepy. Also, IF YOU HAVE NO PICTURES POSTED, I WILL NOT CONTACT YOU!!!!!!! Let me repeat that. IF YOU HAVE NO PICTURES POSTED, I WILL NOT CONTACT YOU!!!!!!! I like to chat and have good conversations, text messages, etc. but I am not on here to be a pen pal. I am not a big fan of endless messaging. Let's just meet like they did in the old days and take things from there. And if you are just looking for a text buddy, for whatever reason, I will sniff you out pretty quickly and will just stop communicating.You should have enough of my pictures to base an opinion on, regarding how I appear physically. I understand there must be a physical atrraction but the pictures I have posted should cover all the bases. If you ask for more, I will just assume you are not serious about meeting in person. If you want to see the real thing, try to meet me in person. Pictures don't tell the whole story, anyway.Animals are a big part of my life. I am quite involved in a rescue. If you have no pets that's fine. It is better that someone doesn't have pets because they could not or would not take on the responsibility than have them and not take care of them..... just like kids. If you have made it this far, coffee, ice cream or a couple of drinks at a semi-quiet or relaxed location would probably be best. If you make me laugh like crazy and are smart it doesn't matter what or where the date is.

  • Neta

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I love my kids more than AIR.. I have a daughter in college and a son at home... I am 5'2" fierce and full of life.. I believe 5 inch heels look good in a black dress or jeans... Putting on make up a great hair style and manicured nails mean nothing but a pretty picture ... Ugly inside can't be made pretty...... What you don't see in pictures or get from a brief description is the spirit that lies within,,, That is the beauty that's me... I am way cool and believe life is for the living.. Enjoy have fun.. Do what makes you happy not everyone else.. Live Laugh Love!! Be kind it goes a long way.. If you can't laugh at yourself.. If you don't have a sense of humor keep searching It will never work because I laugh at myself a lot and will give you the same respect :) .. I am fluent in sarcasm its one of my love languages... If you fall I will help you up but not till my sides hurt from laughing! I hope you do the same for/with me.. Cuddles are the best when they are with the right person! Butterflies in my tummy make me smile,,... A look that says it all... A touch on my shoulder to say hey I'm here!!!... is huge... Knowing you got my back cause I'll always have yours... Those little things become big things those big things become relationships.. If you're the man for me then you can deal with a strong minded confident quirky :) woman... I am honest to a fault so be respectful and in return be the same.. I'm too good for bullsh*t and stories... I am ready to give it my all how bout you?? walkin the walk or just talkin the talk?? I believe actions speak louder than words..... Show me don't tell me... I will give you the same in return... False intentions are so played out. Seems everyone says they are tired of games and drama I have yet to see other wise...I hate lip service..... Dinner Drinks Walk talk.. as long the conversation is good we have a start... We can figure it out as we connect the dots...

  • Rachal

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    -49.I am a part-time Yoga Teacher and full time student in healthcare (changing my career). I'm honest, kind-hearted, accepting, and nurturing. I have a tattoo and my nose is pieced - both are spiritual and meaningful to me - not NOTcode for "I want to hookup" or "I'm into sexting" - which I don't and I'm not. I want a long term relationship that I hope will eventually lead to marriage some day. If you're just looking to play - please look elsewhere!My ideal match is confident, caring, intelligent, funny, attentive, sweet, supportive, youthful (not childish), energetic and fun loving. I'd like to meet a man who likes to cook, someone who is open to new experiences and can still feel a sense of wonder in this amazing world we live in. I want to meet my intellectual match; someone who is well-mannered and well-spoken with social graces. He can present himself with class and dignity without much effort. I am not interested in players. If you lie to me once or pretend to be someone you're not, you're done. Someone who does yoga or is open to learning would be a great bonus. The biggest turn-offs for me are bigotry, ***, intolerance, dominance, vulgarity, conceit, extreme competitiveness, cruelty, vanity, dishonesty, cynicism, and a know-it-all attitude. It's important to be our true selves even when we first meet, don't be someone you're not just to impress me and I won't either. The first time we meet, I need to find out if you can be a gentleman. Let's meet for coffee or a drink. But after dating for a little bit, my ideal date would be exciting and romantic, maybe take me someplace new, show me beautiful scenery in nature, a walk or hike, holding hands. A picnic in an amazing spot where you prepared the whole thing would show me how much I mean to you.

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