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Joella, 49
United States, Illinois, Centralia

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About Me

I'm very active and have a full life but I'm looking to make room for that special person. I like to do a lot of things including working out, jogging, biking, skiing, gardening and painting. I will try just about anything once. I do value my life and I'm not a big risk taker - you won't find me bungee jumping, jumping out of planes, etc. I love the outdoors. Prefer the summer weather but love to ski so I adore snow but hate bitter cold. I love a great conversation but I'm not looking to be in the midst of a constant debate. I'm a liberal politically.I'm very crafty and handy. My father was killed when I was very young and my mother never remarried. There wasn't a ton of extra money in our household so I learned how to do things for myself. As such I'm very independent. I'm a great partner but if you're looking for a damsel in distress or someone who needs saving it's not me. If you're easily intimidated by an independent woman, who doesn't need saving but would certainly liked to be saved - all the while saving you too, perhaps we're a good match. I'm a bit of a neat freak. I'm easy going and easy to laugh.We all have baggage. I have mine but I'm not angry and I don't want to be around someone who is. You also must love dogs and kids. I have one of each.For me it's all about the little moments because that's mostly what life is made of.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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