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United States, Illinois, Centralia

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About Me

I'd have to say I'm more "curvy" than "average" but that wasn't an option. I'm an independent woman but kind of an old fashioned gal too. I may initiate first contact if I'm feeling 'frisky', but my preference is a man who takes charge and initiates contact himself, so just because I don't contact first doesn't mean I'm not interested. But don't ask me to fall for you unless you plan to be there to catch me. I definitely don't consider myself an 'average' gal, I can be a little fiesty. My heart won't be given to just anyone, and I'm a little gun-shy so it might take me a while to get there, but when I do commit to someone, it's 150%. I've loved and lost; but I really do want to believe that there is still that magical, passionate, butterflies in my stomach, heart skip a beat when I hear your voice, knowing winks and stolen glances across a crowded room, can't wait to get my hands on you, kind of love out there for me somewhere. I'm growing cynical though, I haven't met anyone who could sweep me off my feet. Can you? I am happy and blessed and am passionate about life, I would like to have someone to share it with. Without question, the most important trait I’m looking for is good old fashioned honesty, and you can expect the same in return from me. And you must have the courage of your convictions! Aside from being a sports fanatic, I like to try/learn new things, enjoy good (intelligent) conversation, am not afraid of a heated (respectful) debate, and love to dance (especially to live music). I adore a good sense of humor, make me laugh and I'm yours, especially if you can laugh at yourself. Physical chemistry is also a must, but it's that 'connection' that will remain when looks fade.It would be fabulous to find someone who found my flaws endearing, and I his. I have high standards, I won't be satisfied until I find a man who can touch me; mind, body, and soul (notice the sequence there). I may be asking a lot and thereby narrowing the field, but in my book that's a good thing. I know what I want; but more importantly, I know what I don't want. If that means I never find what I'm looking for, so be it, but I won't settle for less. That said, I'm in NO rush. My life is great as is, I stay very busy, and finding a mate is not at the top of my priority list so sometimes I may be on here and sometimes not. I'm well aware that I'm not everyone's cup of tea and it's fine if I'm not yours, I'd rather be someone's shot of tequila anyway. ;)I find intelligence sexy, the occasional typo is to be expected but I appreciate well written profiles and e-mails. A "u" does not mean "you", it means someone is too lazy and disrespectful to type 2 extra characters. If tattoos are a deal breaker then I'm not the gal for you. Mine are very significant to me, only one is visible to the general public. If things progress, maybe you can go on a little scavenger hunt for the others. ;) If you would like a response from me, please have pictures, it's only fair. And guys, if all of your pic's are of you in sunglasses and a hat, do us gals a favor and post at least one without 'em. And I thought it should go without saying but apparently not; we really do not find shirtless bathroom mirror pic's attractive, most of us find them a turn-off.And bonus points if you're an asset in the Zombie Apocalypse. ;) A great date is more about the "who" than the "what", that being said, I appreciate creativity and uniqueness, but an acceptable first "meet" would be meeting for drinks at some place casual. A first "date" is a whole different story. ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Pamela from Centralia | Woman | 47 years old | Scorpio
    Pamela

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    My crutches, scooter and boot are crazy attractive. In an effort to save us both time and effort, may I ask that you be real with me in your correspondence and your images. Your not doing yourself or me any favors by misrepresenting yourself. Don't say you are athletic if you over weight, don't post pictures of yourself at 30. I want to see what you look like now. Once you meet the cats out of the bag and relationships can not begin with deceit. I look exactly like my pictures. I would like it if you could say something more then Hi, when you text me. I have listed a ton of interests, so you should be able to find something in there that we have in common. Greetings, A little about me... I am missing something in this profile, I am not sure what. Perhaps you can help. I did my best to tell you about me, but I am not receiving many responses but people that are compatible with me. Perhaps I come across as to confident. I am most of the time. I am vulnerable like everyone at times. I really do look and feel, minus the broken ankle, better then ever. I am a fun, smart, educated, attractive woman that is full of energy, a zest for life and an imagination that is off the charts. I do work out, but prefer something that is fun like Zumba, Kick boxing and outdoor activities. I love the water... the beaches, lakes, rivers, water activities and eating food that comes out of the water! I am a Hybrid Geek. I am a programmer/Analyst... this profession was an accident. I am a Marketing and Real Estate Major. I have never met a stranger... so I am easy to talk to. I often find myself listening to a stranger’s life story in the grocery store. (Not kidding) I don't know what my future holds and that is so exciting. I don't know what I am a looking for but I know what I am not looking for. I don't have a list of requirements for a man. I have preferences, but the beauty of being human is that we are all so different. I am artistic and have lots of hobbies including painting on canvas, or anything that will sit still long enough.. graphics, remodeling and photography. I am very auditory and music of all types plays a major role in my life. Listening to live music hand hanging out with friend and family are some of my favorite pass times. I enjoy wine...; I am currently knocking items off my bucket list. There are still plenty of item left to do...whats on your list. *** My mind is 47 but my body and spirit are 40, I need you to keep up.***Experiencing the locals is one of the beauties of traveling. I prefer to find the dives, diners and drive-ins over franchises. Traveling can be as far away as France or a stay-cation where you go to a local town and discover the little jewels it has to offer. To me its all about the journey, experiencing new things. I can't think of anything I don't like to do. I love all foods, except Olives. I am separated all paperwork done... with no chance of reconciliation. I listed as dating but nothing serious. I am not oppose to a relationship, if I find the right person, sure I would go for it.'Does not want kids' - Does not mean you can't have them. I have grown step daughters and grand children. If you are only looking for sex or want a sugar momma, pass me by please! I am financially established and I prefer you are. My Preference: Your glass is half full. You have a passion for life. You have a life and friends: I think the best relationships come from two whole people that come together to share there lives.You like yourself, you are confident and caringIf you are self supportive.You have a since of humor and you laugh oftenOptimally you would be established in your career ,educated and be able to carry on an intelligent conversationYou are physically fit/active between 37 and 53 or at least look and act it, enjoy getting out and doing thing.*** My mind is 47 but my body and spirit are 40, I need you to keep up.*** Something in public. Meet for a drink, have dinner, coffee... What ever works at the time. I don't like to drag out conversations over ***, what's the point. You will know if you are compatible once you meet.****PRIVACY NOTICE:Warning--any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one.

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  • Mistie from Centralia | Woman | 48 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Hi there!I am woman who laughs freely, is open-minded, youthful, caring, and attentive…down-to-earth and willing to strike up a conversation with just about anyone. I have a sentimental side as well…little things easily tug at my heart. I am health and exercise oriented, but do enjoy restaurants occasionally. You will never accuse me of being a couch potato – I’ll try (almost) anything once, and have a zeal for experiencing life.I’m a city girl who transplanted herself to the country. I appreciate both lifestyles, but really enjoy where I am now…the quiet, the friendliness really appeal to me. Fussy or metrosexual types need not apply…Love the Packers.…regardless of their success. Bucks? Did I mention I love the Packers…lol.I enjoy my career and have a great group of friends. Do you have a good circle of friends as well? Let's throw a party! I own my home, I live on a lake. Life is good…I'd like to share it with the right guy.My divorce was relatively uneventful. My baggage will fit into an overhead compartment...easily. So yes, I want to find someone with whom I can share deep conversations, intimate moments, and laugh uproariously. I don’t expect it to happen overnight. A friend first and a lover eventually…a man whose arms I can sink into...a man who can make the rest of the world disappear. Best of luck in your search. Something casual that allows us to get to know each other better. Meeting for coffee or a drink would be great.

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  • Doria from Centralia | Woman | 46 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    YOLO - You Only Live Once!I'm a wonderful strong independent woman who likes to be on the go. I have a great career and like to spend time with my friends and family and my two beautiful daughters. I enjoy watching most sports like hockey, football, golf, and car racing. Favorite kinds of movies: marvel comics, anything with hot cars and action, sci-fi, and drama movies too.Don't get too excited now - I love to buy and wear beautiful shoes, pretty dresses, jewelry and perfume too! Exploring new experiences and different places is exciting...I started playing golf this past summer and fell in love with it....music drives my soul and I love meeting new people.What am I looking for in a man....well here it is in a nut shellI'm looking for a tall strong confident man to share some fun and exciting time with. Someone to experience new things - old things - laughing - hugging - kissing - and yes someone to talk with - a man who has their own life and responsibilities but looking to share some of his personal time with a fun outgoing caring woman...Who knows where it might end up but it definitely has to start somewhere!If you don't have a profile picture I won't reply or be interested either.So, if you think you would like to get to know me better - please send me a message! Lets chat and decide together....Cheers

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