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Benedicta, 50
United States, Illinois, Casey

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About Me

I'm an esthetician, love the spa industry and moving into the medical aesthetics side. I've always taken good care of myself, eat healthy and work out regularly. I'm up for many physical activities and thinking I'd like to take up tennis. Just turned 50, still not sure how I feel about it but none the less get a kick out of this age thing because everyone thinks I'm way younger. Works for me! : ) I have been divorced for 10 yrs, have a wonderful 17 yr old son whom I adore and a good relationship with his dad. How does someone pick a personality type in one word?!! I had such trouble with that as I'm sure most fit in to many categories.... But I'm described as warm and friendly, down to earth, authentic, playful and fun with a serious side when needed, sweet and sometimes sassy, ; ) very perceptive, passionate, compassionate, affectionate, romantic, classy, intelligent, curious, professional, creative, positve, honest and grounded... think that's enough for now! : )Few things I believe in.... -That a good woman will reassure and comfort her man after a bad day. Inspire him to do things he never thought he could; to live without fear and enable him to express his deepest emotions and give in to his most intimate desires.-That a healthy strong man knows when he has a good woman and doesn't do things to lose her.... But does everything to cherish her (and visa versa)-I believe we are all here to connect to our hearts & live our lives in their fullest expression of who we really are and have fun while doing it... -That all things are possible if one is willing..I love to be social but also need my quiet time. Tend to be on the creative side... love to listen to music and can get wrapped up in anything that moves me or simply at times to relax or energize. I know what I want and not afraid to go after it. Relationships take first priority in my life, have a lot to give but has to go both ways. Trust, communication, and a healthy, balanced lifestyle are all important to me with no time for games, drama or players. Love stimulating conversation that draws me in with curiosity and interest and spending time with postive people who have great energy and make me laugh.I don't know much about astrology signs but do know there's a lot of me that's not Capricorn so I must be a strong mix of something else... I'm excited about and looking forward to the next chapter, I believe there's a lot of great things to come! : )If you have sent me a message, please know I have appreciated it, even if it has not been answered. And if you send a message but don't have a profile picture please attach one! Something simple where we can talk and get to know one another a little.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

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