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Merla, 48
United States, Illinois, Carterville

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About Me

Looking to get back into the dating scene as I have taken a 2 year break for myself. My feeling is that you are never gonna know if something works unless you try it.I don't play games, I don't cheat, I don't lie, and I am honest so ask me anything and I will tell you but prepared for the truth. If you are a player and have lots of girls on the side, move on because I am not the girl for you. I am looking for someone who is stable both emotionally and financially, responsible, honest, and trustworthy but more importantly likes to have a great time whether it be talking, cooking dinner together, watching a movie, or sharing a great bottle of wine.If you start a conversation with me and realize that we aren't compatible or you decide you are not interested after all, please be honest and tell me. Don't just stop talking. Honesty will take you far; *** get you nothing but a lot of lonely nights. Only ask for my number if you are going to call me and ask me out. Life is too short to play games and don't think just hanging on to my number is until you feel like calling is going to get results. I don't wait by the phone, so basically unless you are serious about calling me and getting to know me don't ask for my number. If you are not interested in forming a relationship and only are interested in one-night stands or just being friends and have no plans to go beyond that, move on and don't waste your time on me because I am not looking for a hook up or more friends. I have come to the point in my life where I would like to meet someone who is interested in dating and getting to know each other to see what happens. The first date should be pretty casual like dinner and a movie or dinner and a drive around town to get to know each other and see what happens. I only kiss on the first date if I know there is going to be a second one, it is a rule that I stick to, so if you are interested and want to see me again, ask for that date, and I will give you a good night kiss after the first date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hip-Hop Dance American Irish Mexican Dirt Bike Racing
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