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Elsy, 46
United States, Illinois, Carterville

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About Me

About me well this is something that is totally up to the individual you might meet in your life. If you were to ask my family they would say I am a good person, a good mom and kind to others. If you were to ask my friends they would say I am funny, smart and caring and a bit of a smart ass. There is a lot about me I am not perfect never try to be what you see is what you get. My interests vary I like to cook, go out, watch movies, read and go to museums. I like old cars and baseball and I like to garden, and swim. Camping is good but I am not a real out doors person. Although I do seem go to outside a lot …loll the one thing I truly love is to be creative weather is painting or drawing or making crafts and jewelry. Other than my daughter that is one thing that makes me truly happy. I like to read about things in the world I didn’t go to college but too several college courses. I am very close to my family and that will never change even if my address does. I am not a barbie doll and don’t pretend to be I am a big beautiful woman and a hopeful romantic. Now I do understand that chemistry is a lot and you have to really be attracted with a woman besides finding her stimulating in your life. Just remember that not all good things come in a size 4. So take me as I am and enjoy the curves all of them hey we could end up having a great time with each other and the rest will fall into place. Ok the man I am looking for is kind, funny, and family man caring he is closer to my age between the ages of 35 and 52. I do have a young child so a man. So even if his kids are fully-grown must be ok with mine being young.He doesn’t have to be a Rockefeller but he has to know what he wants out of life. He can be hard worker but is able to find time for the woman he wants to be with. Being a kid at heart works great and a willingness to just be able to hang and cuddle is even better I like him to not be afraid to show that he is proud of the woman that he is with. Just a note please if your intested in someone who is kind at heart and will be a true friend and lover and if your interested in a big beautiful woman. Then contact me if your not then I wish you the best of luck . I don't want a one night stand so please know I want something meaningful and a friend and lover for a long term. Oh I am a mom first and formost so please know that my time is spent with my daughter. Just something simple nice dinner and a place to talk and get to know each other and who knows maybe a movie. I am easy going just want to get to know the person that I am going out on a date with. *****PLEASE NOTE****** I am worth knowing and not just as a online friend. I am a hopeful romantic,kind,loving person I want to have a friend and lover and more in my life. But I am not going to be a one night stand I am worth alot more. I am proud of the woman I am and Proud to improve myself always. I want someone to see that and not just want to get "off" by asking for nude or sexy pictures. Be excited yes,be turned on, and yes want me I prmoise it will be worth it. I want to be respected desired and I will give the same. Now if your from a Overseas forget contacting me I will not bother. thanks for reading thanks for understanding and good luck >>>>>YOU WILL GET A RESPONSE IF YOU HAVE A PICTURE PLEASE HAVE A PICTURE THANK YOU if your looking for friends with benefits look on I want someone who is a man and a relationship not a teenager or someone reliving his lost youth

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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