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Lai, 50
United States, Illinois, Carlyle

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About Me

Ok, hello there, I am Rita. I am a new RN graduate. I work currently as LPN for a hospice company, but now I can move on after state boards and work as an RN in a different part of nursing. Communication and laughter is what life is about to me. I am not asking you to be carrying around one of my stinky old shoes, to charm me, Lord knows I would never be caught dead in some glass shoes, they would hurt my feet, but I show others respect and want the same. I'm here not trying to come in your life and rearrange your furniture and cabinets in your home, or redecorate it, you might think you are at the wrong house leave and I would be sitting there all alone. I want to be a person that you might want to start out slow and get to know one another talk and laugh with each other to build toward the intimacy that adults want to share. Where we know that the other has more substance there that they truly care for one another more than just that roll in the hay. I want to be able to call someone my boyfriend and that they want to call me their girlfriend. So if you are married and looking for a woman to give you what your wife don't I'm not that woman, if you want a woman that is only good when she is convenient for you, then I'm not her either. I'm not a good friends with benefits type person, cause I take offense to being thought of as a last minute thought, I don't want to treat a man that way so wouldn't want them to treat me that way. I'm really a relaxed funny person when you get to know me :)I like to get out amongst people and enjoy life. I have a lot to offer someone. I'm a good cook, I'm a good friend and have a awesome sense of humor. I treat people how I want to be treated. I can talk politics, but some might not like my views because I'm a for the people type person. In other words I lean more to the democratic side...say it whatever you will, but I don't like to see angry little Republican men throwing temper tantrums about things that really don't even make a difference in our society. I say they need to go relax and sing some karaoke, it might help lower their blood pressure. I have 3 grown children, my oldest has a syndrome called Kabuki and she is the happiest person on earth that lives life to the fullest. I like many things and hope one day to find a nice man that likes to get out and enjoy life.What's up with all the men trying to look like the guys off Duck Dynasty? Not good, just saying....lolIf I write something to you doesn't necessarily mean that I think you will write me back, I don't expect some to write back that I know I'm not their cup of tea, but like to recognize when someone has a good profile that they say things that I believe are good and honest what people should hear, or that shows they have a great personality. We all can't like everyone, but I do think I get along with most people...loved it. I think now that I have my passport I will get to see more of the world. Pretty easy going, whatever it takes to meet a nice person out there. I do think though once through the first date, if there is chemistry a nice second date to get to know each other is hop in the car and go for a long ride talking to one another and stop somewhere fun to eat, or some event along the way.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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