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Lai, 50

United States, Illinois, Carlyle

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Ok, hello there, I am Rita. I am a new RN graduate. I work currently as LPN for a hospice company, but now I can move on after state boards and work as an RN in a different part of nursing. Communication and laughter is what life is about to me. I am not asking you to be carrying around one of my stinky old shoes, to charm me, Lord knows I would never be caught dead in some glass shoes, they would hurt my feet, but I show others respect and want the same. I'm here not trying to come in your life and rearrange your furniture and cabinets in your home, or redecorate it, you might think you are at the wrong house leave and I would be sitting there all alone. I want to be a person that you might want to start out slow and get to know one another talk and laugh with each other to build toward the intimacy that adults want to share. Where we know that the other has more substance there that they truly care for one another more than just that roll in the hay. I want to be able to call someone my boyfriend and that they want to call me their girlfriend. So if you are married and looking for a woman to give you what your wife don't I'm not that woman, if you want a woman that is only good when she is convenient for you, then I'm not her either. I'm not a good friends with benefits type person, cause I take offense to being thought of as a last minute thought, I don't want to treat a man that way so wouldn't want them to treat me that way. I'm really a relaxed funny person when you get to know me :)I like to get out amongst people and enjoy life. I have a lot to offer someone. I'm a good cook, I'm a good friend and have a awesome sense of humor. I treat people how I want to be treated. I can talk politics, but some might not like my views because I'm a for the people type person. In other words I lean more to the democratic side...say it whatever you will, but I don't like to see angry little Republican men throwing temper tantrums about things that really don't even make a difference in our society. I say they need to go relax and sing some karaoke, it might help lower their blood pressure. I have 3 grown children, my oldest has a syndrome called Kabuki and she is the happiest person on earth that lives life to the fullest. I like many things and hope one day to find a nice man that likes to get out and enjoy life.What's up with all the men trying to look like the guys off Duck Dynasty? Not good, just saying....lolIf I write something to you doesn't necessarily mean that I think you will write me back, I don't expect some to write back that I know I'm not their cup of tea, but like to recognize when someone has a good profile that they say things that I believe are good and honest what people should hear, or that shows they have a great personality. We all can't like everyone, but I do think I get along with most people...loved it. I think now that I have my passport I will get to see more of the world. Pretty easy going, whatever it takes to meet a nice person out there. I do think though once through the first date, if there is chemistry a nice second date to get to know each other is hop in the car and go for a long ride talking to one another and stop somewhere fun to eat, or some event along the way.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Japanese Action Crime Family & Kids History Basketball Computer Games
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  • Clover from Carlyle | Woman | 49 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I have 3 grown children and a granddaughter (who is my most adorable little boobala, love her beyond words). I love sports (playing, watching and going to the actual games) I'm a NY girl always at heart so I'm a Jets, Mets and Rangers fan!!! Odly enough I'm a Heat fan - go figure that! I love the beach, boating, fishing anything having to do with water. Not into club scenes any more that's long past I'm more of a let's go to the local bar where I can relax with no drama maybe shoot some pool, throw some darts, listen to some music and have some drinks. There really isn't anything I don't like to do and there are a few things I would still love to try and haven't gotten to do so far in my life. Believe it or not there are 2 things I've been dying to do my whole life and yet haven't been able to and that is go to an island (my ultimate thing I want to do) and go on a cruise I have always wanted and longed to travel to places I've only dreamed and read about and hope to be able to do soon, as I do love life and have a lot more living to do. Would love to find someone with my same general interests, positive attitude, always wanting to believe the best in people, someone who is honest and sincere truly not just at the beginning when I meet you because let's face it nothing is worse than being in a relationship with someone you don't know! I am Taurus the bull so can be stubborn, but steadfast, loyal beyond belief sometimes to a fault. I truly am a hopeless romantic and even though I've been married and in long term relationships and they didn't work for whatever reason at the time I still in my heart truly believe that there is my true love, soul mate and best friend out there looking for me as I'm looking for you! I love to joke around so I need to have someone with a great sense of humor that will always make me smile that is very important to me. I'm a firm believer that there has to be something (at least one thing) that attracts a person to another whether it be the eyes, the smile, the sense of humor whatever it may be it has to make you keep wanting to come back over and over and over again to be with that person. And if you truly want to be with a person no matter what is going on in your life like work, or children you will always find a way to be with that person. Where there's a will, there's a way, right???****They say behind every good man is a good women so here I am waiting to find my good man**** I hope your out there!!!**NOTICE AND WARNING: Individuals and/or *** this site or any of its affiliated sites for studies, marketing, research projects, or any other purpose, DO NOT have my permission to use in part or as a whole my profile or pictures in any form or forum, for any purpose. Or maybe a simple dinner on the beach somewhere picturesque. My second choice would probably be going to either a baseball, football, basketball or hockey game since I'm such a sports nut, with maybe drinks and food before or after, but I guess this one would only be if you were a sports nut like me too!

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  • Alyssia from Carlyle | Woman | 46 years old | Taurus
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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I like all types of music. County, Oldies, Rock.I like action movies. Point of No Return. Resident Evil.I like to go fishing and camping.I like to bowl but I am not very good.

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  • Jodie from Carlyle | Woman | 47 years old | Gemini
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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I've been single awhile now and ready to try again. I try to live the best life I can. So openness and honesty are important. Not into the games and drama that seems to be so common these days.I have many different hobbies but most would bore most people lol. It's seems like there's not much time for much anymore tho. Between work, keeping up the house & yard takes up most of my time. Try to go to the gym ***x week, have put on a few pounds that I'm not too happy about. I'm very involved in the children's activities at my church.The only real goal I have right now is to get myself in a position to retire well at age 60.I travel a fair amount, for fun. I took my first cruise last year and hope to do that again.Hope I haven't bored you to death lol . Message me if you're sincere and would like to know more. But if you're not really looking for anything serious or are into games or drama, please pass me by. Way too old for that.And btw - it's perfectly ok if you're a few years younger than me. ***seems to be my age range ;-) but not a requirement ! Meet for coffee or drinks then decide if there will be a second date ;-)

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