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Lai, 50
United States, Illinois, Carlyle

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About Me

Ok, hello there, I am Rita. I am a new RN graduate. I work currently as LPN for a hospice company, but now I can move on after state boards and work as an RN in a different part of nursing. Communication and laughter is what life is about to me. I am not asking you to be carrying around one of my stinky old shoes, to charm me, Lord knows I would never be caught dead in some glass shoes, they would hurt my feet, but I show others respect and want the same. I'm here not trying to come in your life and rearrange your furniture and cabinets in your home, or redecorate it, you might think you are at the wrong house leave and I would be sitting there all alone. I want to be a person that you might want to start out slow and get to know one another talk and laugh with each other to build toward the intimacy that adults want to share. Where we know that the other has more substance there that they truly care for one another more than just that roll in the hay. I want to be able to call someone my boyfriend and that they want to call me their girlfriend. So if you are married and looking for a woman to give you what your wife don't I'm not that woman, if you want a woman that is only good when she is convenient for you, then I'm not her either. I'm not a good friends with benefits type person, cause I take offense to being thought of as a last minute thought, I don't want to treat a man that way so wouldn't want them to treat me that way. I'm really a relaxed funny person when you get to know me :)I like to get out amongst people and enjoy life. I have a lot to offer someone. I'm a good cook, I'm a good friend and have a awesome sense of humor. I treat people how I want to be treated. I can talk politics, but some might not like my views because I'm a for the people type person. In other words I lean more to the democratic side...say it whatever you will, but I don't like to see angry little Republican men throwing temper tantrums about things that really don't even make a difference in our society. I say they need to go relax and sing some karaoke, it might help lower their blood pressure. I have 3 grown children, my oldest has a syndrome called Kabuki and she is the happiest person on earth that lives life to the fullest. I like many things and hope one day to find a nice man that likes to get out and enjoy life.What's up with all the men trying to look like the guys off Duck Dynasty? Not good, just saying....lolIf I write something to you doesn't necessarily mean that I think you will write me back, I don't expect some to write back that I know I'm not their cup of tea, but like to recognize when someone has a good profile that they say things that I believe are good and honest what people should hear, or that shows they have a great personality. We all can't like everyone, but I do think I get along with most people...loved it. I think now that I have my passport I will get to see more of the world. Pretty easy going, whatever it takes to meet a nice person out there. I do think though once through the first date, if there is chemistry a nice second date to get to know each other is hop in the car and go for a long ride talking to one another and stop somewhere fun to eat, or some event along the way.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Japanese Action Crime Family & Kids History Basketball Computer Games
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  • Candy from Carlyle | Woman | 47 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I AM MULTILINGUAL, WELL-TRAVELED/EDUCATED, PASSIONATE, ICONOCLASTIC, SPONTANEOUS, WITH A UNIQUE SENSE OF STYLE. I BELIVE IN EXERCISING ONE'S BODY AND BRAIN ON A DAILY BASIS. I AM LOOKING FOR A SPECIAL MAN WITH WHOM TO COMMUNICATE ON A HIGHER LEVEL. I AM LOOKING FOR AN ATTRACTIVE MAN, WHO IS IN GREAT SHAPE, NOT OVER 57. THE ENERGY ONE PROJECTS IS VERY IMPORTANT. SINE QVA NON QUALITIES ARE: CHARACTER, INTELLIGENCE, SPONTANEITY, FLEXIBILITY AND BEING GENUINE. I LOVE A MAN IN A SUIT. I PREFER A EUROPEAN OR A CANADIAN MAN.I DO NOT CHAT BECAUSE I DON'T SPEND MUCH TIME BY THE COMPUTER . I PREFER TALKING ON THE PHONE BECAUSE IT'S LESS IMPERSONAL AND I CAN LEARN A LOT ABOUT SOMEONE BY TALKING AND LISTENING TO HIS VOICE.I AM ESTABLISHED AND NOT LOOKING FOR A MAN TO GIVE ME SHELTER, SUPPORT, OR RAISE MY CHILDREN. IT'S NOT THE CASE. BUT I AM LOOKING FOR A PARTNER WITH WHOM TO TRAVEL, SPEND QUALITY TIME AND SHARE INCREDIBLE EXPERIENCES. I AM NOT GOING TO COMPROMISE OR SETTLE JUST SO THAT I WON'T BE ALONE. I WANT TO FIND A MAN I CAN RESPECT AND LOVE.the following is in response to my meetville experience:IF YOU CANNOT TALK ON THE PHONE, DON'T CONTACT ME. THERE'S SOMETHING WRONG AND SCARY ABOUT PEOPLE WHO CANNOT COMMUNICATE VERBALLY. IF ALL YOU CAN OFFER ME IS A FEW HOURS A WEEK BECAUSE THE REST OF THE TIME YOU'RE TOO BUSY WITH WORK AND YOUNG CHILDREN, PLEASE DO NOT CONTACT ME. I HAVE MET MEN WHO JUST BROKE UP WITH THEIR WIVES AND THE NEXT DAY THEY ARE ON THE INTERNET DATING. YOU MUST HAVE ALL YOUR LIFE IN ORDER AND THEN LOOK FOR WOMEN TO DATE. IF YOU ARE LOOKING JUST FOR "PASSIONATE " SEX OR OTHER ENCOUNTERS, I RECOMMEND YOU HIRE PROSTITUES. DO NOT WRITE TO ME THAT YOU WANT TO MEET BECAUSE I'M HOT.I AM A WOMAN OF THE HIGHEST QUALITY . YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE AND IF YOU COULD BE A GOOD MATCH FOR ME. LET'S NOT WASTE OUR TIME.i use either all cpital letters or low case because i am not good at typing. guys asked weird questions (such as if i'm angy?!). no, i just am not good at typing. OUR FIRST DATE COULD BE ANYWHERE AS LONG AS WE CONNECT. I WOULD JUST LIKE TO TALK AND FIND CHEMISTRY AND ATTRACTION. I AM IMPRESSED BY INTELLIGENCE AND A SENSE OF HUMOR. ONE THING IS FOR SURE: YOU WILL NEVER BE BORED IN MY COMPANY. I AM VERY ENTERTAINING, CULTURED AND HAVE A GREAT SENSE OF HUMOR.

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  • Kelleigh from Carlyle | Woman | 49 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Well here it goes.......I am looking for a serious realationship with a man that is trusting,respectful,smart and can make me laugh. I like to go to baseball games,drag races,going to watch a good movie,horse races, museums,concerts, and country dancing.I love hugs,cuddling, and passionate kisses.Holding hands is always nice too.I like showing affection and recieveing it. I do know how to be a lady. I am a caring,loving, and sometimes brutally honest. I can be a little shy at first. I love kids but am glad mine are grown. I like all kinds of music. Rock is my 1st choice. Thanks for reading my profile and good luck to you on your quest. Something simple and in public.

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  • Shaunta from Carlyle | Woman | 50 years old | Aries
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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I'm a single lady with a daughter living with me at home. I like to find that some special someone to spend time with. I love to go on drives to anywhere. I like to spend alot of time hiking and getting in my kayak. I love to camp. Looking for that special man out there that would like to do the same. I like to go to winerys. I am a famil person. I have four daughters and 5 grandkids and one on the way. I like to ride bikes and hope that one day I will have my Harley so that i can really ride. So for all you men out there I wish luck on this sight. The first date i would say maybe a walk in the woods. What ever we both agree on.

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