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Clover, 49
United States, Illinois, Carlyle

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About Me

I have 3 grown children and a granddaughter (who is my most adorable little boobala, love her beyond words). I love sports (playing, watching and going to the actual games) I'm a NY girl always at heart so I'm a Jets, Mets and Rangers fan!!! Odly enough I'm a Heat fan - go figure that! I love the beach, boating, fishing anything having to do with water. Not into club scenes any more that's long past I'm more of a let's go to the local bar where I can relax with no drama maybe shoot some pool, throw some darts, listen to some music and have some drinks. There really isn't anything I don't like to do and there are a few things I would still love to try and haven't gotten to do so far in my life. Believe it or not there are 2 things I've been dying to do my whole life and yet haven't been able to and that is go to an island (my ultimate thing I want to do) and go on a cruise I have always wanted and longed to travel to places I've only dreamed and read about and hope to be able to do soon, as I do love life and have a lot more living to do. Would love to find someone with my same general interests, positive attitude, always wanting to believe the best in people, someone who is honest and sincere truly not just at the beginning when I meet you because let's face it nothing is worse than being in a relationship with someone you don't know! I am Taurus the bull so can be stubborn, but steadfast, loyal beyond belief sometimes to a fault. I truly am a hopeless romantic and even though I've been married and in long term relationships and they didn't work for whatever reason at the time I still in my heart truly believe that there is my true love, soul mate and best friend out there looking for me as I'm looking for you! I love to joke around so I need to have someone with a great sense of humor that will always make me smile that is very important to me. I'm a firm believer that there has to be something (at least one thing) that attracts a person to another whether it be the eyes, the smile, the sense of humor whatever it may be it has to make you keep wanting to come back over and over and over again to be with that person. And if you truly want to be with a person no matter what is going on in your life like work, or children you will always find a way to be with that person. Where there's a will, there's a way, right???****They say behind every good man is a good women so here I am waiting to find my good man**** I hope your out there!!!**NOTICE AND WARNING: Individuals and/or *** this site or any of its affiliated sites for studies, marketing, research projects, or any other purpose, DO NOT have my permission to use in part or as a whole my profile or pictures in any form or forum, for any purpose. Or maybe a simple dinner on the beach somewhere picturesque. My second choice would probably be going to either a baseball, football, basketball or hockey game since I'm such a sports nut, with maybe drinks and food before or after, but I guess this one would only be if you were a sports nut like me too!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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