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Abegayle, 47
United States, Illinois, Carbondale

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About Me

Update July 14, ***: I have only been on this site a short time and already I see a trend. 1. If you don't have current pictures, please don't message me. I'm sure you are a great guy and we would have fascinating conversation, but this is a dating site. You wouldn't want to see pics of that car on craigslist BEFORE the crash would you? My pics are current, and if I'm not your type it's ok. I wish you the best of luck with your search.2. If you are young enough to be my son, I'm not interested. It would weird me out to date you. I would feel I need to cut up your dinner and tie your shoelaces. So, if you passed #1 and #2 and you are still reading.....I am a busy professional and a single mother of a teen. I have four dogs and a horse. I am also an actor, director, and choreographer. I am recently divorced after a very long marriage. The last time I was dating the internet didn't even exist. I'm a little apprehensive of the on-line dating but not sure where else more "mature" folks meet? I am politically liberal and do a better job than most of keeping up on news and politics. I have been fortunate to travel to a few different countries and hope to see many more. I think my all time favorite place is Rota, Spain. I wish there was a job for me there because I would move there tomorrow if I could. Most recently I have been reading "Paranormal Romance" and I don't expect to meet a man who reads that genre. I can and do read more serious literature but in the last year I felt the need to read just for fun. I enjoy the usual stuff, wine tasting, dinner, movies, theatre, etc. I am not a camper. Sorry! I do enjoy the outdoors but think there should be a shower, a glass of wine, and a comfy bed at the end of the day. I can do without TV just fine, but don't enjoy sleeping in a tent. I enjoy discussing religion and politics but please note that I am politically liberal. I like to think I'm too pragmatic for drama. Not that I'm unemotional, but I really don't have the need, or time, to manipulate others. I just re-read my profile and it sounds so serious. I guess I was trying to present a different picture from all the others that say, "I like to have fun" and "I love to laugh." Don't we all like those things? I have no predefined expectations. A drink and conversation would be great.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Well I guess I'm ready for the next phase of my life. My children don't need me as much anymore, so now it's time to think about me. I'm very honest. I work hard. I am a very confident woman. I walk with my head up high, always! I'm also funny on the sarcastic side. I don't mean harm just look for the humor in the situation. I like a lot of different types of music, just not rap. I don't do drugs can't handle much alcohol anymore either. Kinda sucks but I guess that's just what happens when you get a little um older? I also don't want the person I meet to be into those things either. Ive been there, not fun. It would be all the better if we lived within a reasonable distance of each other. In other words, close. Anyway, hope someone for me is out there! XO. P.S. And if your looking for a Barbie keep it movin darlin, I'm not her. Sorry. P.p.s. if you have no picture please get one. If your younger than me that's wonderful! But I'm not interested. K? Another thing that kinda is annoying, in the space provided for personality when you guys leave it saying no personality! That tells me your boring! Ok so what's changed? Used to be easy to meet guys. Today guys don't approach women anymore. How come? Everyone or most that contact me are from another state, or just to far for me to travel. I can't believe I'm back on here. Looking for a decent man? OMG Theres no such thing. Your all in a relationship looking for something "better". What's wrong with all of you? At this age and stage haven't you had enough? Aren't you tired of the little boy games you have played all your life? Don't you wanna relax now and enjoy the rest of your life with a good woman who wants the same comfy easy life as you really do with no bullshit! Wake the **** up! Grow up!! Don't contact me if you are not serious. Please I'm way past the bullshit! First date/meeting? I think coffee is a good start. Not to long. However if we hit it off and there is an immediate connection.....the reason I pick I quick meet and greet is because I am the type of person that can tell within the first couple of minutes if your a good person or not. Wether we will make a good connection or not. You can take that as a good thing or a bad thing. For me it's good. For most, well.....that's probably why I'm single. So if you have something to hide, I'll "see" it. No game playing, to old for that.

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