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Abegayle, 47
United States, Illinois, Carbondale

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About Me

Update July 14, ***: I have only been on this site a short time and already I see a trend. 1. If you don't have current pictures, please don't message me. I'm sure you are a great guy and we would have fascinating conversation, but this is a dating site. You wouldn't want to see pics of that car on craigslist BEFORE the crash would you? My pics are current, and if I'm not your type it's ok. I wish you the best of luck with your search.2. If you are young enough to be my son, I'm not interested. It would weird me out to date you. I would feel I need to cut up your dinner and tie your shoelaces. So, if you passed #1 and #2 and you are still reading.....I am a busy professional and a single mother of a teen. I have four dogs and a horse. I am also an actor, director, and choreographer. I am recently divorced after a very long marriage. The last time I was dating the internet didn't even exist. I'm a little apprehensive of the on-line dating but not sure where else more "mature" folks meet? I am politically liberal and do a better job than most of keeping up on news and politics. I have been fortunate to travel to a few different countries and hope to see many more. I think my all time favorite place is Rota, Spain. I wish there was a job for me there because I would move there tomorrow if I could. Most recently I have been reading "Paranormal Romance" and I don't expect to meet a man who reads that genre. I can and do read more serious literature but in the last year I felt the need to read just for fun. I enjoy the usual stuff, wine tasting, dinner, movies, theatre, etc. I am not a camper. Sorry! I do enjoy the outdoors but think there should be a shower, a glass of wine, and a comfy bed at the end of the day. I can do without TV just fine, but don't enjoy sleeping in a tent. I enjoy discussing religion and politics but please note that I am politically liberal. I like to think I'm too pragmatic for drama. Not that I'm unemotional, but I really don't have the need, or time, to manipulate others. I just re-read my profile and it sounds so serious. I guess I was trying to present a different picture from all the others that say, "I like to have fun" and "I love to laugh." Don't we all like those things? I have no predefined expectations. A drink and conversation would be great.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    My life is cake.. I am looking for the frosting..I have a terrific life and would love to find someone to share it with. My kids are fantastic, my friends are the best and now I am ready to have a great guy to call my own.What is he like? Smart, funny and secure.. And since this is My wish list, tall, clean cut and HWP too please. He looks good cleaned up and probably even better after a few days in the woods. We all have baggage but hopefully his is of the carry-on variety, not the 4-piece matching set variety. Now for some deal breakers: Distance.. Please be somewhat local.. I have done the long distance thing and it doesn't work for me. If you have anger issues, control issues or jealousy issues, please pass me by. Ditto if you are still married.. Jeez, do I really have to say that? Also, please don't expect me to respond if you don't have pictures on your profile. Sorry..On the positive side, I look good in jeans or a little black dress. I am comfortable in a dive bar shooting pool or at your company function. I can start a fire, love college football (LSU!!) and the Yankees. I can cook and love to entertain in my home. My friends would tell you that I am smart, funny and the party starts when I arrive. I am not a gym rat, but I do enjoy being active. I am sure there are other things I should mention, but this is a start. Interested? Something quick and public.. Coffee? Happy hour?

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

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    Looking for someone genuine, hard to find it seems.But I am not giving up!! I am sure there has to be one man that is able to talk like a gentleman and reciprocate an intelligent conversation with a woman. I was asked once if I was conservative. I didn't think so. But if being conservative means not talking bull***and not doing dare questionnaires then I guess I am a so called "conservative"!! Doesn't stop me from laughing. P.S. If I do not reply reread my profile.................lol!I am looking for fit men who take care of themselves. Someone who is hip and up to date, yet still holds the chivalry and gentleness that I know still exists but is hard to find.He must treat a professional woman with what she deserves; respect and integrity.I enjoy nature as you must! I look at the world in whole different way than most women as I live in the moment. I do not do drama and drama, even from friends, makes me pull away! Ask any of my friends, they will tell you this and that I am a straight shooter.I am an avid horsewoman and have cats. If you are not an animal person, please move on. I am sorry horses are so very much a part of my life if you do not know much about them or able to understand the time I spend with them, there would be no real connection for me.Looks are important to me but not a deal breaker. I have met the most wonderful men in my life and it was their charm and chemistry that caught my attention.I hope this give you a *** the wholesome and straighshooter woman that I am!To everyone out there good luck. The universe is out there waiting to fulfill what you are ask for! So...... be careful what you ask for........lol! First time meetings should be the criteria we are filling out for here.The first meeting part is the hardest. Do you feel an attraction, is there chemistry and are we on the same page?

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