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Abegayle, 47
United States, Illinois, Carbondale

Offline, last seen Mon, 23 Feb 2026 10:45:43

About Me

Update July 14, ***: I have only been on this site a short time and already I see a trend. 1. If you don't have current pictures, please don't message me. I'm sure you are a great guy and we would have fascinating conversation, but this is a dating site. You wouldn't want to see pics of that car on craigslist BEFORE the crash would you? My pics are current, and if I'm not your type it's ok. I wish you the best of luck with your search.2. If you are young enough to be my son, I'm not interested. It would weird me out to date you. I would feel I need to cut up your dinner and tie your shoelaces. So, if you passed #1 and #2 and you are still reading.....I am a busy professional and a single mother of a teen. I have four dogs and a horse. I am also an actor, director, and choreographer. I am recently divorced after a very long marriage. The last time I was dating the internet didn't even exist. I'm a little apprehensive of the on-line dating but not sure where else more "mature" folks meet? I am politically liberal and do a better job than most of keeping up on news and politics. I have been fortunate to travel to a few different countries and hope to see many more. I think my all time favorite place is Rota, Spain. I wish there was a job for me there because I would move there tomorrow if I could. Most recently I have been reading "Paranormal Romance" and I don't expect to meet a man who reads that genre. I can and do read more serious literature but in the last year I felt the need to read just for fun. I enjoy the usual stuff, wine tasting, dinner, movies, theatre, etc. I am not a camper. Sorry! I do enjoy the outdoors but think there should be a shower, a glass of wine, and a comfy bed at the end of the day. I can do without TV just fine, but don't enjoy sleeping in a tent. I enjoy discussing religion and politics but please note that I am politically liberal. I like to think I'm too pragmatic for drama. Not that I'm unemotional, but I really don't have the need, or time, to manipulate others. I just re-read my profile and it sounds so serious. I guess I was trying to present a different picture from all the others that say, "I like to have fun" and "I love to laugh." Don't we all like those things? I have no predefined expectations. A drink and conversation would be great.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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