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Odette, 47
United States, Illinois, Carbondale

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About Me

I am full of contradictions, so here goes...... I am a free spirit and a old soul. I am far from simple but have little drama in my life. Family is super important to me. I practice yoga regularly and take it off the mat daily. I love to cook and will throw amazing dinner parties. I am grounded, but have a wild streak. I am spontaneous and curious. I am a loyal friend, a good listener and a lot of fun. I am usually sweet, but sometimes salty. I am mostly a good girl, but easily persuaded to be naughty. I like fast cars and slow dancing. My friends call me a designer hippy. I give, back to the community and to those less fortunate than others. I have a healthy and decadent lifestyle. I like to dig in the dirt, and will treat myself to the spa when I'm done. I like the beach when a storm is rolling in. I am independent, but like to have the door held open for me. I appreciate well mannered people. I am unconventional, but have a lot of common sense. I make my own money, and do not expect you to support me financially. I am a creative, traditional, non traditionalist, with an open mind and an open heart. I am trusting and present. I am conscious of our planet and all the beings who inhabit it. I walk through every open door, even if it frightens me. But things are shifting, and I am ready to pause for a while, with my fella wherever it may be. I would like to meet a man who will challenge my mind and nourish my soul. You believe in the importance of family. You treat people with kindness and respect. You are a trusted friend, father, lover and partner. You are compassionate, adventurous, have a lust for life and live it with integrity. You prefer slow cooking to fast food. ( unless it's In n Out! ) You want to discover the world. You love books, see art, hear music, eat well and indulge with good wine and spirits. You love to laugh. You are mentally, spiritually and physically fit. You can see when the moon is just a sliver shy of full. You believe in the future, live in the present and learn from the past. we all carry a bit of baggage. Not in a bad way, just from living this life. Peace Spontaneous. But it will defiantly include good wine, great food and compelling conversation.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am a cup-half-full, easy going girl, and really just want to find my soul mate to settle down with. I love all music and enjoy cooking a meal with someone special. Good company, a glass of wine and great conversation, and I am happy. I am a music fanatic, and rarely turn my TV on.I like to stay active and love to get out and explore new places. I have just moved to Kelowna from the coast and I am loving the sun! I like to travel and if nothing else, head to a southern destination once a year...the list is endless..I am admittedly a band wagon Hockey fan, love fast cars and the sound of a Harley. '68 Camaro or the ***Camaro.. both are very sexy I have been told that i am an attractive lady. I carry myself well and look great in a pair of jeans and heels.. I prefer taller just because I do like to wear heels. A bit of a smart ass.. always in a good mood. No drama, no sniveling!Touchy-feely , love to be connected...I can talk on pretty much any subject, love a good debate - love great conversation, and quiet sensual moments. I am interested in others' points of view, and will listen to anyone if they feel they have something to say. I am independent and financially stable and would love to meet someone who is as well.Cheers

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

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