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A REAL woman can make it on her own, but a REAL man won't let her.!!!!!I'd like to think I'm not your typical divorced Female.... I really do like/enjoy the married life..For One To Judge A Book By The Cover...Is To Be The FoolLife is short. Break the rules. Forgive quickly. Kiss slowly. Love truly. Laugh uncontrollablyNo interest in Comedy Clubs, I actually fell asleep in one. once... who does that!!!! And No, I wasn't drunk.. ;-))Hi Guys.... Let me start by saying Im 5'7 and I wear ***heels often!! So therefore im pretty tall. With that said I feel most comfortbale with a male that is min 5'***' Im sorry, I dont mean to be rude. I did not ask to be this height... you think its easy?. :-)).. now that I got that off my Chest... GUYS PLEASE NO PUCKER/DUCK MOUTH PHOTOS ..what is this world coming too.. Revised :; Please if you are going to do the infamous bathroom shot please make sure you clean your mirrors of all water and toothpaste grunge.. gross... Do you really think a girl is going to get back to you . First sign of a dirty messy guy.. not cool.. ;***also im not looking for a penpal nor do i have time to be chitchatting , texting amd *** day long.. and if thats what you like to do, then you are definitly not for me, because MEN/Gentelmen, dont behave like that,And I like Men not boys. And if you have that much time on your hands to play all day long thats not a good sign go find a job. Im just saying..Its nonsense.. dont be a hater.. Ok here we go.. Huge Heart, Great sense of humor, very caring, funny, Witty, Enjoys life, Enjoys family ..Oh did I forget to mention that I'm a GREAT cook and I live for good food, as well as entertaining guests.....Summer is my favorite season. Love Boats,love to ride horses..As for my Ideal match. ahhh ....I would like a real man not a boy!!!!one with a great sense of humor,LOYAL, huge heart, kind, fun, not to serious, can take a joke , and LIVES LARGE...One that takes pride in his appearance , dresses well, smells good..Takes care of his teeth. (FLOSS) These are some of the small things I look for But the most important thing is.. ONe that truely knows how to treat a Lady..as well as appreciates a female.. Oh yes one more thing, one that doesnt live by texing all day long.. ******PLEASE DONT ASK ME...what are you doing on this site? Im here... just like you are... thats all that matters. And I hope to meet someone wonderful, loyal and my best friend..I love to smile/laugh and watch others be happy.. "child like" zest for life type of Gal..I'm not going to sit here and say what every other person says when they join an on linedating site.. . I cannot believe I'm doing this... It's not me to do something like this. Well listen here we are and I guess we are all looking for somewhat of the same thing. Dating and hopefully to meet Mr or Mrs Right.. Its something to try so here I am. Of course you will learn the real me once we start talking .All this nonsense of describing yourself in words ahh its ok. But I like the real deal.. SO BRING IT ON Till we meet!!!! Enjoy and Good Luck .:PPlease please PLEASE for the Love of God.. Photos with your cat or dog kissing really dont do it for me..AND I DO LOVE DOGS....ALSO PLEASE KEEP YOUR SHIRT ON... And no, I don't have any tats!! Just a little nose ring... A date to me is not a walk on the beach, holding hands, under the sunset with a complete stranger.. Lets be real here.. come on.. ;-) Maybe meet a greet in the library...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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