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Gwendolyn, 48
United States, Illinois, Carbondale

Offline, last seen Tue, 13 Jan 2026 06:33:45

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UPDATE: ***I'm baaaaaaack, it's been couple years but hear I am.I want a true friend, companion and partner that includes ALL THE EXTRAS. Someone who will be there for me, who will accept my 2 children 20 yrs ( daughter who is perfect in every way,complete w/ an attitude )and 22 yr son,( my son has severe Autism so can be stressful at times). Then there is the Pitbull, a Blue ( who's afraid of the dark ),****r Spaniel ( who thinks he is a Rottweiler ), the cat ( obviously you must be pet friendly ) as a complete package and has employment of course. I just want someone there by my side as I'm sure u all understand no one wishes to be alone.Humor is always a plus plus! Someone who opens my doors for me...wait are there any left out there that do??? Now chemistry, heat, passion, electricity...and good old fashion FIRE is absolutely essential. Someone who actually has patience. I am an energetic, personable, outgoing individual. I enjoy horseback riding, jet skiing, reading, cooking, dining in or out, football....go NY GIANTS, motorcycling, HOUSE, UFC, NCIS, Son's of Anarchy travel, shopping, shopping, shopping ( I love shoes ) I don't have much time 2 look for someone the way that I would like to hence why I am on here.I am an adventuresome Italian woman. I'm pretty open minded and I am always up for new fun and excitement. I am not swayed one way or the other I can switch back and forth. Sometimes I wear extensions and sometimes I don't. Your faith is not as important to me as who you are inside. I take into consideration the entire package.I started off in Catholic schools my entire life...yeah rah rah rah NOTTTT anymore...gained another 65 pounds from then...ughI enjoy taking cruises, just floating around n soaking up the sun. I'm NOT into the whole bar scene although I would not object to an occasional night. Favorites St. I absolutely love seafood..ummmm slurping down some oysters before we...oh wait I was going to a whole different place there..(that darn inside voice talking again) But I am game for most any kind of food at least twice. My new casual & quiet place I like to go is Sushi Twister... Favorite colors are PINK & Purple. The last book I read was Tuesdays With Morrie, I cried...yessss I am a softy I admit it.I hope I have not bored you too much with me putting it all out there, but just being upfront.I look forward to hearing from you, well if your not asleep yet...winksP.S.I don't get to go out much. As my profile states I have a son with severe Autism.Caregivers are $28 per hour ***hr Minimum ). Most guys I have found on dating sites do not wishto pay me for the caregivers just to meet and go out. If you can't afford I understand as I can't either.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Archery Bowling Dance
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