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Deanna, 50
United States, Illinois, Carbondale

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About Me

Hello, and thanks for stopping by. I'm just getting back into this, and planning on taking things very slowly...baby steps....just sticking my toes in for now. Your patience is so appreciated :)I believe any good relationship starts with a great friendship. And that is where I hope to begin as well. Ultimately, would I like a committed relationship? ABSOLUTELY!! But the friendship foundation needs to be there! So, looking forward to meeting lots of people, making new friends, and hopefully, ending up with someone perfect for me!I know I am looking for a friend, an activity partner, a companion, and hopefully so much more. I've learned that although I don't NEED someone in my life, I really enjoy being in a relationship...it makes me a better person! I've recently hit several milestones and am now welcoming this new found freedom and all of the opportunities ahead. I do hope to meet someone close in age and fairly local. I would rather spend my time with my man, than driving to get to him!I find myself to be very particular about what I am looking for in a man, so please don't take it personally if I don't think we are a match. You may be absolutely fabulous, but just not what I am seeking. I don't mean for it to sound shallow, but I feel most people have a 'type' they are attracted to...you might not be able to necessarily describe it, you just know it when you feel it. It's a personal preference. I know what I am looking for, and respect that you do too! Initial attraction and chemistry is a must for me, so I apologize, no picture, no response..... it's only fair. MUST LOVE TO KISS, enjoy affection, and sometimes even spoil me! I think I was a princess in a former life! LOL! But trust me, I love making the man in my life feel special as well. And he must love to KISS! Looking for someone who can't help but touch me every time he walks by me! A relationship that our friends wish they had! And did I mention that I LOVE KISSING?!? I am hoping I find someone who thinks of me when I'm not there, and enjoys when I let him know that I thought of him throughout the day, too! Looking for a man who occasionally likes to make the effort to plan a date...doesn't have to be extravagant, just show the effort. Would like to find someone who asks good questions and listens to the answers. I want to be courted....A romantic at heart...maybe sending flowers on Tuesday....because it's Tuesday!! A female basically wants a polite thug! Someone who will open the door for her, but still smack that ass when she walks past!I am trying to live a healthier lifestyle and hope you are too! This includes eating better (Do you like to cook?) and more exercise (Accepting applications for a personal trainer, just sayin'...I sometimes need someone to whoop my ass at the gym)ME: Sometimes shy, silly, affectionate, love shopping (who doesn't), calm, happy, good communicator, a giver, always learning, willing to try, willing to fight hard for what I believe in, believe in paying-it-forward, rainbows, Publisher's Clearinghouse Sweepstakes, four-leaf clovers, fate, The Secret, and True Love!!-keeled, willing to try new things, romantic, strong, available, willing/able to communicate, have good character (it's about what you do when no one is watching), a man's man, a little bit old-fashioned AND a little bit BAD BOY with an edge, appreciate the little things, enjoy being spoiled!Thank you for reading Chapter One! Again, I appreciate the patience of a man who understands me! I wish you all the best in your search! Happy Fishing!! I prefer to have a "first meeting" (meet-n-greet) *** a first date! Then we don't have to worry so much! Maybe we meet for a drink after work! If all goes well, we can look forward to our 'real' first date....butterflies and all! I prefer something simple and casual....talk a little and see if we both feel a connection! It is usually pretty clear if we feel the desire to make a first date! And if not, we part as new friends!! Just excited to make this happen. Hoping to find someone who wants to put in the effort as well!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

South American
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