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Abiah, 50

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About Me

I believe communication is a big part of getting to know someone and even tho texting is a nice way to communicate, I feel it's taken a way getting to really know someone by really taking to a person. With that being said here's a little about me. I am hoping to find someone who loves country music and concerts as much I do, And please have a job!I enjoy traveling, taking pictures, trying new things, I am very social, I also enjoy going to concerts professional and amateur, love to meet new friends, but I cherish my old ones.. I am very easy going, drama is not a part of my life, I will walk away from an argument, life is to short to let small things get in your way of your happiness. I hate being around people who are always negative, with so much positive in this world.One more thing I truly think that you decide your own happiness, no matter what's going on in your life, it doesn't give you the right to be disrespectful to other people, we all have problems we have to solve daily.... but life is precious and that's what we need to see..I lost my husband/best-friend of 30 years to Acute Respiratory Distress Syndrome (ARDS), he was sick less than 3 weeks, this is why I say live everyday like its your last, because you just never know. I am not looking for someone to replace him, I am looking for someone to help me open up the next chapter in my(our) life, one day at a time, not ready to rush into a full relationship at this time, just want someone to hangout with and to have fun with, get on the open road and just take that chance, hold hands and walk down the beach or the sidewalk together. My motto is: "If You Can't Change it, Don't Claim it" "Born Free"I will bow to shining seasAnd celebrate God's grace on me! ""

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Alverta

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    A REAL woman can make it on her own, but a REAL man won't let her.!!!!!I'd like to think I'm not your typical divorced Female.... I really do like/enjoy the married life..For One To Judge A Book By The Cover...Is To Be The FoolLife is short. Break the rules. Forgive quickly. Kiss slowly. Love truly. Laugh uncontrollablyNo interest in Comedy Clubs, I actually fell asleep in one. once... who does that!!!! And No, I wasn't drunk.. ;-))Hi Guys.... Let me start by saying Im 5'7 and I wear ***heels often!! So therefore im pretty tall. With that said I feel most comfortbale with a male that is min 5'***' Im sorry, I dont mean to be rude. I did not ask to be this height... you think its easy?. :-)).. now that I got that off my Chest... GUYS PLEASE NO PUCKER/DUCK MOUTH PHOTOS ..what is this world coming too.. Revised :; Please if you are going to do the infamous bathroom shot please make sure you clean your mirrors of all water and toothpaste grunge.. gross... Do you really think a girl is going to get back to you . First sign of a dirty messy guy.. not cool.. ;***also im not looking for a penpal nor do i have time to be chitchatting , texting amd *** day long.. and if thats what you like to do, then you are definitly not for me, because MEN/Gentelmen, dont behave like that,And I like Men not boys. And if you have that much time on your hands to play all day long thats not a good sign go find a job. Im just saying..Its nonsense.. dont be a hater.. Ok here we go.. Huge Heart, Great sense of humor, very caring, funny, Witty, Enjoys life, Enjoys family ..Oh did I forget to mention that I'm a GREAT cook and I live for good food, as well as entertaining guests.....Summer is my favorite season. Love Boats,love to ride horses..As for my Ideal match. ahhh ....I would like a real man not a boy!!!!one with a great sense of humor,LOYAL, huge heart, kind, fun, not to serious, can take a joke , and LIVES LARGE...One that takes pride in his appearance , dresses well, smells good..Takes care of his teeth. (FLOSS) These are some of the small things I look for But the most important thing is.. ONe that truely knows how to treat a Lady..as well as appreciates a female.. Oh yes one more thing, one that doesnt live by texing all day long.. ******PLEASE DONT ASK ME...what are you doing on this site? Im here... just like you are... thats all that matters. And I hope to meet someone wonderful, loyal and my best friend..I love to smile/laugh and watch others be happy.. "child like" zest for life type of Gal..I'm not going to sit here and say what every other person says when they join an on linedating site.. . I cannot believe I'm doing this... It's not me to do something like this. Well listen here we are and I guess we are all looking for somewhat of the same thing. Dating and hopefully to meet Mr or Mrs Right.. Its something to try so here I am. Of course you will learn the real me once we start talking .All this nonsense of describing yourself in words ahh its ok. But I like the real deal.. SO BRING IT ON Till we meet!!!! Enjoy and Good Luck .:PPlease please PLEASE for the Love of God.. Photos with your cat or dog kissing really dont do it for me..AND I DO LOVE DOGS....ALSO PLEASE KEEP YOUR SHIRT ON... And no, I don't have any tats!! Just a little nose ring... A date to me is not a walk on the beach, holding hands, under the sunset with a complete stranger.. Lets be real here.. come on.. ;-) Maybe meet a greet in the library...

  • Marti

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I am not very good at describing myself but here goes.I am a 47 yr old country girl living her dream. I have a farm that I take care of by myself. I do everything; split firewood, work in the garden, cut 13 acres, take care of the dogs, cats, horses...everything. And still work a 50 hr workweek in sales. I have had to learn to be a very independent person and take care of myself. I seem to do a pretty good job of it so far. I wish I had more time to pamper myself but that just isn't the case. If your looking for a high maintenance kinda gal, I'm not the girl for you. I don't get my nails done and I can't remember the last time I had a spa day. But, I do clean up real nice and love to go out. I love surprises and romance. I am a very passionate person; and I love to show those that are close to me how much I care about them.I love to work out on the farm; I don't need a gym membership to stay fit. I would love to say that I am athletic and toned but I am more fit and healthy. You see as much as I like to exercise and stay healthy...I LOVE ALL GOOD FOOD! Going out to a great restaurant and trying new foods is on the top of my list of to do's! I love to cook and have someone cook for me. A quiet evening in is just as much fun as going out in my book. I love to go for walks on the beach or at a park. I love going to the movies and to go antiquing. I can have fun doing just about anything. Well, I can't say I love getting my car serviced or my teeth cleaned. BUT you get what I mean. :)I am an artist with glass; I make lampwork jewelry and stained glass. I learned both of these in order to help my rescues. Yes, this country girl is crazy over animals. I love all kinds of music except Bluegrass and Hard Rock. I recently purchased an Ipad and now am afraid I have joined the ranks of the App Junkies! Never knew you could get addicted to something like that. :)I am looking to find my guy! Every serious relationship must start with friendship first. No games, no drama please!!! I don't play and won't be a part of them. SO if that is who you are...look elsewhere. I will not tolerate a temper or games. I don't have time for either. NO one should be mean to another. I am looking for a fun loving guy that enjoys similar things as I do but has his own life to bring to the table. A great sense of humor is a plus in my book. An animal lover is a major plus too! I Oh I have no idea what a good first date would be. I don't think it should be too dramatic. I think a great first date would be over a cup of coffee or an icecream cone. I think the perfect first date would be a personal thing. Depending on the other person...it takes two to make the perfect date. :)

  • Elissa

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Had an entirely different profile up here for a while, but I think it was too serious. Time to change up the bait.I'm not going to tell you a bunch of shallow things about myself. We all like walks on the beach, dinner, blah blah blah. I'm going to talk about you, the right man for me. I'm going to tell you a little about me too.Straight up, I am looking for a relationship.I'm looking for a man who knows his worth and who recognizes mine. A man who knows what he wants and goes after it. A decisive man. A man of action. Why? Because such a man is sexy in my eyes. I'm looking for a man who has his act together or is working on improving himself. I'm looking for a man who will treat me like the treasure I am. I'm looking for a man I can build a relationship with based on mutual respect, working together for common goals, enjoying each other in every aspect possible and continued growth as individuals.In return, you will find that I am a happy, passionate, well adjusted person, that I have my act together, that I take care of myself. That I don't "need" you but that I "want" you. When you're down, I will lift you up. I will support you and be your biggest cheerleader in whatever you decide to do to make yourself a better person. I will give you your time and your space as needed and I will eventually love you truly, madly, deeply!That being said, I am not going to jump into a relationship with you overnight. These things take time and I want to get to know you.On a lighter note, I love football, especially my Seahawks. You should watch a game with me some time or better yet, take me to a Chargers game! I'm flexible!

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