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Ruthie, 48
United States, Illinois, Carbondale

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I can see my life entering a new phase soon, and I am determined to find the right person to share it with. I've raised my son by myself and as such my personal life has taken a backseat for oh say the last decade ... but I don't regret it at all. As I find myself with more time and freedom, I look forward to meeting the one person I can build a lasting, intimate partnership with. My past was quite turbulent. It's mostly uneventful now, and I like it that way. Don't confuse that with boring, however, there's fun everyday and I laugh so so so often. My first job in life is my son, and I have worked hard to give us both a great life. I am eager to invite the right person to join the fun. My job-job is hi tech sales, it's high pressure but I love it. I seem to be always on the run and I like to decompress at the gym, hiking, riding my road bike or of course a great happy hour. I love my small circle of friends and am eager to share the joys in my life with those around me. Taking the time to get to know me, you'll find that I'm independent, energetic, successful, low drama, funny, smart .. .and one heck of a cook! My match? I appreciate height, intelligence, humor, energy and independence. I'm looking for that connection, that person who's got my back while I have his, who makes me stretch farther and experience more than I will on my own. You're still reading? Without strong family ties of my own, I'm definitely searching for that in a LTR (have no fear, your mom's gonna love me!) I have a huge heart that gets hurt easily, so if you're not sincere please click to the next profile (I hear she's easy). Seriously, please be at least a year out of your marriage. I almost forgot the most important part. I make a great partner! I'm there, but not incessantly. I give and receive love, but am not needy. I am passionate, but not psychotic -- and old enough to know the difference. My ideal first date? A quiet spot, coffee shop, wine bar, park bench .. Someplace relaxed so we can share more about ourselves, hear and see each other. This time should give us both ample opportunity to size each other up :-) Ha! That sounds a lot colder than I intended, but you get the idea!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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