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Ruthie, 48

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About Me

I can see my life entering a new phase soon, and I am determined to find the right person to share it with. I've raised my son by myself and as such my personal life has taken a backseat for oh say the last decade ... but I don't regret it at all. As I find myself with more time and freedom, I look forward to meeting the one person I can build a lasting, intimate partnership with. My past was quite turbulent. It's mostly uneventful now, and I like it that way. Don't confuse that with boring, however, there's fun everyday and I laugh so so so often. My first job in life is my son, and I have worked hard to give us both a great life. I am eager to invite the right person to join the fun. My job-job is hi tech sales, it's high pressure but I love it. I seem to be always on the run and I like to decompress at the gym, hiking, riding my road bike or of course a great happy hour. I love my small circle of friends and am eager to share the joys in my life with those around me. Taking the time to get to know me, you'll find that I'm independent, energetic, successful, low drama, funny, smart .. .and one heck of a cook! My match? I appreciate height, intelligence, humor, energy and independence. I'm looking for that connection, that person who's got my back while I have his, who makes me stretch farther and experience more than I will on my own. You're still reading? Without strong family ties of my own, I'm definitely searching for that in a LTR (have no fear, your mom's gonna love me!) I have a huge heart that gets hurt easily, so if you're not sincere please click to the next profile (I hear she's easy). Seriously, please be at least a year out of your marriage. I almost forgot the most important part. I make a great partner! I'm there, but not incessantly. I give and receive love, but am not needy. I am passionate, but not psychotic -- and old enough to know the difference. My ideal first date? A quiet spot, coffee shop, wine bar, park bench .. Someplace relaxed so we can share more about ourselves, hear and see each other. This time should give us both ample opportunity to size each other up :-) Ha! That sounds a lot colder than I intended, but you get the idea!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Briella

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    To start things off here i would like to mention...If your pics are a more than 6 months old...( meaning if you LOOK in the mirror right now and look at your most recent pic on here and YOU can see a change, like we all do change lol ) or your currently separated ..or frequent the bar scene...Or nurse on an alcoholic beverage ***and yes guys i know there are women who possess these characteristics too lol ) just pass me on by please!!! LOL i do love to go dancing from time to time (bar) but im not a barfly (which has led me here to see whats out there)... :)....I'm just a good woman trying to weed out the bad to get to the good just like my grandma told me i would have to do yearssss ago when i was a little girl lol...so if this offends anyone..well YOU must be ONE OF THOSE IM REFERRING TO :):):). .now..if you have read all that and are still reading...Here's more about me :)I am an open minded person. (Really i am lol ) I'm an animal lover. I'm quick witted with a hint of fun loving sarcasm. Never beyond hurting anyones feelings. I'm compassionate and headstrong....and yet feel giddy when i see an old couple walking with canes on either side of them but in the middle they hold hands and laugh like best friends :) I'm an honest friend even when the truth hurts (when advice is asked).I'm passionate about life with a hint of being fiesty (maybe its the irish in me lol )..yet have had life experiences that have humbled me to my knees and put me in the perfect position to pray.. I am a woman of Faith and my OWN spirituality is important to me...God is first in my life. I pride myself on all these things and more.... I do consider myself a well rounded person enough i can fit and dress for any occassion that would arise....and don't mind if that occassion consist of playing in the dirt :) (ex. fourwheelers and such).... i am a single mom...( even though my kids are older) , i believe kids keep it real...and keep a person very young at heart.. I have been blessed with great friends and family..and most of all kids. I couldnt have done a better job had God let me pick them out myself :-) And i enjoy getting out and traveling..or cooking it up with friends...or a movie night on the couch with that special person :-) I enjoy people that are themselves..And yet have high regards to honesty and integrity.... I work in the health care industry...so im professional at work...but at home...im having fun always. I enjoy intelligent conversations..and feel if a man communicates WELL (and i do know its not in a man's DNA to communicate like women do..however the effort speaks VOLUMES :) ..i think that is sexy in a man and yet communication (in alot of different aspects) is the VERY BASES of a friendship and anything else that MIGHT follow.I dont feel that a person has to be muscle bound...but physical attraction is the first thing that happens...so i do like someone who takes care of themselves. I do "prefer" non smokers..for i am a non smoker as well..and some may think its harsh..but hey..health is very important to me :-) It's not so much WHAT you do...... cause if you have chemistry with that person, you have fun no matter what you do :)

  • Katheleen

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I successfully raised a wonderful daughter by myself. She and her husband made me a grandma last year. Being a grandparent is the greatest thing ever! I'm in a good place in my life right now. I have a stable job that I enjoy. My family and friends are the best people in the world! They helped make me who I am today. ;)I would like to find a man that's considerate, affectionate, sincere and occasionally romantic. My must haves in a relationship are trust, respect, appreciation, laughter and a love of God. I'll be the big ***soon and I'm ready to meet the right man, settle down and enjoy life as a partner. If you'd like to know more, send me a message. Thanks for looking. Good luck in your search! I think a first date should be limited to one hour. If you meet and there's no chemistry, you know you only have 59 more minutes to get through. However, if there is a mutual chemistry, you'll leave them wanting to see you again soon! I also believe the first date should be casual like taking a walk by the river or going to a park. That way, you'll both be comfortable and can have a relaxed conversation.

  • Alicia

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Looking for someone genuine, hard to find it seems.But I am not giving up!! I am sure there has to be one man that is able to talk like a gentleman and reciprocate an intelligent conversation with a woman. I was asked once if I was conservative. I didn't think so. But if being conservative means not talking bull***and not doing dare questionnaires then I guess I am a so called "conservative"!! Doesn't stop me from laughing. P.S. If I do not reply reread my profile.................lol!I am looking for fit men who take care of themselves. Someone who is hip and up to date, yet still holds the chivalry and gentleness that I know still exists but is hard to find.He must treat a professional woman with what she deserves; respect and integrity.I enjoy nature as you must! I look at the world in whole different way than most women as I live in the moment. I do not do drama and drama, even from friends, makes me pull away! Ask any of my friends, they will tell you this and that I am a straight shooter.I am an avid horsewoman and have cats. If you are not an animal person, please move on. I am sorry horses are so very much a part of my life if you do not know much about them or able to understand the time I spend with them, there would be no real connection for me.Looks are important to me but not a deal breaker. I have met the most wonderful men in my life and it was their charm and chemistry that caught my attention.I hope this give you a *** the wholesome and straighshooter woman that I am!To everyone out there good luck. The universe is out there waiting to fulfill what you are ask for! So...... be careful what you ask for........lol! First time meetings should be the criteria we are filling out for here.The first meeting part is the hardest. Do you feel an attraction, is there chemistry and are we on the same page?

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