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Briella, 47
United States, Illinois, Carbondale

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To start things off here i would like to mention...If your pics are a more than 6 months old...( meaning if you LOOK in the mirror right now and look at your most recent pic on here and YOU can see a change, like we all do change lol ) or your currently separated ..or frequent the bar scene...Or nurse on an alcoholic beverage ***and yes guys i know there are women who possess these characteristics too lol ) just pass me on by please!!! LOL i do love to go dancing from time to time (bar) but im not a barfly (which has led me here to see whats out there)... :)....I'm just a good woman trying to weed out the bad to get to the good just like my grandma told me i would have to do yearssss ago when i was a little girl lol...so if this offends anyone..well YOU must be ONE OF THOSE IM REFERRING TO :):):). .now..if you have read all that and are still reading...Here's more about me :)I am an open minded person. (Really i am lol ) I'm an animal lover. I'm quick witted with a hint of fun loving sarcasm. Never beyond hurting anyones feelings. I'm compassionate and headstrong....and yet feel giddy when i see an old couple walking with canes on either side of them but in the middle they hold hands and laugh like best friends :) I'm an honest friend even when the truth hurts (when advice is asked).I'm passionate about life with a hint of being fiesty (maybe its the irish in me lol )..yet have had life experiences that have humbled me to my knees and put me in the perfect position to pray.. I am a woman of Faith and my OWN spirituality is important to me...God is first in my life. I pride myself on all these things and more.... I do consider myself a well rounded person enough i can fit and dress for any occassion that would arise....and don't mind if that occassion consist of playing in the dirt :) (ex. fourwheelers and such).... i am a single mom...( even though my kids are older) , i believe kids keep it real...and keep a person very young at heart.. I have been blessed with great friends and family..and most of all kids. I couldnt have done a better job had God let me pick them out myself :-) And i enjoy getting out and traveling..or cooking it up with friends...or a movie night on the couch with that special person :-) I enjoy people that are themselves..And yet have high regards to honesty and integrity.... I work in the health care industry...so im professional at work...but at home...im having fun always. I enjoy intelligent conversations..and feel if a man communicates WELL (and i do know its not in a man's DNA to communicate like women do..however the effort speaks VOLUMES :) ..i think that is sexy in a man and yet communication (in alot of different aspects) is the VERY BASES of a friendship and anything else that MIGHT follow.I dont feel that a person has to be muscle bound...but physical attraction is the first thing that happens...so i do like someone who takes care of themselves. I do "prefer" non smokers..for i am a non smoker as well..and some may think its harsh..but hey..health is very important to me :-) It's not so much WHAT you do...... cause if you have chemistry with that person, you have fun no matter what you do :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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