Total users: 59,557,758 Online users: 214,325
Marti, 48
United States, Illinois, Carbondale

Offline, last seen Wed, 22 Oct 2025 13:59:50

About Me

I am not very good at describing myself but here goes.I am a 47 yr old country girl living her dream. I have a farm that I take care of by myself. I do everything; split firewood, work in the garden, cut 13 acres, take care of the dogs, cats, horses...everything. And still work a 50 hr workweek in sales. I have had to learn to be a very independent person and take care of myself. I seem to do a pretty good job of it so far. I wish I had more time to pamper myself but that just isn't the case. If your looking for a high maintenance kinda gal, I'm not the girl for you. I don't get my nails done and I can't remember the last time I had a spa day. But, I do clean up real nice and love to go out. I love surprises and romance. I am a very passionate person; and I love to show those that are close to me how much I care about them.I love to work out on the farm; I don't need a gym membership to stay fit. I would love to say that I am athletic and toned but I am more fit and healthy. You see as much as I like to exercise and stay healthy...I LOVE ALL GOOD FOOD! Going out to a great restaurant and trying new foods is on the top of my list of to do's! I love to cook and have someone cook for me. A quiet evening in is just as much fun as going out in my book. I love to go for walks on the beach or at a park. I love going to the movies and to go antiquing. I can have fun doing just about anything. Well, I can't say I love getting my car serviced or my teeth cleaned. BUT you get what I mean. :)I am an artist with glass; I make lampwork jewelry and stained glass. I learned both of these in order to help my rescues. Yes, this country girl is crazy over animals. I love all kinds of music except Bluegrass and Hard Rock. I recently purchased an Ipad and now am afraid I have joined the ranks of the App Junkies! Never knew you could get addicted to something like that. :)I am looking to find my guy! Every serious relationship must start with friendship first. No games, no drama please!!! I don't play and won't be a part of them. SO if that is who you are...look elsewhere. I will not tolerate a temper or games. I don't have time for either. NO one should be mean to another. I am looking for a fun loving guy that enjoys similar things as I do but has his own life to bring to the table. A great sense of humor is a plus in my book. An animal lover is a major plus too! I Oh I have no idea what a good first date would be. I don't think it should be too dramatic. I think a great first date would be over a cup of coffee or an icecream cone. I think the perfect first date would be a personal thing. Depending on the other person...it takes two to make the perfect date. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

German Korean Middle Eastern South American Action Western American Football Motorcycle Racing
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Domenica from Carbondale | Woman | 50 years old | Scorpio
    Domenica

    Offline

    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Successful, over 40, Classy Business lady with no children, considers herself to be a great catch!! I would describe myself as a pretty busy person & mostly happy go lucky, I would be interested in meeting an intelligent with rugged good looks,handy, not too many ex's.. Not looking for a fling NOT looking for a man under 40 .Must be an animal lover and be able to appreciate a business owners schedule... currently, would really enjoy meeting someone that enjoys animals , business, cars, or real estate to chat, hang out and see a movie or dinner.Right now, I am not looking for anything serious and soon I will look forward to meeting that specialguy who might be fun to take a trip .... ( over 40 yrs old, GREAT shape, Caucasian ) I enjoy my work and look forward to slowing down and having some fun. Honesty is a quality that I hold as a # 1 priority in my life and appreciatethat in others.I am attracted to men that are like me :in GREAT shape, keeping a youthful attitude, at least 6 ft tall and over ***PLEASE). Chooses happiness as a life style not a goal. Other than that, I feel like I will know what I am looking for when I find it!! My photos are all current in the last 3 months except the silver dress is 6 years old I enjoy being around men with a strong sense of self, enjoys joking, not worried about what OTHERS MAY THINK.. We must Enjoy our life or no one else will !! No drama here!!Small business owner, attends regular conventions, business net working groups, loves dogs, She volunteers for dog-rescue groups in the area. Enjoys Real Estate investing and remodeling. I would enjoy RV weekend trips, boating, concerts . I will not respond to e mails to those that choose to not display a photo..Or at least send one.. Happy hour or dessert

    Chat
  • Alesha from Carbondale | Woman | 50 years old | Gemini
    Alesha

    Offline

    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Before you text me watch....if you cant REALLY understand my life you cant understand *** AM ONLY INTERESTED IN LOCAL MEN IN SAN ANTIONO, Let me start by saying all pics are current ***..I am confident and secure, so have no reason to hide behind a screen. I love being me.....I am a gentle natured woman who has her own spin on life.. I am strong minded and require an equal. I am a tomboyish with a woman fling.A true MAN to me where he knows his woman can do for herself but he dont let her..I can open a door but it is appreciated when it is done for me....:-)Money only impresses lazy girls..when a woman works hard, a man with money is a bonus not a ladder to upgrade..goes both ways surprise me keep it ***

    Chat
  • Jessie from Carbondale | Woman | 46 years old | Gemini
    Jessie

    Offline

    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I love to travel and it has become essential to do so as much as possible, love the arts, animals, skiing, dancing, hiking, going out to dinner, hanging with the girls, weekend getaways...too many to list.I am very open to new adventures and love to be active. My music tastes vary..I love concerts and theater. I have recently been riding horses as much as possible, my dream is to have some land and rescue 2 horses and do equine assisted psychotherapy. I am open, but it seems that keeping it simple on a first date is always a good idea.

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: