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About Me

For starters, I was told I'm rude for not replying, even if I'm not interested. Would it be better to reply even if I'm not interested?Just a down to earth girl wondering if Mr. Right exists. I don't have a problem being alone but having the right person around could make life more enjoyable. I don't like to argue and I'm pretty independent, which a lot of guys don't like. I smoke and I snore lol If those things bother you, you may wanna pass on by :) I have 3 sons who are all making me a grandma in a few months and I'm very excited about it! Family is very important to me. I'm not much for long phone conversations. I pretty much say what needs to be said and I'm done. There are exceptions to that, but I will text forever if you want to.At this point in my life, I will no longer settle. I have in the past. I would rather be happy alone than be with the wrong person.Looks aren't the most important thing and what is beautiful to one person may not be beautiful to another, but I have to be physically attracted to you. I don't know anyone who wants to be with someone they aren't attracted to. That isn't being shallow, just realistic.A lot of people ask if I'm Asian. I'm not.If you don't have a pic posted, it leads me to believe you may have something to hide. Please don't message me if you have a significant other."I've gotten so caught up in being alone that I'm afraid of what might happen if I actually find someone who can take me away from it."

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ashleigh

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    hello. Just logged on and will write soon. So in short I'm a happy person. C'est tout, that's all :) !!Ok here is some more I smile a lot and my exercise of choice is to laugh. Some times I talk a lot and seem like the energy bunny, but I have down time to and I just don't want to talk and be still.I think life can be a joy. I'll write more later when I feel like it LOL :) again just logged in will write more later, I'm looking for classy men, does that help????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????

  • Justina

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    (* or early Nov. Searching for a residence now. Want to be near my son at U.T. Hoping maybe to meet someone before I get there - to show me around and keep me company. We could use the time before I move to chat and get to know one another...see if we have things in common. ---Relationship-seekers ONLY please. And, even though it's lengthy, please read my profile. Thank you.---*)First, I will let you know that I am VERY bluntly honest...even though I know some people can't seem to handle that - lol! ;) I work as a medical transcriptionist from my home, which adds a lot of solitude to my life. I haven't been getting out like I should, but, when I do go out, I like going to bars/dance clubs/concerts (HATE country music - am a rock-n-roll girl who some refer to as "ROCK" I like to canoe, boat and fish. I am an adventurer and daredevil by nature. I have raised three wonderful children - the last of which will be going off to college in just a few short weeks! (scary!) I guess, at my age, I am now reflecting back and wondering how I have ended up alone...how I could have chosen my relationships so unwisely in the past. I have so much affection to give, but am actually quite terrified to give it anymore after so much heartbreak. Yet, I just can't seem to give up on the thought that there is someone still out there for me. It may take me a long time to really trust and believe in true love again, but hopefully someone can me to get past that. Please don't fault me for being honest. I feel it's the only chance I have to meet someone that I am truly compatible with - who I can spend my life with. And, no...that does not mean I am looking for marriage, but I do want a life partner either way - someone to share the good, as well as the bad, times with. I want love that endures all. Maybe I am a hopeless romantic deep down, because I think true love does still exist...somewhere. I am definitely not looking for one-night stands. I do think serious intimacy is a very important part of a relationship and am a little unconventional/cinnamon in that regard (never any complaints - lol), but think these things should only be discussed after a REAL and LASTING spark/connection has been established. Thanks for taking the time to read my small book here. Good luck to ALL! :) FRIENDS FIRST ONLY - never know what the future may bring, but NOT wanting to be anyone's FWB and NOT looking for a sugar daddy. I would rather be poor and in love than rich and in denial. ;)

  • Azaria

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    This Plenty of Fish is really a crap shoot, isn't it? Well... here goes!A little about myself: I am a very physically active and intellectually curious person. I love the outdoors and anything related to the ocean. I exercise every day. I enjoy walking, jogging, aerobics, biking, hiking, camping, swimming, snorkeling, kayaking, and canoeing. I live close to the ocean and never get sick of the beach.I'm not much into shopping, unless it's vintage clothing stores and thrift shops. I love retro fashion, and have been told I resemble Bettie Page. I am into tiki culture and exotica music. In fact, I have quite a vinyl lp collection, which I will never get rid of. Call me "old school" if you will; I prefer the terms "classic" or "retro"I am a teacher. I love my work. That's very important to me. But after 12 years I'm ready to shift into a new direction so I am studying to be a holistic health coach. I am a vegan and I believe that good health and vitality begins with food. My health and my quality of life is very important to me, so I take very good care of myself. I eat very thoughtfully and I exercise every day.I love animals and feel that we share a common bond with them. I have one dog and three cats. If animals are not your thing, you probably wouldn't feel comfortable at my place.I believe that individual people can affect great change. I enjoy gardening, landscaping, and habitat restoration.I love camping more than staying in a resort hotel. But don't let my outdoors enthusiasm fool you. Who says you can't have the best of both worlds?My ideal man would be someone who is educated (I'll let you define what that means), and stable. I don't care about your income, just as long as you have a job. I'd prefer a man who loves the work he does. When we have a passion for our work, everything else seems to be at peace. He should be physically fit. Yes, it matters to me as much as I'm sure it matters to you guys. I'd like someone who enjoys working out, not seeing exercise as a chore. I would love to meet someone who likes jogging, biking, swimming, snorkeling, diving, and other water sports. If you go to the gym, even better.But what good the brawn if no brain? My match would enjoy stimulating conversation. He would be turned off by a female who doesn't have anything substantial to talk about. If he's looking for a botoxed, high maintenance, airhead type, I'm not his gal. I chose to tell the truth about my age. I am proud of being 50, mostly because I have kept myself in really good shape and I like how people react when I tell them my age. Truth be told, I look and feel better now than I did 15 years ago. Also, I'm not interested in a man who only wants to date much younger women. Can't we judge people by other means than their age? How 'bout mileage? Um, ok, maybe not!I think chemistry is important. I know it immediately. If it's not there, it's not there and we should move on, no hard feelings. But if there is chemistry... let's see where that takes us! A first date would, of course, be coffee (or other beverage of choice). We'll see if there are any sparks. I highly believe in sparks. If there is chemistry, then the time and place of a second date won't really matter. All that really matters is a place where we could talk and get to know each other a little better. I am a vegan so going out to Red Lobster or Outback Steak House is out of the question. I watch what I eat and maintain my figure, so Cheesecake Factory is also out of the question. However, I know of some fantastic vegan restaurants where we could enjoy the pleasure of really delicious, healthy food and enjoy stimulating conversation. Candlelight is optional, but a bottle of wine would be a nice touch!

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