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Vannessa, 49

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Interested in ages * **** I love to just BE. It's not the easiest to let go of what happened yesterday and not to be anxious about tomorrow, but I truly believe in this and work constantly at it. It's liberating and frees up the heart and soul..... I enjoy the company of another in doing whatever activities we come up with. I've had a long-term relationship in Fitness and it continues to be important to me, however, obsessed Muscle-Heads need not apply---no longer have time for that. I prefer to wash and detail my own car and fix things around the house myself and not just the girlie things. :-) I'm quite self-sufficient, believe me. However! Is it so wrong to imagine my partner just taking care of me from time to time? Reciprocated, of course, when you're on your "deathbed" from that headcold.... :-) Personally, I continue to grow in many ways....so important! Something to share but not on a public profile … I'm probably too sensitive for my own good, but I’m a passionate person (Scorpio) and am fiercely protective of myself and those who are important to me. Tenacious, Strong-Willed, Compassionate, and as Silly as often as I can get away with.... I LOVE to laugh! I love easy and silly humor...... So! I will preface what you read next by saying that the following represents so much about me and how I feel. However, at the same time, I want to slowly build a friendship and not jump into the serious aspect too soon.I'm somewhat of an introvert, although you might not think so upon us meeting! I don't feel comfortable in large groups any longer....haven't figured out this one yet :-) But I will say, if there were a great club to go to for dancing, I'm there! I do know that I want that one on one best friend-in-a-man thing. Not the clingy thing, but just being content hanging out together and really enjoying it!...the list goes on.. Hiking, some reality shows (yup), and Concerts (from rock to classical), watching pro football games (go Titans!.. no comments, please). Love the Arts and live concerts: Dance, Comedy, Musicals, etc.....Calm communication is key towards a healthy relationship... You can ride emotional rollercoasters on your own; besides, they make me nauseaus. Make of a relationship what you want. Yours is the choice to believe it to be a gift or not. I’m an eternal romantic and appreciate the importance of having true romance in my life. I want to meet someone with great teeth and a warm smile, a truly open heart, honesty and real integrity. Someone not much older than myself; a little younger is fine :-) . I don't see where we can post the age range we look for, so I'll put it here: ***age range. I was open to longer distance, but if we can't see each on a regular basis, due to drive time, how could things go anywhere? Would it set us up for disappointment? These song lyrics come to mind more and more: "I Might Have To Wait, I'll Never Give Up, I Guess It's Half Timing, And The Other Half's Luck / Wherever You Are, Whenever It's Right, You Come Out Of Nowhere And Into My Life............I Just Haven't Met You Yet......." The deeper qualities in a man I hope to meet can’t just be shared in this format. I’m not looking for, nor do I need perfection! Merely perfect for me; perfect for each other. Meet for coffee first?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    For starters, I was told I'm rude for not replying, even if I'm not interested. Would it be better to reply even if I'm not interested?Just a down to earth girl wondering if Mr. Right exists. I don't have a problem being alone but having the right person around could make life more enjoyable. I don't like to argue and I'm pretty independent, which a lot of guys don't like. I smoke and I snore lol If those things bother you, you may wanna pass on by :) I have 3 sons who are all making me a grandma in a few months and I'm very excited about it! Family is very important to me. I'm not much for long phone conversations. I pretty much say what needs to be said and I'm done. There are exceptions to that, but I will text forever if you want to.At this point in my life, I will no longer settle. I have in the past. I would rather be happy alone than be with the wrong person.Looks aren't the most important thing and what is beautiful to one person may not be beautiful to another, but I have to be physically attracted to you. I don't know anyone who wants to be with someone they aren't attracted to. That isn't being shallow, just realistic.A lot of people ask if I'm Asian. I'm not.If you don't have a pic posted, it leads me to believe you may have something to hide. Please don't message me if you have a significant other."I've gotten so caught up in being alone that I'm afraid of what might happen if I actually find someone who can take me away from it."

  • Jude

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I'm the type of person who can laugh at a funeral and myself. I never take myself too seriously, it takes too much time. I like to cook and play golf even though I'm not that great at it( the golf ) I went to school to be a chef. I have work in the nursing field. I am currently employed, but looking for another job in the field, due to the fact that the facility I currently work at may close after the state inspectors come through. I love kids and the elderly. I have a very macabre sense of humor, I guess in my profession you sort of have to. I like all types of music. My all time favorite movies are Twelve Monkeys and Pitch Black. I'm looking for someone who's not perfect because I'm certainly not. I am caring, honest, hardworking and trustworthy. I have never cheated during a relationship, I believe that is the most despicable thing one person can do to another in a relationship. If you want out just say so and get it over with, is my philosophy. Less hard feelings that way. I have a career that I love, pay my own bills, and have my own car...not looking for help in those departments. If you send me a message and I don't get back right away, I'm not *** I just work a lot of hours, mainly 3rd shift but have been known to stay and work 1st or come in and work 2nd then my regular shift. Anyway, enough about me lets talk about you.... A first date... lets decide together.

  • Hilda

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Fun loving, hard working, honest and independent-in a 'non-codependent' way. By this I mean...I can be alone and I can take care of myself, but would prefer to have a partner to share life with. Looking for similar qualities in a man. I enjoy fishing, golfing, DIY projects, and trying new things. Learning something from my guy is a total turn-on.I love music - in general and my iPod proves this. Have to be in the right mood and situation for jazz or opera. I have been described as funny, witty, intelligent and dippy...often all at the same time. Guess that would make me a multitasker!

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