Merlyn, 47
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About Me
I work as an RN in the OB department. Absolutely love my job. It is great to be able to enjoy what i do. However, in the next few years after my son graduates, I will probably make some changes. I am thinking about leaving the area and starting fresh. Don't know where just yet. Maybe if i meet someone and it is getting serious, i would be willing to go their direction.I have been on this site a few months now. I have met some really nice people and also some crazy nuts...lol I am sure you have too. I am just unsure how long i want to continue this site. So far, i haven't really met the right person. But, who knows what God has planned for me. You may be the one! I have a16 year old son. You that have children of your own know the importance of being a good parent and lead by example... My son is my world and he keeps me going. I have joint custody; so i only get him every other week. He got his drivers license a month ago so now he is driving me everywhere. Also, I have two miniature schnauzers and get them when i get my son. They are my babies, too. Things that are most important are God, family and friends. I go to church every week. I try not to miss a service. I will ALMOST try anything once. I love having a good time. Life is too short to waste it. Enjoy life while you are able to. Because, I hate to break it to you, we are NOT getting any younger...lol So, while your health is good, get out there and have a good time. We can still be kids at heart..I am optimistic. Don't like negativity. I have had enough drama in my life time, so as little drama as possible. I know everyone has a little bit. Honesty and trustworthy are very important to me. A person who lies to me once will lie again and again. And i don't like a thief or someone lazy.I desire to have a man who is honest with me about everything. I can handle the truth and can deal with the truth, even if i don't like it. I just can't handle a lie. I want a man who is sincere and trustworthy. Someone with integrity. I know too many losers. So if you are a loser, don't waste your time or mine.I also want someone who enjoys life. NOT a homebody because i like trying new things. I don't mind staying at home some, but not ***if you know how some people are. I like to have my man open car doors and other doors for me. I like candle light dinners and getting little notes every now and then. I will also spoil the man i am with. I think flirting with and pampering and spoiling each other will help the relationship grow. Love is thinking the best and doing the best for your partner, sometimes to the point of self sacrifice. It is not a one way street. It goes both ways. So, if you only think of yourself, (i was already married to a man like that) it doesn't work. And opposites may attract but are not compatible. So, we need to have some things in common. If we don't like things the other person enjoys doing, one of us will be miserable. So, there has to be some common ground. Oh, and i like to joke around and pull pranks. So, if you are a serious person all the time and can't take joking around, don't bother me. Because we will not get along.. Because if you can't take Jokes, you will probably get your feeling hurt and probably pout. I can't stand a man who takes everything to heart and pouts about it for days when it was just meant to be a joke. So, please, have some sense of humor..I also like to have a clean house. I do live in my house, though, but i like to have it in order. Did i mention that i love to cook? I won't cook just for me because i don't eat a whole lot and it's wasted. But, when my son is with me, i like to try different recipes with him. I think it's important to cook and take care of the family in every aspect. I thinks it looks bad on a woman if the house is not in order and her husband and children wear wrinkled clothes. This is a priority to me..Call me old school if you wish....lol I was raised that way. I am not perfect by know means. But, I do try to live right. I love having a good time. But, it's good, clean, fun. If this interests you, contact me. I expect my date to be a gentleman and show me respect. I dont like to hear a lot of cursing even though a slip up i can handle. I don't smoke and don't want someone smoking around me. I love to laugh and have a good time. Whether it is going to a movie or out to a nice dinner. I want that person to feel comfortable around me. We can decide together!!:-)
PERSONAL INFORMATION
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Looking for
man
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Relationship
Divorced
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Have kids
No
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Wants kids
Someday
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Ethnicity
Caucasian
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Faith
Christian
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Body type
Slim
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Height
5'2"
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Eye color
Blue
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Smoke
No
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Drink
No
INTERESTS
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