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Rachel, 49

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About Me

First, I would like to apologize in advance to any of you fine gentlemen that may have been exposed to my first attempt at posting on meetville. In my defense, there were a number of rather coercive friends involved and quite possibly more than one or two bottles of wine. In the morning, with a slightly more sober head, I also discovered, much to my horror, that I had included some rather dreadful "selfies". I have no words. I keep asking myself what kind of weirdo hopes to find a date or even a friend on an internet webstie, but here I am again. I have decided to take the advice of my well meaning friends and give it a go. So from one weirdo to another, here it is. And I am actually going to write something intelligent -- because I can. To my friends, I have taken the plunge and "put myself out there again". This is on your shoulders. Even those that love me, will agree that I am difficult to describe. I am passionate about a lot things. My children. I have four of them, almost grown, and they are fantastic. I believe one of them may have had a hand in the first meetville disaster. I am not sure if I should ground her or thank her. Travel. I have been blessed with a cool job and an adventurous spirit that has enabled me to see the world - the good, the bad and the ugly. I love it all. Food. I am a self professed food snob which is not to say I only appreciate expensive food. Don't get me wrong, I love a great evening out at a fine restaurant, but I have also had my fair share of killer street food. I love to cook and my idea of a perfect evening is a kitchen full of hungry friends. Well, hungry friends that bring great wine - that is perfect. Sweat. Yeh, you heard me. I like to work out, play hard and get wet. Adventure. I am always willing to try new things and though I am famous for getting into trouble - falling off things (I am a bit of a spazz), getting into mischief or just finding myself in rather curious situations, I have not regrets. I may need constant supervision and protection, but I have no regrets. I appreciate great movies, though they are few and far between (the great ones) and I am always looking to read something new. I'm not a big fan of TV and find that I can usually find something much more productive to do with my time. I like most music, though I have to confess to a secret crush on Country. I may or may not have a very cool t- Design. I love great fashion and great design and I appreciate it even more when you don't spend a lot of money to achieve it. Words. I value great writing and I love to write. I am frustrated by pretence, intolerance and judgement. I am also not a big fan of diet soda, margarine, fast food, Walmart and bad shoes. Sadly, I am guilty of using and abusing them all, but I strive for better. I am just a simple human.A great guy? Someone who is smart, globally aware, travelled, open minded, and passionate. Someone who can laugh at themselves and, more importantly, laugh at me. You will definitely need to be able to do that. Someone who can make me laugh. Someone who will take risks, but also put time and effort in when it's needed. Someone who is fearless - or strives to be. I realize that's a tall order. Someone who would crash in a youth hostel and enjoy a bed with ***count sheets. Someone who loves food, but appreciates that life is about moderation - there may be a tread mill or bike ride at the end of your day. Someone who is honest - with themselves and those they love. Someone who knows who they are and likes themselves and someone who is always willing to learn something new. Someone who is headed in a positive direction: forward.And if that great guy becomes a great partner, I will fill in the blanks later. They aren't very complicated, but they are important. ;-) Or whatever!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lesli

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I consider myself to be a down-to-earth, sincere, fairly independent, spontaneous, & non-judgemental woman who is looking for those same qualities in a man. Still busy raising a 16 yr old son but do want to find a relationship sometime in the future. Since my children are all almost grown, I see myself finding a good man to grow old with. I like getting outdoors to do just about anything. I enjoy different kinds of music but Country is my favorite...guess bc I was raised a simple, country girl! But I'd have to say I have an adventurous side since I love NASCAR, concerts, riding scary rides, water skiing, bowling, putt putt golf, and being competitive in ping pong lol. Like a lot of people in this area, my favorite places to relax & have fun are the beach, bay, or river!I like spending time with my kids so if family isn't important to you and you can't handle that, don't think I am the one for you...AND if you don't believe in God or go to church (at least every now and then), that's kind of a dealbreaker to me....So with all that said, if you read this and think you might be interested, just message me! :) Casual....maybe coffee or a drink somewhere to see if there are any sparks!

  • Johnnie

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Ok, a little about me...Note: The photos were taken 10 years apart. One at 37, one very recent at 47. Little joke about aging... I'm medically average...more to the athletic side, in great shape.I'm not going to go on about moonlit walks, watching sunsets, candlelit dinners, etc. The company is more important to me than the setting. I'm not a gushy person though I certainly can let a guy know I'm into him and I do have quite a soft side.I enjoy good conversation with someone who is open-minded and intelligent. My friends call me the calm voice of logic and reason with a bit of feisty thrown in. I'm a calm rational thinker and value good communication. Confident, but a bit shy.I am very much a summer girl. Love the sun, beach, outdoors, riding, backyard get-togethers with good friends, fire on the beach, swimming by moonlight.I don't do drugs myself. Since it's your mind, first and foremost, that will attract me or not, please don't contact me if yours is fried to a crisp.What I'm hoping to find is something casual but exclusive. Something safe, stress-free, and no drama. A companion, friend and lover. If it leads to more, so be it, but let's not push it.A good healthy sex life is important to me, but don't get the wrong idea... That doesn't mean going out and boinking the willing at every opportunity. There must be a great connection and genuine affection otherwise the other fun "stuff" is out of the question. ;)If you're not interested in long term, I'm not the girl for you.I have no tattoos and only my ears are pierced.Ok, a little about you...You are not covered in tattooooos up to your forehead. Some are fine (on you, not me).I look after myself and I think you should too. If you don't appear to care much about yourself, chances are I won't care about you either ...so look and smell as though you care about yourself.You aren't a couch potato who spends his days wearing sweats and a wife-beater, sucking back beers in front of the TV, and burping "bow-wow"s. No no no! You are a fun guy with manners, brains, and wit!You have a sense of ha ha. Witty funny is good. Class clown or lampshade funny is not. Drinking straws or pencils up your nose will not amuse me.I have hobbies and interests and so do you, right?I'm an Artist/Illustrator, I play bass (badly imo) I love a good book (please, no romance novels) and movies. I'm a girlie girl, but I'm not into "chick flicks". Going to a pub for a few drinks, food, and laughs with friends is ok, but I'm not into the club scene. I don't drink much at all, but I will have a couple in a social setting. I'm not into guys who drink a lot.Dinner out or dinner in... depends on my mood. There is something sexy about a guy who will get in the kitchen with you and cook a nice meal. If you can't cook, you can still be helpful. - "Here. squeeze these. Feel fresh?"I'm into healthy eating. I don't eat meat often, but I don't care if you do. Yes, I'll cook it for you and have some too, but if you want it BBQed, you will have to operate it since I'm not great with one. It has flames and you're supposed to hover over it dressed in a "Kiss the Cook" apron and be wielding a big fork thingy. That's the extent of my BBQ knowledge.I'm not going to want to go base jumping or leap out of airplanes with you, but I'm certainly not a couch potato either. I'm usually up for something that I'll have at least a ***chance of surviving.Wanna put a smile on my face? Take me out riding.

  • Hyo

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Hi. How are you?Thanks for taking a few minutes to find out a little bit about me.I need to start by saying that almost everything makes me laugh, including what I wrote below (:o)If I can't laugh about it, then I leave it behind.I have a very versatile personality.I am an intelligent, resourceful, creative and confident woman with a down-to-earth attitude and a great sense of humor.(And if thinking of myself as funny actually made me funny, I would give Ellen a run for her money!)I would love to meet a guy that actually likes who he is and wants to share the things he likes with me!If the man was also intelligent, kind, affectionate, confident and fun-loving - that would be incredible!More than anything, I appreciate a man that can be straight with me. I'm a big girl - I can handle it.I don't want to complete or change anybody - people are perfect just the way God made us. I believe two great people aren't always great together - and we're no less great when we're alone.I believe Accountability is Essential. I like the fun in dysfunctional families. I believe all kids are awesome, especially mine!)I think Corny is Beautiful, Classic rock rules, and the 80's were Awesome!FISHING LESSON:All women are their own unique flavor of crazy - men just need to find their favorite flavor! P.S.I am always flattered that you took the time to send me one!Thanks for making it all the way to this line of my profile, and I hope you are having fun on your fishing adventure!! A great first date would be something we both like. We should both enjoy the date, don't you think?Besides, I already gave a list of interests, so there's a starting point.Something unusual (but not life-threatening) would be exciting, as long as I don't have to bring a change of clothes; because choosing one outfit for a date is challenging enough. (:o)It has to be something I can happily tell my friends about, because I am a woman - so you know that's the first thing I'm going to do after the date (;o).And it has to be a date that does NOT end with the words "I'll call you." Yikes!! (:o)

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