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Lin, 49

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About Me

would the real southern gentleman with his priorities in order, please stand up! ha ha~ I have tried this site a few times and here I go again with a new profile. to me its quite simple... I just want to find that connection. The one that is real. I'm not 20 anymore and neither are you. I am not looking for a hook up or a man that is trying to serial date on here. I am looking for a mature, confident, established, fun, intellectual, goofy, sexy, passionate, and mannered kind of man that all the other women want too. lol. The thing I dislike the most on here is getting *** those that I have no attraction to and not knowing what to say back. so do I just move on to the next *** I say "thank you for contacting me, but I am sorry I do not feel we are the match I am looking for"... I have sent *** and got no reply back and its not a happy feeling. I would never want to feel i had any part in making someone else feel insufficient in any way.. I have that certain "look" I am searching for just like you are. Once that happens, then its time to try to get to know that person and see if there are things we have in common. Physical Attraction is of great importance to me. I am sure it is to you as well...If I had to be completely honest and describe my perfect man (physically) it would be this: 5'***'3, ***pds, dark hair, beautiful teeth and smile and a fit muscular body. OH and lives within 1 mile of my home.. ha ha..( just kidding, one the mile thing.) I am very nice. I really am. I care deeply and intensely. I am not high maintenence. No gold digger here. I make my own money and dont need yours. I have been single for 11 yrs and am quite independent.. (was married just short of 20 yrs***I expect a man to act like a man and be a gentleman in every aspect. Dont walk in front of me, just beside me and dont walk thru the door first. thats a pet peeve I have.. I dont ask for much and I am not ****y. I am quite easy going and forgiving but I am just a bit old fashioned too. I will do things for you that you least expect to make you feel special. I cook well and love to make you happy and feel appreciated. I have strong morals and am a Christian. If you are a non believer, it wont work with us.. I am not a fanatic but believeing in God is very important to me. I have 2 daughters and they are my life... not saying you wouldnt or couldnt be too, but I am a mom and a good one! They are grown~ I love animals, have 2 cats and if you dont like cats well it wouldnt work with us. I work hard, have a great job and am responsible. have never done drugs and hate.... that people do.I do however like to drink beer and probably drink too much sometimes. I am a pool player, and love live music. I have a new car and respect people who work hard to have nice things that they have worked hard for. Nothing has been handed to me. ever. I only like to snuggle for about 10 mins and then I need my space to stretch.. ha ha.. getting deep now I think. Honestly, I am really a cool person and easy to love.. I dont put up with a whole bunch of nonsense or fake people. If you are a player, move on. I have mastered being a player myself and I can smell you a mile away... ;) at this point in my life, I just want to find that special person to grow up with and close to and see if we can keep the fire going till we die. simple to me. Cheers~~ somewhere outside, warm weather, enjoying a good beer with good chemistry and conversation.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Daisy

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I'm a fun loving, honest and sincere person who enjoys life to the fullest. I love to laugh, am a bit sarcastic, witty and like to have fun with friends and family. My friends would describe me as loyal, fun-loving, glass half full attitude, down-to-earth and easy to talk to. I'm looking for a great guy with a sense of humor, who likes sports, enjoys life, is not a couch potato and if you can make me laugh, that's a huge plus. It's all about chemistry. If you intend on carrying on a conversation via *** *** meeting in person, then I'm not your girl.Thanks for reading about me and let's talk if you see an interest. Something simple, like a meet and greet over a drink.

  • Norah

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I am a fun loving mom with two beautiful grown daughters, I like going out and having fun, I am very easy going and always up for anything, tubing down the river is one of my favorite Sunday afternoon events. I like dancing and hanging out with friends. I am very into arts and crafts, I like sewing, painting and decorating. I own a cleaning service. I have a great personality and great family, i am loving, caring, and outgoing. I like all kinds of music except hard rock, my favorite song of all time is Tim McGraw, Don't take the girl. If I could plan a first date it would start off with Dinner at one of my favorite restaurants and engage in great conversation, i am light-hearted and love laughing and joking around, then heading over to a comedy club or movie where we could share more laughs.

  • Vega

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Hi, I am ready for a good friend, to start, been widowed at a young age and I need someone who also needs someone. A man who cares and will shower me with love and companionship, I am not after money or gifts, I am not the kind looking for gold, I just want someone by my side, someone to take long walks with to keep me from getting fat, hahahahahahahahahaOk that was fun.Seriously tho, no nightly beer drinkers or constant pot smokers, I just wanna have some real, down to earth, fun and maybe retire early with a guy who wants and is building for the very same thing. So if you found yourself on my short list (Favorites list) you should contact me if you are not going to consider me your second girlfriend after your substances use.Old rock mostly but I do like some of the newer stuff, not that gang rappy crap but ya know,,, Linkin Park is cool.What makes me unique? I really dont know, depends on your view. I am ugly on the out side as you can see but fairly good looking on the inside,,,,,, tee hee hee.Goals, to die knowing I did something to help othersI have real blond hair and blue eyes and my own teeth too!Edited to add, if you are looking for quick fun or one nights stands I am not for you. I can get that at the bar down the road from my house. I have a great job and am serious about it and am working to save for early retirement, if you are all about doing the same we could be a good match.Is the glass half empty or is it half full? Actually it is always full even if You think it's empty as long as there is enough air to fill it, Ha!Ok, some of you say Just dating in your profile, dont be offended if I say I am not interested, my profile says different and it shouldnt be a surprise later. I dont want to date someone who is dating others too or just wants short stints with many. I am looking for my last first kiss when that right one works out that way. It is my goal to find my true love, my everything, my forever man.Met a few good men, some of a long distance, hard to do long term, one who asked if I would keep contact and I said yes and did text him and heard back once and ya, things might have changed for him, its understandable, so many choices here. Some where we didnt click,,, happens, its all good. BUT,,,,There are too many darkened pics, dont you want me to see who I am going to meet? My pics are recent, all me with no make up, (it takes me 10 mins to get ready to go out, seriously), faded or washed out shots. Nothing to hide. Only ever, has one said he does drugs in his profile, this isnt possible. Its ok for many so be honest. Who wants surprises later. Why ruin what could be a wonderful thing between two who could truely have had the same interests and habits? I am not into substance abuse people. You burn your retirement your way and I will build mine my way. I also dont want to be the other girlfriend if you know what I mean,,, your drugs first then me. If you live three or four hours away dont be thinkin I am gonna travel to you, it aint gonna happen unless you look like a young Tom Selleck and you smell like money, hahaha.There, said it and am sticking to it. What?!?! I sound like a jerk? No, just being honest and reasonable and respecting your space too. Hope that goes over well for us all.;) Our first date would be a coffee, some chat and maybe a walk. Dont try to wine and dine me, I am an easy going kind who enjoys a simple setting like looking at a lake with a big jug of cold water or a huge travel mug of coffee and a hug. Really.Then,,,,Call me back if it was fun for you and you like lots about me.Please contact me only if you have recent pics. Kinda spooky yaking with no idea who's on the other end. Besides if we meet and you look like your picture's daddy we're gonna be in a terribly awkward place together. Be real, show yourself so the one who really loves you for who you appear to be can find you.

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