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Lin, 49

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About Me

would the real southern gentleman with his priorities in order, please stand up! ha ha~ I have tried this site a few times and here I go again with a new profile. to me its quite simple... I just want to find that connection. The one that is real. I'm not 20 anymore and neither are you. I am not looking for a hook up or a man that is trying to serial date on here. I am looking for a mature, confident, established, fun, intellectual, goofy, sexy, passionate, and mannered kind of man that all the other women want too. lol. The thing I dislike the most on here is getting *** those that I have no attraction to and not knowing what to say back. so do I just move on to the next *** I say "thank you for contacting me, but I am sorry I do not feel we are the match I am looking for"... I have sent *** and got no reply back and its not a happy feeling. I would never want to feel i had any part in making someone else feel insufficient in any way.. I have that certain "look" I am searching for just like you are. Once that happens, then its time to try to get to know that person and see if there are things we have in common. Physical Attraction is of great importance to me. I am sure it is to you as well...If I had to be completely honest and describe my perfect man (physically) it would be this: 5'***'3, ***pds, dark hair, beautiful teeth and smile and a fit muscular body. OH and lives within 1 mile of my home.. ha ha..( just kidding, one the mile thing.) I am very nice. I really am. I care deeply and intensely. I am not high maintenence. No gold digger here. I make my own money and dont need yours. I have been single for 11 yrs and am quite independent.. (was married just short of 20 yrs***I expect a man to act like a man and be a gentleman in every aspect. Dont walk in front of me, just beside me and dont walk thru the door first. thats a pet peeve I have.. I dont ask for much and I am not ****y. I am quite easy going and forgiving but I am just a bit old fashioned too. I will do things for you that you least expect to make you feel special. I cook well and love to make you happy and feel appreciated. I have strong morals and am a Christian. If you are a non believer, it wont work with us.. I am not a fanatic but believeing in God is very important to me. I have 2 daughters and they are my life... not saying you wouldnt or couldnt be too, but I am a mom and a good one! They are grown~ I love animals, have 2 cats and if you dont like cats well it wouldnt work with us. I work hard, have a great job and am responsible. have never done drugs and hate.... that people do.I do however like to drink beer and probably drink too much sometimes. I am a pool player, and love live music. I have a new car and respect people who work hard to have nice things that they have worked hard for. Nothing has been handed to me. ever. I only like to snuggle for about 10 mins and then I need my space to stretch.. ha ha.. getting deep now I think. Honestly, I am really a cool person and easy to love.. I dont put up with a whole bunch of nonsense or fake people. If you are a player, move on. I have mastered being a player myself and I can smell you a mile away... ;) at this point in my life, I just want to find that special person to grow up with and close to and see if we can keep the fire going till we die. simple to me. Cheers~~ somewhere outside, warm weather, enjoying a good beer with good chemistry and conversation.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Addy

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    This is always the hard part, what does one say? I can describe myself as caring, sensitive and a hard working professional woman yet.. what does that really tell you about me? I am not good at talking about myself, at least not in writing. I will say that I am looking for a friend, not that I am against relationships, far from it, I just think that you need to start as friends. I want to build a strong friendship first. When we are together we should laugh often and be able to be silly around one another. I want to know the person in my life has my back at all times as I will theirs. We need to connect yet never lose who we are when in a relationship. If I take a chance on you it is because I accept and respect you as you are. I prefer to dress casually, jeans and shirt yet..when the time is right I certainly clean up well. I enjoy watching sports. Sunday afternoons in the fall/winter are some of my favorite times. I like to curl up on the couch and watch football, maybe have a beer and order a pizza. Unless you like to make pizza, than we could make one together. I am affectionate, love to hold hands, cuddle on the couch and give unexpected kisses. I love romance.OK, so there you go..a little about me. I can save the rest for when we meet:)UPDATEI am not out for a one night stand, a boy toy (yes those young boys ask that!!) or just a sexual relationship. If we exchange numbers I will not send you naked pictures. If this is what you are looking for, please look elsewhere..don't waste my time!!!!! Let's see...I have no ideal first date, I like to see what happens. It is these times that you begin getting to know someone, can you spontaneously come up with something to do.

  • Dee

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I know what I want and I'm ready for it! I'm not rushing to get married, but I would love to meet a great guy with a great outlook on life and know what they want as well! With that said...a little more about me! :)Well, I'm very outgoing, friendly, laid back, sweet at times :)! I love life and I love to smile. I have a great family and a great circle of really good friends. I'm drama free and like it that way. I do enjoy all sorts of things...sports, fishing, love riding, hill country, traveling,etc...! I'm more down to earth and don't mind getting a little dirty or cleaning up and going out having fun or just hanging out with my friends and family. I love the water...lake or beach. I would love to meet a nice, HONEST guy that I have a connection with and the chemistry along with everything else. I have a great attitude on life and I'm very positive. Non positive, jealous, needy men need not apply. I would love to meet that guy that makes me giddy and I can't wait to see or hear from him and the feeling is mutual. I like a guy that is very outgoing, have same interest and with great personality! :) I have a great job, in the oil industry and really enjoy it.I am very compassionate and will do anything in the world for that person that I care about. I want to meet people to hang out with and have a good time. I am looking for a friend I can share common interests and goals with and maybe go from there.Good luck to you all out there looking for your new friend I would want to do something fun & relaxing...just have fun and not be nervous about the first meet! A patio out somewhere on the water would be nice, or just something spontaneous.

  • Jeri

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am an active person who enjoys outdoor adventure of all types, especially in the summer. My idea of a good time can be a BBQ, dining out, hiking, camping, outdoor concerts or simply kicking back at home with a good meal and a movie. I love the beach, especially in the late afternoon. I am a social person who has a great network of friends. I have two amazing children who are very independent now, which gives me more free time to pursue the things that I want. Among the top of this list is falling in love! I live a healthy lifestyle and I would like to meet someone who does the same. Not interested in a heavy drinker, social drinker is ok. My ideal match would be someone with an open heart and mind who is emotionally available and optimistic about life, is confident and sincere—someone who keeps it real and knows what they want. I have a good life and want to share it with someone very special. A good sense of humor is an essential ingredient—laughter is good for the soul. I am looking for a level headed, fun loving man who has a serious side, yet knows when to keep it light. Throw in a couple of more key ingredients like chemistry and physical attraction and the possibilities are endless! By the way...I am 51 not 49 but meetville will not let me change this information. Non-smokers only.

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