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Lin, 49

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About Me

would the real southern gentleman with his priorities in order, please stand up! ha ha~ I have tried this site a few times and here I go again with a new profile. to me its quite simple... I just want to find that connection. The one that is real. I'm not 20 anymore and neither are you. I am not looking for a hook up or a man that is trying to serial date on here. I am looking for a mature, confident, established, fun, intellectual, goofy, sexy, passionate, and mannered kind of man that all the other women want too. lol. The thing I dislike the most on here is getting *** those that I have no attraction to and not knowing what to say back. so do I just move on to the next *** I say "thank you for contacting me, but I am sorry I do not feel we are the match I am looking for"... I have sent *** and got no reply back and its not a happy feeling. I would never want to feel i had any part in making someone else feel insufficient in any way.. I have that certain "look" I am searching for just like you are. Once that happens, then its time to try to get to know that person and see if there are things we have in common. Physical Attraction is of great importance to me. I am sure it is to you as well...If I had to be completely honest and describe my perfect man (physically) it would be this: 5'***'3, ***pds, dark hair, beautiful teeth and smile and a fit muscular body. OH and lives within 1 mile of my home.. ha ha..( just kidding, one the mile thing.) I am very nice. I really am. I care deeply and intensely. I am not high maintenence. No gold digger here. I make my own money and dont need yours. I have been single for 11 yrs and am quite independent.. (was married just short of 20 yrs***I expect a man to act like a man and be a gentleman in every aspect. Dont walk in front of me, just beside me and dont walk thru the door first. thats a pet peeve I have.. I dont ask for much and I am not ****y. I am quite easy going and forgiving but I am just a bit old fashioned too. I will do things for you that you least expect to make you feel special. I cook well and love to make you happy and feel appreciated. I have strong morals and am a Christian. If you are a non believer, it wont work with us.. I am not a fanatic but believeing in God is very important to me. I have 2 daughters and they are my life... not saying you wouldnt or couldnt be too, but I am a mom and a good one! They are grown~ I love animals, have 2 cats and if you dont like cats well it wouldnt work with us. I work hard, have a great job and am responsible. have never done drugs and hate.... that people do.I do however like to drink beer and probably drink too much sometimes. I am a pool player, and love live music. I have a new car and respect people who work hard to have nice things that they have worked hard for. Nothing has been handed to me. ever. I only like to snuggle for about 10 mins and then I need my space to stretch.. ha ha.. getting deep now I think. Honestly, I am really a cool person and easy to love.. I dont put up with a whole bunch of nonsense or fake people. If you are a player, move on. I have mastered being a player myself and I can smell you a mile away... ;) at this point in my life, I just want to find that special person to grow up with and close to and see if we can keep the fire going till we die. simple to me. Cheers~~ somewhere outside, warm weather, enjoying a good beer with good chemistry and conversation.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Cordelia

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I wanta meet someone that wants to travel and show me the world. I hate routine. Not talking about work. I am very ambitious, driven, goal oriented, head strong. I am very picky, and I can't just hang out with anyone that I don't have a connection with. I love lots of music, I love shopping, dressing nice, football. movies, boating. I am very creative, love home decor, antiques, I love positive people, with goals, and somewhat laid back but active also. I hate couch potatoes!! I would like to live on an island one day. I like meeting people in business and Professional. If I meet the right person, I would settle. I am not looking for SLEEP OVERS. I love working out, staying in shape. I love my space and I don't like clingy people....I would like to work smarter, not harder..... I am active , but love relaxing and don't do it enough!! I am not into games. take no BS....I am from BR... ---My pic is recent---Dating is good but I don't want to date lots of ppl, Has to be connection!!!! Chemistry, for me to even wanta go out.... no sense in wastig time... I don't need to occupy space someplace just to go out... Not desperate....OH. and I am attracted to bad boy personalities, just a little on the edge... Now I love God, have my Faith, just not perfect, noone is, but i love rugged, handyman type, no suits all the time but please dress nice and like classy places, I love professional but rugged-if that makes sense, street smart men***!!!!!!!! ha ---no bossy ones plz***letst just have a balance---I am not***well maybe sassy--OH one IMPORTANT thing , I do wanta build a home with someone and I am not moving into the country, so I want to meet the right one that loves building, or into architecture or just wanting to move and start over with someone, THIS is my Passion, love home decor.... remember above--handy---ha..... means handy in knowing how to do stuff... Just what I am use to and like..Please do not be too good at Decorating or at all--thanks. !!!!. Dinner, coffee, drink, a drive to French Quarter...... depends on who the person is and go from there!!!!***really ***????

  • Emylynn

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Hello!...something about this place.I take time to enjoy the beach and the ocean every chance I get. An evening beach walk with a couple beers in the cooler is on my daily agenda. Honestly, if I didn't have to work, I don't think I would leave the island much at all :) I like to keep things simple -life doesn't always have to be complicated providing we don't make it that way.This is a dating website, so I do not expect to be your only girl -just make me feel that way when we are together.If you just want to be friends, that's what *** Wings and beer

  • Michiko

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I want my next relationship to be full of laughs, passion, and devotion. I am not looking for a hook-up. I have enjoyed dating just for fun, but now I am looking for something longterm, and maybe even permanent--and still fun!The qualities that I find especially attractive in a man are a witty sense of humor, intelligence, thoughtfulness, honesty, and kindness. Things that turn me off in a man: shirtless profile pictures, arrogance, adjusting yourself in public, and spitting. I hope that isn't too much to ask;)I'll treat you with respect and always let you know where you stand. I know people often claim in their profiles that they don't play games, but I really don't. I'm not a good liar and break a sweat when I'm expected to pretend to be something I'm not. I'm mentally stable--I promise--and pretty perceptive. I'm trusting by nature, but skeptical by way of experience. I know guys often look at the pictures and skip the reading, but if you've gotten this far, you already must like what you see.I take good care of myself and am pretty low maintenance in the beauty treatment department. Occasional manicures, but no fake nails. Just enough color in my hair to keep it the shade I'm used to. No fake body parts. I like to think I look good for my age, but don't pretend to be a hardbody. I'm at a point in my life where I feel good about my appearance and work to keep it up, but won't pass up a good dessert or bowl of cheese dip.Life's too short. Thanks for being curious enough to read this far. If you're interested, message me. Expect at least one real phone conversation before an actual face-to-face. I learned that one the hard way. Best of luck, and hope we both find what we are looking for out there.

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