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Arletha, 49

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About Me

I'm a 48-year-old professional who is looking for some fun and companionship hopefully leading to a long-term relationship. I work for a financial services company managing litigation and while I enjoy my work, I am more than happy to leave it at the office at the end of the day. People have told me I project an aura of calm the downside of which has made me appear a little aloof to people at times. I’m not especially once I get to know you a little! I'm avid about physical fitness (for myself - I just really enjoy it!) and you're likely to find me running or biking outside or using the elliptical or weight training in my home gym in addition to a spin class a couple of days a week at the gym. I love to cook/bake (and eat - hence all the aforementioned exercise!) and recently adopted a low carb life-style so have been having a ball experimenting with alternative ingredients I never knew existed before. Who says you have to give up desserts and treats! That being said I can whip up some mean traditional fare as well. I also enjoy reading, movies, going out to eat, occasionally dabbling in genealogy, and spending time on my on-going quest to teach myself Italian among other things. I’m very independent and have a high tolerance for being alone but also enjoy getting out, socializing and having fun! I am very warm and nurturing of my partner in a relationship and expect we'll spend lots of time together but I also think we should have some separate interests and want to spend some time apart with friends or pursuing those interests. I have a great family (although I wish they lived closer and I had more opportunities to see them) not to mention a group of close friends from high school and college I spend time with on a regular basis. I don't have kids (somewhat of a regret but at this point I think I'm a little too old for it to be a possibility) but I love them and have lived vicariously through my beautiful 24 yr old niece and 7 yr. old nephew.I’m looking for someone who is honest, has a great sense of humor, a strong sense of self, doesn’t take himself too seriously and is kind to children and animals :) I’d love to meet someone I can be myself around and feel totally comfortable with. I would like to meet someone who agrees that laughter is essential in a relationship and that it is always a work in progress that needs attention and care. Something that will give us a chance to talk and get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

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    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    love the outdoors NH is my go to place to have fun and relax with friends and familyhard working single mom looking to get back into the dating scene but not sure whats out there little scary. love all types of music, movies and art love sports and good friends to watch them with Bostonian all the way love my teams win or lose. Would like to meet someone that also likes to travel and enjoy new adventures. Meet for coffee or drinks talk get to know each other a little

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