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Helena, 49
United States, Georgia, Vienna

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About Me

So I'm not blonde, or an athletic model...and I won't ever be (no, I'm not a gym rat). But that doesn't mean you shouldn't check me out. I'm a nice lady looking for a man who will appreciate me for me and allow me to do the same in return. Nothing special, fancy or spectacular. I live a relatively happy life...without drama...I have 2 teens who are rarely home, and all that other stuff that people do and acquire by the time they've reached my age of 49. I work as an Early Childhood Educator with kindergarten children 5 days a week so it keeps me very active...I love this profession and wouldn't trade it for anything. I like a little of everything as my interest list indicates...if not going to see a band, I love listening to music whenever given the opportunity. Not crazy about country, definitely don't like rap... otherwise, I'm game for it all. I like going/watching movies --coms. I love to entertain friends and enjoy their company very much. Drawing, painting and photography are 3 past times I have reconnected with and enjoy immensely. Dancing is also one of my fav past times ... live or dj... it's great fun! I did do ballroom dancing lessons many years ago and would love to do it again.I am told I'm an attractive woman, have all my teeth (yes, the pictures are accurate and current), a minimal amount of wrinkles for a lady my age, long red hair, blue/green eyes, a warm smile and an equally warm heart. I am a casual dress person most of the time but do enjoy dressing up when opportunities present themselves. I would like to meet a man who can wear jeans & a tee, do what needs to be done around the house, loves to do things out and about...doesn't mind dressing up a bit when called upon to do so...and is still relaxed doing it :) Someone who is easy to talk with and will listen. I would love to do more!I would love to do lots of fun, exciting, and different things yet to be discovered...and maybe some romance thrown in for good measure :-)I DON'T want to do endless chat on here. If you are interested, contact me and let's meet for a drink :) Life is meant to be lived outside :)It says long term on my profile but dating for now on the basis it all has to start somewhere right? If you say you are a "non-smoker", please be a non-smoker. If you have younger children, best of luck to you. I'm at a point in my life where my kids don't need me as much and I want to be able to spend time enjoying the company of a male friend/companion.Out of courtesy, it's nice if you respond at the very least to say ...Thank you for your interest. Looking forward to hearing from you... after the initial meet and greet... guess it's up to both of us. I do like surprises though... I am a romantic at heart... so if you know what romance is all about, you will know what to do :-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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