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Sandi, 50

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About Me

Live without pretending. Love without depending. Listen without defending. Speak without offending.I am a lover of men with sexy smiles, warm hearts & lots of ambition. Interested in festivals, kinks & fetishes, muscular bodies, mouths, intimacy, the goddess worshipper, poetic verse, reggae, soft lighting, candles, incense, kissing, chivalrous men, people who listen, people who share, good wines, savoury &I'm passionate in love and live my life with purpose and meaning. I'm an independent, intelligent, sensuous and sometimes sassy girl with a whole lotta love for the man who's got it. Come to me with an open heart but not a broken one. I crave a man with strength.... of intellect, character and physique! Most importantly I want, crave, and expect intimacy, passion, and commitment .... for these are the Big 3 for me ~ I'm a voluptuary at heart.YES, i am a big beautiful woman!... fully figured and luscious! If you don't like curling up to something very soft, sensuous and playful you should probably move along BUT just because I've chosen BBW does not mean I'm a sloth. I'm not the avid hiker, biker, climber i used to be but it doesn't mean i can't actively engage in a multitude of things with you... which of course is not me. I'm thick and juicy as you can see.Oh and I definitely enjoy a glass of wine or two with dinner. I'm not a lush. I don't get wasted. Just my end of the day wind down. :)**************************************************************************************************SEEKING the loving, talented MAN I wish to worship and I won't stop until I do. Yes, I use the word worship because a solid loving partner is something to behold, cherish, appreciate and embrace. I believe in expressing the soul, our deepest desires, in ways that go beyond the flesh. Those that have learned some life lessons, looked in the mirror long enough, stopped pointing fingers, and aren't afraid to open their hearts wide will know what I'm talking about. Two souls entwined beyond the mind.**************************************************************************************************Lastly, an article I was reading called "How to Worship a Woman" ~ here's my fave comment and author response:"I wouldn't even know what worship was if it broke into my house at 2 o'clock in the morning and held me at gunpoint."Here's the Author's response:That's where the whole thing starts for all of us, when we realize that we don't yet know how to love. And that's the big question that you have to consider: "Is that okay with me?" Never mind how much money you make, or how many friends you have on ***, no matter how nice a house you live in, or no matter how big a car you drive, no matter how impressive your partner's bust size, or how much you meditate and become spiritual... have you loved for real, in a total and undefended way? If not, and here's where you have to be honest with yourself, is that OK with you? Is it OK to die one day without the heart's gift having been fully given? If you've read this far and this resonates with you, I welcome your contact. :) A quiet place for a drink and some jazz duo in the background to relax us so conversation flows freely? Fun and frolic in the woods ? ...... Truth or Dare? A romantic dinner and walk on the beach is always good.No movies on a first date people. Who does that? Hi, I'm really interested in you. Would you like to sit silently beside me for 2 hours? ;) ... hilarious.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I'm here for the same reason many others, who are actually genuine :) are ..... to meet somebody that is interested in a relationship - and is willing to put in the time and effort that is required. Sense of humour is really important to me! Realizing more and more that this is a quality that I need in a partner ....Oh, and the "describe your personality in one word" MANDATORY section ..... I chose vegetarian ... I'm not - lol, but I didn't like any of the others .....I am a quiet woman who has a lot of passion. I think I have a great smile, and I would like to find a man who can make me want to use it often. I am a good listener, and enjoy great conversation and lots of laughs. I may be quiet, but I am anything but passive. If you tread on me you'll know it. But if you are gentle and kind with me, I will be incredibly wonderful to you. I'm simply a good woman in search of a good man. If I don't respond to your message, please don't take that as being rude .... I just know what I'm looking for, and don't want to waste your time, or mine :)

  • Persephone

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I am a blonde, 5'4" woman who has recently become single. I enjoy watching movies and playing music. I am currently learning to play the guitar, and I would like someone who is musically inclined to join in the experience. I love to read and go for walks. I am a very adventurous person and I love to travel. As much as I love to go out and have a good time, I love to stay at home and hang out. "Easy-going", "creative" and "caring" would be words that describe me well. I love to take care of people, and this includes cooking some really great meals. I am very family oriented, and I have two kids who are fully grown. In the future, I hope to travel to new and interesting places and to have someone who is fun and adventurous to do it with. I love all types of music with the exception of rap and country, but I love music from the 60's, 70's, and 80's. I love to go out and see local bands and dance the night away.Would love to meet someone who would enjoy doing these things with me. For my first date, I would like to go for supper at a quiet place so that we can learn more about each other. I love all types of food, and I enjoy trying new things. Afterwards, I'd love to go and see some local talent at one of the city's many pubs. I really enjoy many activities so I would also be up for seeing a movie, going for a walk, or checking out the art gallery.

  • Neida

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I'm looking for a genuine guy that doesn't have issues and knows how to treat a lady! I have 2 children that are my everything. I am a kind, caring person with a great sense of humor and a big heart. I'm very easy going, not into the bar scene, would rather spend an evening at home cuddling and watching movies. I'm not into head games, looking for someone that shares the same values and interests as me. I enjoy camping and quadding, don't mind getting a little dirty lol sitting by the fire and spending time with friends. I enjoy most types of music and love dancing. Maybe meet for coffee or a drink.

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