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Erlinda, 46
United States, Georgia, Vidalia

Offline, last seen Wed, 22 Oct 2025 10:31:11

About Me

I am a secure single female BBW and knows what she is looking for in a man. If you can't handle honesty and be drama free in a relationship then keep looking. I need someone who can be in it 100% just as I will be there for them. Friends 1st, I'm not into jumping into bed with just anyone JUST BECAUSE, and if you think you can change my mind you are seriously mistaken.I am honest to the point of being blunt, caring, trustworthy, funny, a bit on shy side at first, but warms up easy to the right person, I have a good heart and a strong moral attitude.People tease me that I am too independant and allow my "relationships" too much space, well that's just the way I am. I'm not looking to change anyone, decide anyones future, or fix their problems, but I am however willing to respect that this special man has his own life outside of mine, the choice to be his own person, and the freedom to do whatever it is that makes him happy. It's up to them to live by their own moral compass. Having said that, I am by no means a push-;mis-interpretation of events", if you know what I mean! Stand by your word, control your actions, and live your life, and you will get all my respect.What I am looking for is a flexible man who doesn't always see it my way, or his way, more of our way. He should be down to earth, more on the funny side than the serious, life is too screwed up to take it serious anyways! Even if I dont find it all that funny you will at least get a smile LOL!!!I am having a bit of trouble with older guys, we don't seem to have a good connection. So if you are older please be young at heart! Know at least some of the top 40 thats out now, hip hop or country I'm not much into the heavy metal even though both my boys tried to hypnotize me at night with it for years... And lets face it, there has to be some common ground and mutual attraction. And the very last thing, I have tattoos not just one or two...10.Sorry, if you still are living the soap opera, please stay away, I don't watch much TV! I'm not a home wrecker, a rebound, or "just because" kind of girl.All my children are grown adults, have their own lives, makin their own babies, I don't need a sitter,or a father for them. I just want a decent man, someone who will respect me, understand my life doesn't always involve them and that we can spend time apart and really not be mad, sad, hurt, or cheating on each other.AND IF YOU DO NOT HAVE A RECENT PICTURE FELLAS FORGET IT, IT HAS ALREADY STARTED WITH A LIE!!... I am truthful with my appearance, NO SURPRISES HERE!! I understand that alot of men do not like bigger girls and I am fine with that, I don't really care for skinny guys either, so we are even :), My pants may say Yoga, but my butt still says McDonalds :). But seriously guys, try a CURRENT picture. I thought only women did that!! UUUGGHHH!!! :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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