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Wilda, 46

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About Me

High maintenance, angry, phony, selfish, cold and looking for misery and drama. I dont care what you want just need to know what you can give me. I micromanage everything and everyone and have no tolerance for anything that isn't just perfect. Hmmm the complete opposite translation service on this site seems to work pretty well. So scratch that and turn it around. Looking for someone with a heart like mine, an open mind, who is honest and giving and makes me laugh. A partner who inspires me and finds inspiration from me. I am interested in so many things. I just want to keep discovering and learning. I love music, indie bands, local bands, not rap so much. Big movie buff. I want to see as much of the world as I can, enjoy people watching and enjoying the local culture much more than tourist attractions. I love to create, be innovative and am fascinated with great design. I am active and always love to try new things. I was meant to be a Rock star, but unfortunately not many people besides myself enjoy my vocal stylings (that doesn't really stop me much to the dismay of my kids!) Creative and artistic and love to be challenged!I have three intelligent and beautiful children. My youngest is 16 and still home with me.My head is good and my heart is open. I take commitment very seriously and I am not built for games, secrets, infidelity, and have enormous capacity for understanding, growth, compromise and forgiveness. I love with my whole self, passionately, know its important to both play together and be willing to face the tough stuff head on. I do not feel it is a waste of my time to meet honest, fun, interesting and caring people and potential friends. I honestly expect nothing more from any date and believe the best things happen when it isn't expected. I would watch and file my nails while you do home repairs for me. Ha ha. Im up for most things as long as it is safe and agreed upon. I have a big caffeine addiction and as a librarian I can't resist a bookstore. Walking downtown somewhere might be nice.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Tilda

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am a honest person with a strong work ethnic.I am trustworthy , loyal & dependable.I am pure country, like the plain & simple ! I have 2 grown children & 1 grandchild. Family is very important to me. .Some of my hobbies include: fishing, camping, sightseeing and gardening. I enjoy music & prefer rock & roll oldies and country.I enjoy occasional movies, prefer westerns, action , drama & comedy; rarely watch television.I like my surroundings very neat, tidy & organized. Although it is not a great love of mine, I am quiet capable in the kitchen.I am not high maintence but do enjoy recieving alot of attention & also enjoy returning it. Dinner an a movie

  • Gillian

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    *** Disclaimer I'm not always online when it says "online" my phone has a mind of it's own.**** While I am very flattered by the attention, I DO NOT date outside my race or anyone who wants to SHARE me with his WIFE or girlfriend (or son). So Black and/or Married is Deal Breaker.Like my headline says this is also a work in progress......I tried this when I was overseas and met some really nice folks to hang out with and I traveled some. I love to stay in touch. So about me...... I threw my work boots away when I got off the plane in Dubai. I eventually have to go back to work maybe something less dramatic like bartender or flight attendant for a lil' while.Tired of trying to save the whole world maybe time to try and save just my little part of it.Just got home and I plan on hanging out on this side of the world for awhile. I like all kinds of music and all kinds of food. I love to dress up, but I'm more comfy in my jeans and flippie floppies.If the destination includes the word beach I'm in. I enjoy the mountains in the fall when the colors are brightest.;I want to see anywhere big enough for that plane to land", or "oh no my plane left me" (again) Got tired of the plane leaving without me so when my son turned grown I started traveling, but my mom says I leave just so I can come home, I really love coming home. My family is all local. There are 50 of us on Christmas morning. I never get to sit at the "adult table" but I carry on a fairly intelligent conversation when I am in the mood. I love to ride, but I don't own a bike. Big trucks and fast cars are sexy.My exes (yes I have plural) and I usually remain friends. We were friends to start with, and stay friends even thru the hard times. I've been told I'm independent to a fault.(its an act to hide my insecurities) I seem to fall for "action figures" (police fire Marine Medic) Still looking for a superhero in uniform, knight in cowboy boots, or just someone that the thought of seeing makes me smile each time. Being over seas has made me really appreciate holding hands, I'm a very affectionate person. Sometimes a touch or soft word is all it takes to put a person at ease. I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve, so it occasionally gets broken. I expect people to be and do what they say when they say it when they don't I get my feelings hurt.(though you may not see it, I hide it pretty well)Have I sparked your interest at all ? Coffee Shop to talk or Margaritas and Mexican on a patio somewhere ? Nothing too formal or high pressure until we're comfortable with each other I would hate to sneak out the back door on you.

  • Tameka

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    mothers of 3 outstanding boys.2 with familys of there own one still at home, that graduated this past year. i enjoy camping, hiking and working with the youth.i am a grand mother of 5. i have my own business.i am a people person. I love to have fun when in the company of the right people.i am 48 years young.looking to find the right man that wants to treat a lady like the lady she is......not into one night stands!!! some day hope to find the gentleman that wants a best friend and wants to take things slow to learn about one another so the relationship so it will become a lasting one.im a faithful lady it will be well worth the wait. always remember with me first impression is the impression that i will remember.im 48yrs.young i dont play games.i can see a player a mile away so dont try to play me.a first date is just that a first.where it goes after that we will see.on our first date i expect you to be the gentle man you are.im not looking for a sex partner so if thats what youre after go to the next lady...yes sex is important in a relationship.but this is not where i start.we need to learn about one another and learn to trust and respect one anothers mind and bodies and hearts, then and only then if we have a strong and loving relationship we will then enter into a sexual relationship.so with that being said, if youre a serious man looking for a serious true hearted lady lets talk.

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