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Heike, 48

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About Me

After experiencing this site, and before giving up, I felt that I needed to make clear what my goals are. I am not looking to serial date, sexual encounters or one night stands, nor am I looking for a pen pal. I am also not looking to move in with someone right away. Although we are not getting any younger, I do want a long term, long lasting relationship with the one person I can build a future with but I believe this is something that needs to be done slowly. If their is compatibility, there may be a future. I have two beautiful children who are my world and even though they are beyond their teen years, they will always be my priority. I am a kind, confident, loyal person who is comfortable with her own company, although I do enjoy socializing, entertaining and travelling. My absolute passion is, and has always been cooking.....feeding people, accompanied by chilled bottles of red wine (yes...chilled). If I could do one thing over again, food would definitely be in my line of work. What am I looking for? A friendship like no other, wrapped with trust and faithfulness. A communicator, honesty.....someone who has my back, someone with overall strong morals, kind, compassionate, secure and sensible. Someone with their own interests as well and allows me to have mine. If this sounds like you, with an added sense of humour and a positive outlook on life, drop me a note. On another note, as many others on this site, I ask for no drama or at least as little as possible. We all have baggage so just bring your "carry on"GOOD LUCK! start off with a lot of talking, then from there, fine dining at any hole in the wall where the food is great!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am a very active, outgoing individual who values spending time with someone special. I like to work out, go out to dinner, movies, concerts, love to travel, like to be with family and friends. I work hard and plays hard. I am looking for a partner who may want to to mt. bike, walk, swim,, hang out with friends and family. I like to cook, eat healthy, wine tasting, would like to try to make you laugh.I am looking for a guy who is honest, kind, fun-loving, who takes care of himself. I am looking for someone who likes to be active, likes to go out to and do things. I am romantic ,compassionate and very loyal when it comes to love and friendship. I have so much to be thankful for. I am affectionate and feminine, hardworking,, family oriented -... if not opposite! From quiet romantic evenings with you...to challenges that *** spark; , fine dining, rock concerts, rb, dancing, finding a great pair of shoes, ping pong, sledding, walking play euchre. traveling to new and exotic places! I am adventurous and I never turn down the opportunity to try something new!! I would like to meet to someone who is intelliegent, interesting,, has values , respects his relationships, and is up for finding the fun and adventure in life, someone to fall in love with, .. - to embrace, enrich and enhance each other lives. If you feel we might be a match, I'd love to hear from you. If its a first meeting a coffee or a drink would be great. I would say a nice first date out it would be nice to go out to dinner, have a great conversation and a good meal and if it is really great, you don't notice anyone else in the room but that person. After dinner maybe go hear a local band and maybe even dance.!

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am a fun loving and easy going with a great sense of humor. I am very positive and upbeat, life is too short to sweat the small stuff. I am an active person..in fact I hate to sit around and do nothing. I am very spontaneous. I love to surprise my man (good surprises only) I have 2 girls 17 & 13. They live with me and visit their dad every other weekend. I need someone who understands that when my girls are with me I am totally committed to them (you are welcome to join us), but on the weekend when they are with their father....I AM ALL YOURS....and you will not kick and scream too much when I drag you to out to go shoe shopping then we may a match. Remember if you can't laugh at yourself, you are taking life WAY too seriously. I am looking for a partner who wants to build a relationship and create our own unique memories. HMMMM...first date/meeting?? I am up for anything except a movie. Can't get to know each other when you have to keep your mouth shut.

  • Sable

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    You are browsing through the online dating sites and someone catches your eye. So, you stop and read her profile. Hmmm, she spells "you're" and "they're" correctly, good. No racist undertones, nice. No hint of a house full cats, dogs or exotic pets or axe wielding exes, awesome. She's got a couple kids (fourteen year old girl and an eleven year old son) who she seems to love beyond belief, excellent. She isn't in debt up to her eyeballs. Plus, she likes 80's music and movies (Cause if my calculations are correct, when this baby hits 88, you're going to see some serious s**t.) She loves live music and theater as well as films and museums and dining out. She likes swimming, snorkeling, boating, fishing, nature preserves, historic sites and history in general. She likes documentaries, trivia, anything British except maybe the food. Wow, the person seems pretty cool and relatively sane. So, someone this interesting, well-read and educated is probably into cerebral stuff and absolutely no fun.***is a fav), and trips to the drug store, where, for some reason, everything you guys look at is hysterically funny. Okay, it all seems charming and fun but what about romance. Wow...wow, okay, well, she seems to know what makes a relationship hum. She mentions loving to kiss for a long time and cuddle and caress and, well, it seems she's got passion in a relationship exactly where it belongs, front and center. Okay, okay...let's check out the photos. Very nice. Sexy, sensuous, quite tall, desirable and a very very kissable BBW. Now, she wrote an amazing profile. She seems too good to be true, wait, you read that she still admits to being a real human being with faults and weaknesses, who sometimes makes mistakes but owns up to them. Now, at this point, you have a couple choices, you could decide she's not for you (which is fine), she's cute but not your cup of tea or, or you find yourself attracted to her. You think, I could totally enjoy meeting her and maybe actually make some sort of connection. We could go out to dinner or a show. We could spend an afternoon playing putt-putt golf, we could talk and get to know each other over dinner at a romantic restaurant or something completely different. She seems cool and up for almost anything. So, now it's up to you. Write to her with something a little more original than "Hello" or "Hey." Make sure you have a few photos on your profile because she doesn't even read mail from people with photo-less profiles. Take the chance. Risk your heart. Be charming. Be witty. Be original. And if you could, be at least a college grad, really tall and friendly. Who knows, It could be the beginning of something very very special. Quiet dinner, soft lights, music, wine

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