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Heike, 48

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About Me

After experiencing this site, and before giving up, I felt that I needed to make clear what my goals are. I am not looking to serial date, sexual encounters or one night stands, nor am I looking for a pen pal. I am also not looking to move in with someone right away. Although we are not getting any younger, I do want a long term, long lasting relationship with the one person I can build a future with but I believe this is something that needs to be done slowly. If their is compatibility, there may be a future. I have two beautiful children who are my world and even though they are beyond their teen years, they will always be my priority. I am a kind, confident, loyal person who is comfortable with her own company, although I do enjoy socializing, entertaining and travelling. My absolute passion is, and has always been cooking.....feeding people, accompanied by chilled bottles of red wine (yes...chilled). If I could do one thing over again, food would definitely be in my line of work. What am I looking for? A friendship like no other, wrapped with trust and faithfulness. A communicator, honesty.....someone who has my back, someone with overall strong morals, kind, compassionate, secure and sensible. Someone with their own interests as well and allows me to have mine. If this sounds like you, with an added sense of humour and a positive outlook on life, drop me a note. On another note, as many others on this site, I ask for no drama or at least as little as possible. We all have baggage so just bring your "carry on"GOOD LUCK! start off with a lot of talking, then from there, fine dining at any hole in the wall where the food is great!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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