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Alaya, 49

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About Me

Down to earth and have a great sense of humor. Love to laugh (even at myself) and enjoy life to the fullest! My friends call me sweet and sassy. I am loyal, honest, caring, and want the same in return. I am romantic and appreciate my partner. One of the most sensual things is to be kissed in the pouring rain, and not care that its raining. Enjoy exploring new places and things. Better shared with someone special! Could that someone be you? Cuddling up together to watch a movie is priceless. I Work out and enjoy several different sports. , I am pretty much comfortable in any setting. If you see a connection or have any questions drop me a l line. If not good luck fishing. A first date would be nice to keep it casual.Somewhere where we can chat and get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Roseanne

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    * I don't answer e-mails from guys who just click the button that says they want to "meet" me. If you are truly interested in hearing back from me, then I would appreciate you taking the time to write me an e-mail telling me about yourself and what about my profile interests you. Thanks! :-)I am an off-beat, quirky gal with an artist's soul. I live a healthy lifestyle - good food and exercise regularly. I always think outside of the box and I am looking for someone who is also a free-thinker, atypical, stable but not boring, strong-minded yet sensitive, can take control of a situation when necessary, confident without being arrogant, values emotional connection, knows the importance of good communication, enjoys nature, is generous in spirit, and appreciates the arts....I am definitely a bohemian woman at heart (no french nails, botox, breast implants or stilettos!!) and I am looking for my rugged, artsy renaissance man - someone who cares about others, the planet, the environment. Whew, are you still with me?! :-) I love listening to live music - anything from jazz, rock, classical, folk, blues. I sing in a three women accapella group and we perform locally. I also love foreign or independent films, gardening, dancing, visual arts and all forms of self-expression. I am open-minded, honest, independent, opinionated yet non-judgemental. We don't have to agree - a good debate can be very sexy! And, I am looking for a man who still knows what chivalry is! I am not shy, but prefer to be pursued. I think that the "wants to meet you" feature on this site is a cop out. If you want to meet me then, write me! P.S. Oh, and I almost forgot.... please, no long-distance relationships - been there/done that. Also, I do not date married men - that means if you are "separated", then you are still married. Thanks!! Let's meet in the philosophy section of the bookstore! How about a little off the beaten track cafe that serves the best corn bread and split pea soup? A Tango dance lesson? Picnic at outdoor concert in the park. Or we can go the mall - kidding!!!Let's talk and see what feels right for both of us.

  • Lauren

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I'm an intelligent beautiful women who would like a close male friend to do things with.. go out ..Movies, dinner, dancing.. some Karaoke maybe. I also love the outdoors, camping .. water!! Pool, rivers, lakes .. oceans.. whatever. I love music enjoy singing and listening to others sing and make music!! I can get dirty and rough it for a while in the great outdoors, but I also love to look nice and take care of myself. Yes I'm slightly overweight, but that is a work in progress. Hey you can't have everything! :-) .. but you can try. lol ... As for my age. I am always told I look a lot younger then I am. So turn back time a little with me and help me with my fresh start. I don't think there is much I can't do if I put my mind to it. I just replaced 3 light switches in my house all by myself. I mow my lawn, I can check my own oil in my car. I know how to use power tools. You do what you have to do.. when you need to do it. Which is not to say that I'm not as feminine as the next girl.. because that would be a huge understatement. If you'd rather mow the lawn and check my oil.. hey .. I'm all for that! I am a secretary so I also dress up for work and I don't like to go to the store without makeup and fixing my hair so I guess with me.. you get the best of both worlds. I would like to add that I wonder why some men don't put pictures up and think that a women will respond to a profile with no face to it. It is sad in some ways that we only have faces and words to go by because there is so much more to a person then that. Your voice, charm, how you present yourself, your character .. the total package per say really adds or takes away from that tiny picture and what you choose to say about yourself. As for what I want in life. After a very long marriage and divorce .. what I want is love... romance and cuddling with a life long Friend. If you can accept my imperfections and appreciate my strengths I will do the same for you. :-) I am looking for someone to let me get to know them and take the time to get to know me. Two way Communication is Key. Its hard to say what I would want a first date to be. I want to first meet someone before I decide if I really want to go on a date date I guess. So a first date I think just coffee somewhere or a drink somewhere public would be a good start. I need physical attraction but that kind of attraction doesn't just mean how someone looks.. its also how they interact and communicate.. your intellectual self. :-) As for a date date... I enjoy going out and singing karaoke but that would only be fun if you enjoy that sort of thing. I also like going to the movies, dinner, dancing or any type of entertainment. Even a visit to the beach or some other outside location for a walk would be fun for me. An art show or exhibit of some kind. I'm not hard to please... if I care about you, it doesn't really matter where I am. Just spending time together is all that matters.

  • Adallina

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I have returned to college and am going for Bachelors in Human Service and Mental Health field. I have found I have a whole new outlook on life and its far from being over!! lol I love laughing and enjoy the company I keep. I have 2 grown kids and 1 grandson who is the apple of my eye. I believe that family is the most important thing in someones life and respect others that have the same values on thier families.I love to take road trips even if its just a day trip just to get away is nice. I love the outdoors Im hoping to do more hiking,camping and other outside adventures in the spring/summer. Hmmmm I think the best first date really isnt on the things you do more like the way you get to know someone is the best part.

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