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People always come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or even spiritually. They may seem like a godsend to you, and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer we sent up has been answered. And it is now time to move on. When People come into our life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season. And like Spring turns to Summer and Summer to Fall, the season eventually ends. LIFETIME relationships teach you a lifetime of lessons: those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (anyway), and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas in your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. I am an outgoing and approachable woman who may not necessarily know what I want but I certainly know what I don't want in a partner. I am interested in meeting a young ***year old) fun loving, passionate, kind, tall, non smoking and hard working man who can make me smile. A man who sets goals for himself and strives to meet them. My more serious goals would include seeing my children fullfill their educational dreams, having sleepovers with grandchildren (yet to come) and becoming debt free.My favorite time includes having both of my kids home for supper and board games. I love to hang out with friends, have a quiet dinner, glass of wine or a great movie at home. I love to shop, TJ Maxx and Marshalls are my therapy. Live Music is my passion, especially soul and blues. I can listen to most any genre but have a tough time appreciating rap and hip hop.I do not smoke, actually detest the habit of smoking. I like to have a drink with friends, but hate drunks! I have a BSW and took several classes towards my Masters and most say I am quite intelligent but down to earth. I am not much of a clubber but I enjoy live music at parks, smaller venue shows/concerts, pubs and parties. Pictures only!!! I get disappointed when adults make the decision to post a picture of a young child. It is unfair to them because they are usually unaware and even if they are aware you have posted their picture on a dating site, they are likely unable to give informed consent. it's just not cool. As a mother, I would not want my ex posting pictures of our children on a dating site.Education and music lover are very important attributes. Smoking, cheating and dishonesty are deal breakers!!!While I entered I have an average body type, I would have put "super tall and curvy" if it were an option, lol. I am over 6 feet tall, so please be tall yourself. One's physical looks are not as important to me as their character and integrity. But I do LOVE a nice upper arm, but it is certainly is not a requirement.Sound interesting? After we have sucessfully made it through the "meet and greet" I am up for anything that allows us to get to know each other and enjoy ourselves. Drives up the coast are fun, grilling out or I can cook you a nice meal while we sip a fine wine.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Beatie

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    My friends and family, who are a huge part of my life, would describe me as down to earth, what you see is what you get, friendly, easy to talk to, outspoken, strong, dedicated mother, hardworking, and a little sassy. I am divorced with 5 children, four of my five kids are 18 and up and the youngest is 16 years old. I would describe myself as an outgoing, level-headed, passionate, responsible, stable, honest, and caring person. I enjoy being around people, and don’t mind staying in with that special someone. A strength I posses is the ability to voice my opinion and express my feelings with great ease to the person I am dating. I like to be spontaneous, but some planning ahead will be necessary because of my lifestyle. Chemistry between two people is the first step and so important, once that is established, my hope is to help nurture the relationship into a loving and healthy one. I want a mental, emotional, and physical connection. Communication, in my opinion is a key factor to any successful relationship. I seek a man who doesn’t want to play games. I have little patience for negativity and whining. He should have similar interests and qualities which include passion, integrity, kindness, generosity, and attentiveness. He must be kid friendly, financially stable and have the time to date. I’m interested in getting to know the real you!UPDATE: I ONLY date within my own ethnic group! If you do not have a pix and if you are married/ separated, or you are looking for a hook-up only PLEASE DO NOT contact me. I'm not trying to sound harsh, just want to be clear of what I don't want..I don't have time for just a TEXTING/EMAILING BUDDY, so if you are not interested in meeting fairly soon, please pass me by. Thank you, and I wish everyone the best luck in making a connection! A fist date could range from a possible meeting for coffee/drinks, a light lunch, or an evening dinner. It really depends on the person and what each wants to do. It is the next step after the *** from the initial contact of one another...

  • Ciss

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    positive thinker and a zest for life!!!!!warm affectionate and giving..christian values.. crave the power of touch and love to adore and spoil my special man! im Outgoing and like to try new things.or a nite home cooking a new recipe.. dance under the stars.. kiss in the pouring rain. as well as one on one time talking and cuddling!!looking for a friend first !looking for a man that knows what he wants in life not just still trying to figure it out...someone who knows how to treat a lady with respect and create that exciting chemistry of shared interests..the silence of holding each other by the campfire.and talking about lifes dreams still yet to come.. and still seeing something positive to smile about...someone who has god in their life and is dependable and genuine and who can express themselves easily from their heart as well as their mind .. ????? dinner conversation..walk...listen to live music...

  • Alla

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Thank you for looking at my profile. I am not sure about this, but I am willing to try it. I am very outgoing. I love to laugh, smile and do good by others. I am genuine. I enjoy being outside, camping, fishing, boating, riding bicycles, hiking, flea markets, antique stores. I like to travel, go to concerts, drive in movies, visiting new places. Iam very easy going, I don't like drama or making life harder than it has to be. I work hard and look forward to free time to have fun. I am a family oriented person. I love my kids and I respect a man that loves his too. My kids are older and I have more free time for me now and hope to find a man that wants a woman to build a future with. I am not perfect, I make mistakes, I am not looking for perfect, just my kinda someone that fits me and my personality. I have a lot to offer someone, so if you think I sound like your kinda girl, message me. We can talk about it.

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