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Hi there :-DI can't believe I'm on here again, but since this is the only way I can meet someone with working full time I guess all is good!A little about me: I am divorced a long time ***years), I ended a long term (12yr) relationship 2 years ago (it wasn't going where I wanted to be) Took a year break, dating off and on the past year, ultimately to find my match and best friend for a long term relationship.I am truly a soft sweet, caring, very loving, generous woman when I meet the right person and things click. I'm honest, loyal, trustworthy, natural, genuine and fun. A one man women. I'm also an extrovert, a people person, geeky, sporty, and outdoorsy. I love animals, kids, socializing with friends and spending time with family.I like to do things with my partner, it could be shopping, cooking, gardening or just watching TV. There isn't much that I don't like, I like sporting events, concerts, bands, museums, school functions, volunteering, trying new restaurants, helping family.. I'm into intelligent, meaningful conversation, I'm not an air head, because I am playful and fun, don't underestimate my intelligence. ** I like to be active but it's no fun being a lady and alone. Guys, your lucky.. You can always find a buddy to do things with. I don't want to fish or boat alone, where's the fun in that? I'm missing that one special person who I want to share life with! I'm lonely for a friend, companionship and lover. I'm perfectly fine on my own, I don't need someone to be happy.. I want someone who makes me happy and makes life fuller!I'm healthy, not on any drugs, legal or otherwise. I drink socially, non-smoker and I prefer a non-smoker.Lastly, I'm not a thin person, I'm a curvy lady and for the most part, comfortable in my own skin. If you don't like curvy with a little extra, then I'm definitely not for you! I was a runner in high school and a district track medalist. I know what hard work it is to stay in shape and admire that type of self commitment.What I'm looking for:I prefer someone taller than me, or at least 5'10. A little extra like myself is perfect, I prefer a brawly man and not too thin but that's not a deal breaker. I'm a hopeless touchy-feely romantic. I love PDA, kissing, holding hands and showing affection and I need all that from my partner. I totally and completely want to fall in love again and work hard to keep it alive and stay breathless... My guy should want that too! I want someone who actively will keep the relationship growing, take time to learn together about each other and move forward.That includes spending time, talking at least once a day and becoming friends hopefully growing into lovers. I make the time for people I care about, my guy should be the same.Lastly:I'm not here for a hook up, or random serial dating nor am I looking for a sugar daddy. I have my life together and so is my mental state. I'm not here to fix or rescue anyone. I own my own home, I have a full time job and I'm not buried in personal issues or drama. My Interests:I have a very wide range of interests, most of which revolve around the outdoors. I'm adventurous, open to new activities and interests. Willing to meet in a public place to see if there's that sparkle between us...Outdoors, long walks, site seeing, day trips, exploring new places off the beaten path, finding new restaurants, flea markets, NYC, beaches, people watching, museums, concerts, theater, sporting events, boating, fishing, archery, photography, camping, horses, reading, computers, science, cultures, history, archeology, travel, quiet dinners, BBQs, cooking, family, gardening, decorating, home improvement, self improvement Phone chat for a few days, decide if theres similar interest and attraction then move on to meet up and see where things go. I believe in meeting fairly quickly. I refuse to do the online texting/sexting thing.I refuse to make someone a priority that considers me only an option. Life's too short for games. Would be nice for the guy to make the plans I'm easy going, fun and versatile.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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