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Meryl, 41

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About Me

Im Not looking for perfection, just an HONEST guy who isn't going to lie. If you are looking for a piece of ass then look elsewhere. And if you are looking for fun outside of what you already have then please don't write me. By no means am I needing anyone to pay my bills or play daddy to my kids. That's my job!!! I'm looking for a real gentleman to make time for me aside from his own life. I hate clingy mommas boys who can't handle their own responsibilities. So if your mom still does your laundry and cleans your room then I'm not for you. Not looking for a guy that want's just sex, but hopefully a decent man to start a relationship with that can make a difference in my life *** negativity. I always put other before myself...that's just the kind of person I am!!!! Everyone tells me I'm too nice do I allow individuals to walk all over me and take advantage of me but I know in the end it will pay off and god will reward me for my unbelievable kindness. My style is comfortable and I love jeans and uggs. I am a smoker so if that offends you then sorry. I'm fun, out going and I love to joke around but I know their is a time to be serious, I'm and 80's girl so I am into rap, R&B, freestyle and all old school hip hop music, going to the movies occasionally or watching one of my ***dvd's at home is even better. I live a block from the beach so walking the boardwalk is a passion of mine. It's like a getaway from life when I walk the beach and listen to the waves. Going out to dinner isn't really my favorite thing to do because 13 years ago I underwent a surgical procedure to loose weight and the operation was a success since I lost over ***lbs but it left me with an almost non existence to eating normal ever, I have never learned to dance but I have always wanted to try. I am more of a home body and just plain hanging out getting to know someone is more of a turn on than a fancy dinner out. I don't really cook because of my lifestyle change. I'm no chef but I never had to cook for anyone except my children so that's one of my flaws I do have to admit but I am willing to learn for the right guy. I'm just being honest at that. I enjoy hanging out with my friends, meeting new people, I always say that you can never have too friends. I would Like a well Educated Man that's Family Oriented. I never get tired of being admired for a man to keep a woman interested by any means necessary.I'm DRAMA free I'm not into childish games. I don't like negativity vibes so if you have stupid drama please respect me I'm not with it. I'm sure you wouldn't want to deal with that either. Just the simple things in life.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Chris

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I\'m a teacher who believes that every child should have the right to learn! Looking fo someone who respects other people and can concentrate on their needs.

  • Jezebel

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    You know I really thought I had written a great message about what I like, what I was looking for and I thought it was straight to the point. short, straight and sweet. looks like I have been seriously proven wrong. but I'm game to try one last time so here goes.I am not materialistic. ..so cars and motorcycles don't impress me. Your sense of humor and the ability to laugh with me at my stupid jokes does. I like simple things yet I am far from simple. I have a smile that is contagious and when I laugh to hard I may even snort. Yes I said it. I snort when I laugh too hard...and its so funny it makes everyone else laugh harder. If you can't laugh at yourself then you shouldn't even get out of bed. I am loyal to a fault and it has come to bite me in the ass in the past, yet I still continue to give people the benefit of the doubt. It is my nature. I have a huge love of animals...I have a dog that is very special to me. She has been my one constant. My secret keeper. Then there are my kids. My pride and joys. If you don't like kids...see ya. They are my world but my heart has room enough to share when the time and person is right.if your *** me only consist of one word as in hello...that shows no real effort. I'm here for real...are you? Seriously, I dont like to plan a first date or to even have an ideal first date. That just sets it up for too much pressure and then ..... pow! Disaster date .... so I pass on planning. Sometimes its fun just to meet and see what happens.Probably the most unpopular and boring answer, but I bet the most honest.And, I do not drink alcohol and not a fan of coffee so show you actually read this and we can come up with something much cooler than the standard "coffee" answer ;)

  • Amirah

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Have actually been told I'm too free spirited and no one can put reins on me, my response was well perhaps I just need someone as free spirited as I am. Absolultely in love with life. Believe in peace, karma and that there is still good in the world.Need someone with high energy.Love live music, camping, outdoors. I do NOT have internet at home due to the fact I'm hardly ever home I like to go go go, especially if it's something out of doors so I don't see the use of paying for something I won't be using. With the fall upon us I can't wait to hike through the woods just to see the foilage, chase waterfalls and smell the awesome Autumn air. Need to find someone with HIGH ENERGY, I like to do things on a moment's notice! Winter I definitely love snowmobiling, tubing and making big Sunday dinners that are family/friend oriented. My taste in music and reading varies. Not a big fan of the boob tube, see it as brain suckage.All my children are now 18 or older and it's my time to live. So, I'm not interested in anyone raising younger children. Grandchildren however, are a joy!I am not against a relationship by any means,I chose friends because I believe you have to start somewhere, and when in a relationship you must also be friends.And yes I have tattoos. Depends on the time of year, currently anything out of doors, drinks on a patio, music venue, walk near (or in my case in) the water.....hell, snowmobiling would be an awesome first date in the winter....

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