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Lili, 43

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About Me

I am in the process of a divorce and would like to meet someone to spend some of my free time with. I am not looking for anything too serious at this point, but we all know how sometimes things just happen when we least expect it. My son is my most prized possession and my main focus at this point in time. I am independent, and a hard worker. I am career driven and have been at my management job for over 25 years.My ideal mate would be someone who is between the ages of ***, takes care of himself physically, has a sense of humor, is financially stable (no I don't want your money, but I don't want to support you either), likes kids, and maybe even has one so they can at least relate to being a parent. I like going for walks, camping ( not roughing it though..!!) cooking and baking, reading and listening to music (all but country,and rap). I feel I need a little more adventure I guess!! I am not a fan of sports (mostly because I don't know anything about them.. (sorry!! I guess I can be taught...?!), and although I have nothing against hunting and fishing, I was a fisherman's widow for TOO MANY years and am not interested in going down that path again. A hobby is one thing...obsessive about it, something totally different.I have found that after being on here for a bit I now need to be more specific about what I am looking for to weed out some men that only choose to look at my pic and not read anything about me. Lets see if this helps... Meet for a drink/coffee and hopefully have stimulating conversation.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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