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About Me

I am in the process of a divorce and would like to meet someone to spend some of my free time with. I am not looking for anything too serious at this point, but we all know how sometimes things just happen when we least expect it. My son is my most prized possession and my main focus at this point in time. I am independent, and a hard worker. I am career driven and have been at my management job for over 25 years.My ideal mate would be someone who is between the ages of ***, takes care of himself physically, has a sense of humor, is financially stable (no I don't want your money, but I don't want to support you either), likes kids, and maybe even has one so they can at least relate to being a parent. I like going for walks, camping ( not roughing it though..!!) cooking and baking, reading and listening to music (all but country,and rap). I feel I need a little more adventure I guess!! I am not a fan of sports (mostly because I don't know anything about them.. (sorry!! I guess I can be taught...?!), and although I have nothing against hunting and fishing, I was a fisherman's widow for TOO MANY years and am not interested in going down that path again. A hobby is one thing...obsessive about it, something totally different.I have found that after being on here for a bit I now need to be more specific about what I am looking for to weed out some men that only choose to look at my pic and not read anything about me. Lets see if this helps... Meet for a drink/coffee and hopefully have stimulating conversation.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Eldora

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I'm friendly, kind, honest, loyal positive. I am always smiling, I have a beautiful smile, pretty eyes, plenty of confidence in myself. I do believe in being straight forward and honest with a person. Looking for someone who is confident in who they are passionate about their endeavors that I want to share my dreams with. I am not into drama or games. I love people for who they are. I hope that I do find that special someone to bring the best out of me and I promise I will bring the best out in you. However, chemistry has to be mutual. I need to meet your physical attraction needs as well. I am not going to settle and neither should you. However, with mutual chemistry, the sparks will fly for a lifetime. You must have trust in each other…Without this first, we could never have: loyalty, trust, open communication, and 100% mutual respect. I do not hold grudges or judge. I am not afraid to admit when I am wrong. I hate to fight and hate people that lie and cheat, I am a woman that has class but yet not scared to let go but in a good way let go .Love those who gave you a reason to love more. I just want a normal person not someone trying to act like the person they want to be or someone that is from a different world. I DO NOT WANT a man that is a drunk or tries to get you jealous just to see if you care, or a man that has other woman hanging around... I won’t do that to you and I expect the same and I won’t settle for less... I do want a nice/sweet sensitive man who cares, if you want craziness have fun but It won’t be with me. I am seriously looking for a relationship with a good man. I am looking for someone that is faithful not a fly by night …those come a dime to a dozen. In the end it all comes down to finding your best friend PERIOD.......that you want to spend your life with .I do plan things sometimes and sometimes not...spare of the moments plans are the best. Life is too short to not enjoy it so enjoy your life you only live once; time is the one thing in life that cannot be taken back so use it wisely. Live life to the fullest and enjoy each day because we are never promise or guaranteed tomorrow. I do believe in faith, love and hope, makes you stronger person. I enjoy good company, also like to meet new people and hang out with good friends. I do enjoy a nice glass of wine and I do like beer as well, drink sometimes.P.S.If you are on here to tease me, play with my heart, lie to me, cheat on me, or a player, married or have a girlfriend, how many numbers or booty call you can get and if you think you can have your cake and eat it too. Please pass my profile up and don't waste my time with the bs I don't have time for drama and games grow up. Good luck in your search. A nice dinner and dancing then maybe close the night out laying under the moon and stars with a glass of Red Wine and talking. It is what is, you know.

  • Krishna

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I've moved back up here now that my son is grown and on his own. It's time for me to live for me now :)

  • Peronel

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    A strong man can handle a strong woman. A weak man says she has an attitude. UnknowI am mostly seeking friendship at this point. There may be too much pressure finding Mr Right on a website.. I've met some great guys but I'm officially just looking for friends.. I would prefer a mentally stable individual. I would also like to point out that marijuana is a drug. If you use marijuana, you use drugs. If you don't want to say you use drugs because one could interpret that as something more harsh like coke or heroin, then put something in your profile that says ***friendly. And, if you use drugs, any drugs, please don't flirt with me. I'm not interested. There are plently off ***friendly chicks out there, say hi to them! I have many interests and like to try new things. I have an almost 4 year old son who is my World. He is the most amazing little man. He impresses me every day! Although you will not meet my son right away, you would have to know that we are a package deal. I am not looking for a Dad for my son but I am looking for a positive male example. I am Mommy and Daddy. If you have a child and you are looking for a Mommy for your child, I am not it. If you are looking for a positive female example, I'm you're lady! I absolutely adore children but my one is enough for me!I originally thought I was looking for another single parent but then have since realized that if you have different parenting styles, it could be a huge problem down the road. I'm not a perfect parent but I try very hard and see it as my most important priority. I am very attentive and communicate with my son constantly and do many different types of activities with him for development and us time. We eat healthy. I try to stay away from processed foods and GMO's. I don't rely on the television to entertain him.I like to cook and would enjoy meeting someone who also likes to and knows how to cook. I live uptown and enjoy hanging out uptown, when I have the time. I find it nearly impossible to drive automatic transmissions.Mosquitos LOVE me. I bet you will too!I love it when a man plays with my hair and I love love when (at the right moment) he pulls it.. ..50 shades freed. Yeah, I succumbed to the hype.. Mommy porn, indeed!I am currently in need of a new book to read. Any suggestions?You know how guys buy drinks for women in bars? Why don't they do the same thing in bookstores? Like, 'hey little lady, come here often? Can I get you a book?'. I am NOT looking for a hook up. Period.Please note: Just because I am not looking for a hook up does not mean I don't like sex. Please.It would be truly awesome if the person I meet could perform minor household repairs.. Repeat after me 'she is NOT looking for a hookup'..Also, if you have 1 or 2 pictures up and I have 8, don't ask me for more. That's just ridiculous. And another thing.. if you have one or two obscure photos or only 1 photo with 2 people in it.. you're most likely a cheater and I'm not interested.. Coffee and conversation? Maybe a couple of drinks and a snack? Dinner?

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