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Becky, 45

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About Me

I feel like I am trying to sell myself to the highest bidder, on the auction block along with the rest of the herd. It's hard for me to feel as if I'm degrading myself to try to make someone like me or learn to care for me.I'm going to put this out there up front, if you decide you would like to know more and keep reading that would great. If not, I wish you the best in your endeavors. I am nonjudgemental, outgoing, friendly, fun-loving, dedicated, honest, faithful, loyal and the best thing you will ever find to take home to your family. Your family will love me, not tooting my own horn but it's just the way it is. IF we meet and you're loud, obnoxious and an overall pompous ass, I will walk out as fast as I walked in. NOT ONE person on this site has a normal life, if you say you do, you're a liar. We may try to have as much normalacy as possible but it doesn't always happen. I do not believe in judging anyone because of their race, religious, status in society, or sexual orientation. If you have you beliefs and opinions, it's great, and I will never try to dissuade or change them; but I am not interested in hearing bad things about people because of those topics mentioned about. I have a lesbian child, if this offends you, I DO NOT CARE! I don't want to hear what a horrible person my child is because of this nor do I want to hear what a horrible mother I am for accepting and loving my child. I do not want to hear that I"m a bad person because I do not agree with your religious or political beliefs and do not expect me to talk about these things within a few minutes of meeting. My kids are the most amazing kids and have suffered tremenously. Despite all this, they are honest, forgiving, and survivors.NOW: About me: IF you've gotten this far, nice to have you reading. I am energetic, fun, and a very good person.I ABSOLUTELY love laughing. I have many many faults and am so far from perfect that it's not funny. I've spent the past 10 months losing 31 pounds and with hard work and determination, that process continues. I go to the gym and I work with a trainer. I do my best to eat healthy but I do cheat...love chocolate. I love to do anything there is to do and if I don't like it, I'll still do it just to see if I will have a better time than I did last time. I love being outdoors but I hate being cold. But I sleep as much as I can. I do not like sitting and doing nothing all the time.I have a great career and have decided to go back to school to further that career and get another degree or two. Yep, thats right, I'm smart too and educated. Maybe not about every topic but always willing to learn more.NOW! Read MORE!You MUST have nice teeth, maybe not perfect, but nothing missing or rotten! Gross! A good job and decent transportation. Not sure what's left to say, I'm a great person, I love life and everything about it.I've been off meetville for over a year and yet, I still see the same people with the same pictures. Update them please. I'm extremely picky about who I go out with and if I end up alone, it's my choice. I'm not clingy or needy. What do I want?Nice, someone to make me laugh and someone who can listen when I've had a hard day at work. . I like tall guys that have arms to hold a woman . No liars, no cheaters, no criminal records, no moochers. No being friends with your ex. . Tired of everyone wanting something for nothing.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    So where to start? Well Im a single mother with two boys and now that theyve grown into teenagers they wanted to live with their dad. So I let them. Now I find I have more time on my hands then I know what to do with. When Im not working I like to hang out with friends, go to the movies or just sit at home with a good book. Im an avid reader. I love music and listen to all different genres. I love to laugh and have a great sense of humor. Im an honest and caring woman who is looking for the same in return. Warning--any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my words and my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one As a first date going to a nice Italian restaurant for dinner and wine to just relax and get to know one another is always a nice start.

  • Karlie

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Thank you for stopping by :) I'm not one to talk about myself, so this could be challenging! I hope auto correct is in a friendly mood today... For the most part, my life is about priorities and time-management ...but I'm far from boring. Although my children are grown, they're still my priority and my best friends. We talk daily and get together once a week. I'm a sentimental sap, so these times together create precious memories for me. I'm learning to balance my free time, creating a social life. I've backed off from the voluntary overtime at work. The 12 hour shifts ***days per week are usually exhausting enough. Who am I? This can be tough for me because I'm typically a very private person. Don't mistake this as being shy. I'm a very outgoing person. I've been told a lot that my charisma draws people to me. Compliment taken! :) I can blend in with almost any personality type from rednecks to celebrities. I love people! I prefer to distance myself from the over-the-top loud, drama loving, gossip type. That behavior is unnecessary and negative ...just my opinion. Staying positive and happy works wonders for ourselves and those around us. I'm not the "she's so happy she's annoying" person. However, I am upbeat, motivated and energetic (thanks to coffee and vitamin water). I also value those lazy days on the sofa watching TV. Since I do value my free time, I tend to move slowly. We can't exchange a couple of *** arrange a date. It takes a little more than reading a profile and having a common interest. I have to get a feel for you and your personality. If you're shy, we're probably not going to hit it off. It takes all types to make the world go 'round, but for me, a sense of humor is #1!! I'm pretty goofy lol At the same time, I need intellectual conversations. Don't expect me to know about rocket science or our musculoskeletal systems, but current events ...and sports can usually grab my attention. I'm always willing to discuss and learn new things. At times, I can be "just one of the guys". Especially NFL, NASCAR, and open-wheel! Yes, I'm serious! ;) The month of May is exciting simply because of all the activities and interaction at IMS. Garage passes are a nice bonus too! :) Oh - music! I have a passion for music! My parents met while playing in the same band ...and no, I'm not a flower child. They were classy and had beautiful harmony. Unfortunately, I'm the only member of my family who was never coordinated to learn to play. I did the next best thing. I bought a karaoke business! NOT the smartest choice. After 3 years of torture, I sold it. Music keeps me motivated, whether working, driving, or doing house work. I like almost all types of music, but my mood determines what I listen to. True story!! Ok, stop laughing! He's brilliant! ;) WHO am I looking for? Actions speak louder than words, so although your profile may be impressive, it's more about WHO you are. I have a soft spot for the elderly and those with disabilities. Have you ever listened to an elder describe their childhood? They can paint such a vivid picture. They also love reliving those memories and appreciate that someone is willing to listen. It all boils down to respect and being a kind person. I'm not judgmental, but it has always been a personal choice to disassociate myself from those who use drugs. If this is your lifestyle, it's a deal-breaker for me and I urge you to seek help :) Ok, the biggie ...love! I'm in no rush! It takes me quite a while to get there, but once it happens, I love with all my heart. I'm yours and only yours! The journey takes trust, commitment, honesty, loyalty and communication. I value my relationship with God! He has blessed me in more ways than I could acknowledge! I thank Him daily!Well, that's me at a glance :) First date has to be casual. Somewhere we can interact, such as a concert, festival or a race :)I think dining out on a first date is awkward. Who wants to try to carry on a conversation with a mouth full? lol

  • Cameron

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    IF YOU DON'T HAVE PICS DON'T BOTHER.. I'LL JUST DELETE MESSAGE..I'm a night person I love to hang out with friends and laugh and have a good time. I'm an open person so if you have questions just ask. I'm a huge hockey fan. My kids and my job come first above anything else.

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