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Rufina, 42

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About Me

I am a mature, confident woman who doesn't want to play games. I don't need a man, but I would like a relationship, not only for the physical aspects but also for companionship. I want to meet someone with whom I can have a mature, intelligent conversation. Someone who is actually as interested in my day as I am in his. I've had the relationships based on sex in the past and once the "honeymoon" was over, there was nothing left. I have settled in the past, and I will never put myself through that again. I am a good woman who cares too much sometimes. I am loyal, almost to a fault. My first priority will always be my children, at least until they are grown. I love spending time laughing and hanging out with my friends. I am comfortable in almost any situation. I love all types of music, except rap, but listen to mostly country and 80s rock. I'm very open-minded about most things and try not to be judgmental.I understand that everyone has a past, as do I. I will try not to judge you by your history, please have enough respect to not judge me by mine. I believe everyone can change if they put their mind to it.I like my free time and like to spend time with my friends, and I would expect you to do the same. I don't need to be joined at the hip with anyone. I'm friendly to everyone. Just because I'm nice, doesn't mean I'm flirting. When I'm with someone, I'm not looking for a piece on the side. If you message me, I will try to respond. If after talking to me, you decide I'm not the one, just let me know. I don't hold grudges and I won't stalk you. Honesty is always the best policy. Be respectful enough to not lead me on and I'll do the same. I'm not looking for someone to take of me or for someone to take care of. I'm looking for an equal, a partner. Would be a lunch or dinner date. No pressure, no expectations.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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