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Fedelma, 44

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About Me

I've been single a while and don't do much dating. I am a full time student right now, as well as a single mother, so I am often busy. However, I'm ready to meet someone serious and I am not looking to just do the 'hook up' thing. I was in the Navy, 6 yrs. I'm old school punk at heart, back in the day-day. And a hippy-liberal politically active person to this day. I am from SoCal, moved here with my ex husband to raise our sons - they are ***twins) now. I also have 4 year old son that I raise alone. I have a pretty wicked sense of humor and adore dry wit. I love watching horror comedies & super bad SyFy movies for a laugh. More fun facts about me:I love how flies rub their hands together like tiny little criminals planning something maniacal.-woo'd by his peers, but it had staying power so who's laughing now?If I could get a degree is song lyrics I'd have had a Ph.D a long time ago.I once got 35 pages into writing my autobiography when I realized I was just typing the lyrics to Licensed to Ill over and over.I get a rush of pride when my password is deemed “Very Secure”I put my pants on just like everybody else, begrudgingly.One of the main problems with online dating is the fear that one day I will be part of a Dateline segment.I think the copyrights to the slogan “Just Do It” I do not now, nor have I ever, owned a stick with glitter water on my key chain.If the main ingredient in Saffron Tea was the tears of Burmese Child Laborers I'd still drink it.Far too often I use “the” before nouns in my sentences. And, people laugh... although my intent isn't to be funny. OK on a serious note, my friend said I need to say what I am looking for in someone. I can see how this might be helpful but seems a bit “demandy” doesn't it? In my perfect world with my perfect man (keeping the pressure at rock bottom, I know, I know) He would be faithful & honest. I get that people's eyes and minds stray but really that is all that should, don't 'cha agree? He would be smart and I would learn cool sh*t just by listening to him talking everyday talk, but he wouldn't make me feel stupid because I didn't already know it. Because there is a lot I don't know and I don't think I could handle it being pointed out all the time.He would read to me or read with me. Perhaps even the novel he is working on. He can make me laugh even when I'm mad. He laughs with me and maybe even at me, sometimes. How did I do? FYI - the men in my photographs are not boyfriends, they are family members. Would be weird if I had my ex's photos on a dating web site wouldn't it?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Gail

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I'm an easy going happy person by nature. I don't like drama at all and run from people who are downers lol. I'm quite happy with my single life and won't settle just to be in a relationship but obviously would like to meet someone, why else would I be here ? I am truly looking for someone who wants to live the rest of their life happy and in love. Yes that sounds mushy but I am not. At 44, I think i finally realize that life is short. Far too short for drama, far too short for heart ache and far too short to not be able to do what you want to do with it. A great relationship is easy and comfortable, you want to please that person, not hurt them and each person should be able to grow, learn new things, and be able to say yes to the things they want to do without worrying about having to 'ask'. We all know the classic disfuntional couple "sorry guys, i cant go out So-and-so will be mad"...seriously...wtf ?I enjoy traveling and I'd love to meet someone with the same interest. Someone who can appreciate the history of a country and want to explore it, take in the smells, the food and the culture. Not complain that its too hot, the food is too spicy and I can't get a good coffee here... Monetary things are just that...things.Now that I've re-read this, it sounds b i t c h y ha ha ha....I am not...ask any of my friends. I usually get accused of being too nice. I just want something and being straight forward makes it easy to understand, creates a clearer picture Are you a foodie ? I am ... and I love to cook...there is something super hot about a man in the kitchen (keep that in mind)Do you love red wine ? Part of me hopes so - we can both appreciate it...the other half laughs with greediness and says "oh, you don't ? too bad, more for me!" lol...on a serious note, a visit to a winery would win my heartI love the outdoors, love hiking, love camping, love fishing, love swimming in lakes, love campfires, love snowmobiles, love ATVs....you get the pictureRoller coasters...gotta love em...gotta do em with no hands, simpleConcerts are a must, I dont care what kind of music, just love it live...however, if we went to a Frank Sinatra Jr. concert and you asked me to dance, I might fall in love....I am a girl, I take an hour to get ready, get over it. If I feel good, I will make you feel good.....that could be an interesting first date ... imagineThe big picture here for me is just to be relaxed and happy...nuff saidDrop me a line if you are interested...if this is not for you, happy fishing and remember to smile (life changes when you do)

  • Geneva

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    This will be short and sweet like me. I'm down to earth. Love to smile and have fun. I have two boys ages 5 and 9, they are my world. Want to know more just ask :)

  • Layla

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Well here we go again. Not really convinced I want to go through this again, almost think I want to spend the rest of my life by myself. Beginning to think there are no real men out there. Tired of the games, the cheating, the men who don't know how to treat a woman, a man who don't know how to be a real man. A man who can make decisions and not hand them off to a 12 year old. I need a man who knows how to be romantic and *** say "hey you want my meat" how rude is that. What happen to all the real men the ones who knew how to make a woman feel special. I have a lot to offer to the right man, but believe its a two way street. I think it takes talking to get to know each other. So if you want to talk and if you are a real man send me a message and lets talk and see where it goes from there.

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