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Fedelma, 44

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About Me

I've been single a while and don't do much dating. I am a full time student right now, as well as a single mother, so I am often busy. However, I'm ready to meet someone serious and I am not looking to just do the 'hook up' thing. I was in the Navy, 6 yrs. I'm old school punk at heart, back in the day-day. And a hippy-liberal politically active person to this day. I am from SoCal, moved here with my ex husband to raise our sons - they are ***twins) now. I also have 4 year old son that I raise alone. I have a pretty wicked sense of humor and adore dry wit. I love watching horror comedies & super bad SyFy movies for a laugh. More fun facts about me:I love how flies rub their hands together like tiny little criminals planning something maniacal.-woo'd by his peers, but it had staying power so who's laughing now?If I could get a degree is song lyrics I'd have had a Ph.D a long time ago.I once got 35 pages into writing my autobiography when I realized I was just typing the lyrics to Licensed to Ill over and over.I get a rush of pride when my password is deemed “Very Secure”I put my pants on just like everybody else, begrudgingly.One of the main problems with online dating is the fear that one day I will be part of a Dateline segment.I think the copyrights to the slogan “Just Do It” I do not now, nor have I ever, owned a stick with glitter water on my key chain.If the main ingredient in Saffron Tea was the tears of Burmese Child Laborers I'd still drink it.Far too often I use “the” before nouns in my sentences. And, people laugh... although my intent isn't to be funny. OK on a serious note, my friend said I need to say what I am looking for in someone. I can see how this might be helpful but seems a bit “demandy” doesn't it? In my perfect world with my perfect man (keeping the pressure at rock bottom, I know, I know) He would be faithful & honest. I get that people's eyes and minds stray but really that is all that should, don't 'cha agree? He would be smart and I would learn cool sh*t just by listening to him talking everyday talk, but he wouldn't make me feel stupid because I didn't already know it. Because there is a lot I don't know and I don't think I could handle it being pointed out all the time.He would read to me or read with me. Perhaps even the novel he is working on. He can make me laugh even when I'm mad. He laughs with me and maybe even at me, sometimes. How did I do? FYI - the men in my photographs are not boyfriends, they are family members. Would be weird if I had my ex's photos on a dating web site wouldn't it?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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