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Fedelma, 44

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About Me

I've been single a while and don't do much dating. I am a full time student right now, as well as a single mother, so I am often busy. However, I'm ready to meet someone serious and I am not looking to just do the 'hook up' thing. I was in the Navy, 6 yrs. I'm old school punk at heart, back in the day-day. And a hippy-liberal politically active person to this day. I am from SoCal, moved here with my ex husband to raise our sons - they are ***twins) now. I also have 4 year old son that I raise alone. I have a pretty wicked sense of humor and adore dry wit. I love watching horror comedies & super bad SyFy movies for a laugh. More fun facts about me:I love how flies rub their hands together like tiny little criminals planning something maniacal.-woo'd by his peers, but it had staying power so who's laughing now?If I could get a degree is song lyrics I'd have had a Ph.D a long time ago.I once got 35 pages into writing my autobiography when I realized I was just typing the lyrics to Licensed to Ill over and over.I get a rush of pride when my password is deemed “Very Secure”I put my pants on just like everybody else, begrudgingly.One of the main problems with online dating is the fear that one day I will be part of a Dateline segment.I think the copyrights to the slogan “Just Do It” I do not now, nor have I ever, owned a stick with glitter water on my key chain.If the main ingredient in Saffron Tea was the tears of Burmese Child Laborers I'd still drink it.Far too often I use “the” before nouns in my sentences. And, people laugh... although my intent isn't to be funny. OK on a serious note, my friend said I need to say what I am looking for in someone. I can see how this might be helpful but seems a bit “demandy” doesn't it? In my perfect world with my perfect man (keeping the pressure at rock bottom, I know, I know) He would be faithful & honest. I get that people's eyes and minds stray but really that is all that should, don't 'cha agree? He would be smart and I would learn cool sh*t just by listening to him talking everyday talk, but he wouldn't make me feel stupid because I didn't already know it. Because there is a lot I don't know and I don't think I could handle it being pointed out all the time.He would read to me or read with me. Perhaps even the novel he is working on. He can make me laugh even when I'm mad. He laughs with me and maybe even at me, sometimes. How did I do? FYI - the men in my photographs are not boyfriends, they are family members. Would be weird if I had my ex's photos on a dating web site wouldn't it?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hi~~~~~~~~~ I love to go camping and hanging out at bonfires with great friends.~~~~~~ I am a mom to 3 boys so that comes first but I also do get some free time as my youngest is a teenager.~~~~~~~~~ I don't come from money but I am working to make the money with my company.~~~~~~ I am looking to meet a great man to maybe one day after dating ~~~~~> fall in love with.Have a great day fishing for what your looking for. To have a great time getting to know each other and go from there. A nice picnic would be a nice ice breaker of a first date.

  • Raye

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I have to say that it is somewhat awkward introducing yourself online but I will give it my best shot. I consider myself to be pretty down to earth and laid back. I have a great sense of humour and I always try to find the lighter side of things. That said I enjoy working hard and challenging myself. I am somewhat driven and a little bit stubborn…oops I meant to say determined. I can’t help myself, it’s a redhead thing that I am genetically predisposed to ;-) On a more serious note, I am a straightforward, no nonsense girl who is not into game playing. I am like the girl next door, with a bit of an edge. I am really independent and self-sufficient and I really admire and respect a man that has a sense of chivalry.I would like to meet someone who is independent, fun loving and who knows what they want and what is important in life.

  • Amilia

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Anybody looking for THE REAL DEAL.....not a "fake" or "material girl" I am as real and down to earth as they get! X-navy, well traveled (4 war conflicts, 13 countries, 9 duty stations). I know what living on the edge, risking your life every day and living with very little food and shelter is like...first hand! I love to hunt, camp & fish. I bow hunt & rifle hunt on occasion. I get dirty almost daily..as a Taxidermist. Don't make the mistake of thinking that because I do "boy" things and do some very "yucky" jobs at times...like cleaning skulls, that I don't know exactly how to look and act very much like a woman! My friends tell me they think my well-rounded range of interests, no fear philosophy and past careers have contributed to who I am and what I have to offer. I am a loving, affectionate, considerate person (yes, I can say that and stand on it) and I am passionate about pretty much everything. My friends say I am full of life and wisdom. I have never cheated on anyone and have never been cheated on. I tell thruth 100% of the time, like it or not! I Love being outdoors, especially in the spring and fall. I love to have my morning coffee on the porch and watch the sun rise. I routinely thank God for all he provides & has allowed me to learn-good and bad. Never been married, no kids, no baggage. I don't want anyone else's baggage either...like crazy x's-wives or otherwise! I don't care if you are rich or poor or a city boy or a country boy. I do care somewhat about what is on the outside but I am also a realist. I care MUCH MORE about what is on the inside! I am looking for somebody who will accept me for who I am on the inside and not be so worried about what is on the outside esp. at our age. I do not date black men. If you are into drinking daily, routine viewing of porn or hanging out in bars, please do not contact me. I prefer a man with most of his hair, all of his teeth and one that can at least see his feet! I am not looking for perfection. We ALL have faults. No smokers. I really hope for someone active and fun-loving with AT LEAST one or two romantic bones in his body! Must wear smiles as much as possible. Kids are okay as long as they are under control and don't use the "Your not my mother!" line on me. I am looking for somebody to stand beside me, not behind or in front of me. Somebody who can make me laugh for the other half of my life. My mission is to make the second half the best! use your creativity and surprize me!

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