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Nella, 41

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About Me

Shall I dare say this......here it goes....I am an independent woman and I know what I want....this should thrill a man and not intimidate him :~) I read many profiles of men who claim they want a women who is independent and knows what they want...but I'm getting to the point where I disagree...and that's too bad...for you that is. :~) Besides the entertainment of this site....I enjoy hanging out with my friends and value my family very much. I am a very honest, dependable, loyal, drama free, hilarious (yep - I'm a funny girl) and trustworthy. I am outspoken and tend to tell it like it is.....yet on the flip side, I have a filter...know how to use it when needed, I am very sweet and caring with a heart of gold (so I've been told). Pretty much..... what you see is what you get, I can promise you that :~) I am looking for a man who has a great sense of humor, who is honest, trustworthy, someone who can handle a woman who can be a bit sarcastic at times, someone who is up for some bicker/banter and does not take it personally. Someone who enjoys going out and doing things but can also stay in and enjoy a relaxing night at home. Someone who is not afraid to open up and communicate (eventually).....communication is essential. I believe in spending time together as much as I believe in spending time apart. Oh.....and to be my "tell it like it is sort of woman"....if you don't have a picture...please don't expect me to respond to your message....that bugs me...it's like your trying to hide something. Now, I do realize....looks aren't everything BUT there needs to be some sort of attraction to even get started...right ??? So since I've shown you mine then you can show me yours....picture that is !!!! :~) And PLEASE....PLEASE.....PLEASE.....no cheesy pick up lines...that will NOT get you a response. :~) ** Note....I have come to realize that not everyone reads down this far because I still continue to get them. **Oh....and I know this is alot to ask but.....PLEASE be who you say you are and it would be just GREAT if you really did look like your pictures....just sayin'. :-) So.....I guess the bottom line is....I am looking for an overall great guy...not perfect.....no one is perfect but just an overall great guy....I am sure there are plenty of you out there !!! I'm sure we can figure something out !!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Peony

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Seriously?? Guys, if you don't intend to meet someone do NOT waste our time! Future guys, I will not waste weeks of *** we *** times, great but let's meet. Ask a person out! Why is that so difficult? Now that I have Sold my house in N. I am an independant women, where during the summer I do work 7 days a week ( help my elderly parents out with their summer business). For this reason, looking for someone close by, even though I do work a lot, I am "off duty" usually by noon...I am outspoken yet shy ( yes guys I am shy) ..I take great lenghts to make sure I am in good shape ( mentally and phyically) and expect my partner to do the same. By far this has been the most difficult state to date in. I find the men here ( please prove me wrong) not really willing to go that extra mile for a women, a bit lazy I guess I could say. I do want a man to come to my turf at first. Call it old fashioned, call it whatever you want, but one thing I can tell you all about women, is we like it when you do nice things like that.I am NOT a bar person. I will gladly meet you out for a drink on a first meeting, but guys, not a bar..that is not me..I am past that at my age. A quiet Restaurant in the corner where we can talk is much more my style.My likes:Walking, hiking, biking, gardening, going to the beach, the gym, cooking, wine..a good BBQ in the summer, hanging out with my family and Travel. Once I meet a man, my typical things to do are simple things...Dinner and a movie, walks on the beach or the back bay..hiking..traveling..Dislikes: Guys that tell me I have too many rules because I am not a late night person...One thing that is very important to me, is working out. I do classes at night afterwork. so my weekdays are usually doing that, I don't get home until 7:30..Will that eventually change, probably..but not right now..Even still I just don't do late night things..I am a morning person...you want to meet on a Sunday morning for a hike. GREAT...or an weekend afternoon kind of thing? fantastic..I guess it goes back tot he bar thing...just not interested. I am looking for someone fit, usually clean cut, ( Yes, that does mean the full beards, funky facial hair, are not attractive to me sorry, ), tall ( I stand 5'8" bare footed)and attractive. Also a complete non smoker. BTW unless I am at the gym or working for my Dad, I am Usually in heels..I am sure i will write more but kinda rushed. Anything but coffee pls..Be creative...

  • Etheldreda

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Love to enjoy the outdoors; many types of activities: camping, hiking, swimming, and being spontaneous. I listen to all types of music, with Country my first choice. I have and adore my two daughters. Both are grown, but remain the highlight of my life. We visit and enjoy outings together regularly. I have been single for sometime and have decided it's time to find that special person to share my time with.

  • Serenity

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am a single mom who lives for my children but enjoys hanging out with friends and family. I like watching sports, playing darts and pool. I also enjoy outside activities. I listen to all kinds of music. I am open to trying new things.

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