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Mae, 42

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About Me

I'll preface this by saying I'm crazy busy at work right now, and may not have time to respond to messages or to develop the type of relationship I eventually want, so I'm changing my goal here to "wants to date, but nothing serious." I'm not looking to jump into a relationship just to be in one. I'm ok being alone. I do hope to find someone to spend some time with, have a few laughs together, and hopefully someday I'll find true love. When I love, I love for good. I'm as loyal as an old hound dog, and just as stubborn. I miss having someone to share my day with. I miss having someone who I just can’t wait to tell that bit of good news to…and someone to comfort me when the news isn’t so good. I want to know that the guy I’m crazy about is mine and mine alone because I don’t like to share. I can go a long time on just the very minimum of affection - but I don't want to do that anymore. I want someone who makes me feel that I'm important to him. That being said, I'm going to be picky this go-round. Being alone isn't a bad thing, and I'm not desperate for a man. I used to respond to every message, but I'm not doing that anymore. If you message me and I don't respond, I'll thank you now for your interest, but I won't waste your time or mine by messaging back and forth. I’m not perfect. I wear my heart on my sleeve. I’m a bad housekeeper. I don’t organize my time well. I’m a bit of a homebody, though I’d love to get out more. I take a while to warm up to new people (guys, especially), but once I get to know you, I'm awful at playing hard to get. But, even though I have my faults, I'm still pretty darn great.Please have your sh*t together. By that, I mean, have reliable means of supporting yourself, be completely over any exes, take care of your kids if you have them, know how to use spell-check and punctuate a complete sentence, and be willing to consider a long term relationship with the right person. I have all of those qualities and more. We'll figure something out together.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

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    I like to go dancing ,I like to go to concerts, love the beach, I enjoy the simple things in life ,,good people good friends and family most of all. I have 2 kids. a 20 year old daughter with a 2 year old little boy and I have a 7 year old son. I adore my kids.I like to go to the movies.my favorite vacation would be to go to the beach.I am the youngest of seven children.if u get to know me you will see I am not like everyone else, I am honest, and I have never cheated while in a relationship, and I expect the same in return. a perfect first date would be a horse drawn carriage a romantic dinner going dancing and getting to know each other

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hi there! I am seeking a guy who is a fun loving person an enjoys the simple things in life! Also likes to live it up once in awhile!! I am a warm an gentle person who is a hopeless romantic an loves to be spoiled! but who doesnt? I am alittle shy at first untill i get to know u ! Looking for that guy that will treat me good an i will do the same! im a loveable person an i can be wonderfully weird an funny! Going for a coffee,getting to know that person first! an if it goes further,a nice dinner in a quiet restaurant with drinks an maybe a little dancing?

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Allow me to indulge...Imagine this, if you will: intelligent, witty, humorous, well mannered, and compassionate. These are adjectives that have been used to describe me. Lost, stranded, searching, “something’s missing”, longing. These are the adjectives that come to mind when describing myself. I am left searching for something more, something greater. The method of trial and error should not be applied to dating. The heart is not something to be toyed with. The soul is not something to be reasoned with. Games are for children. A picture is worth a thousand words, but a thousand words can express feelings and tell stories that the most flattering of pictures cannot. Looks are important, but honesty, emotion, and compassion are the true key to happiness. Physical intimacy is good, but emotional intimacy is heaven. There are no love stories, there are life stories. It should not be considered a sacrifice if the heart is leading the way. True love can never be fully expressed, but can always be truly felt. Eating a 5-course dinner is exquisite, but preparing a meal over a stove for an hour for the one you love, only to have the said meal turn out a disaster is priceless. There are excuses, explanations, and reasons…and there is a fine line between the three, but the heart will tell you the truth. The one I am looking for will read my description and understand what I mean. They understand that the bar/club scene is atrocious if you are looking for someone to want you, but can be exciting if you are with the one you want. They will understand that trust is an important issue. They will understand that a relationship is made up of two people on two paths, but the two paths can continue side by side. They will understand that losing yourself in someone does not mean you have to lose yourself. They will know that there is no 'too early' or 'too late' when it comes to relationships. They will realize that being with the one you care for makes you a better person. They will realize the difference between the 'morning after' and 'the day after'. They will realize that going to sleep with the one you want is more important than sleeping with the one you want. Talk and get to to know one another.

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