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BenjaminaOffline
Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
First off, I have no time for players who just want to serial date, or see how many women they can meet. I run into that too often from guys on here, and am just about ready to give up. Always seems to happen with the more attractive guys who obviously want a certain type that isn't me, like younger, prettier, whatever. They can have you. So, don't bother to message me if that's the case. Thanks. I'm 44, have two kids, a daughter, 14 and a son, 17. They live with me, but I can date. And they're with their father every other weekend. However, whomever I would potentially date would have to understand my schedule with them, (their activities) as well as the time I spend with them. I am not one of those mothers who goes out every weekend leaving my kids on their own, despite the fact that they are teenagers, or put whomever I'm dating before them, spending every weekend with him and *** kids. I like to be around for them, as I said, even though they're teens and may have other plans. So I mostly go out when they're with their dad, with an exception for something planned once in awhile, or during the week occasionally, depending on their schedules. I have brown hair, brown eyes, and am petite. I've been described as cute with a 'bubbly' personality, pretty, sexy. Don't know about those things, I'd let the guy be the judge of that. I am confident, but not conceited, and am perfectly aware that there are plenty of beautiful, sexy women out there that I can't compete with. However, as I said, I am confident, and feel good about myself and how I look and feel, being over 40. More importantly, I'm very friendly and outgoing, fun, funny, and in a relationship I am loving, sweet and affectionate, flirtatious, playful, open and honest, and say what I want and how I feel. What I don't want in a guy is someone who won't talk, or communicate, game playing, particularly messing with my head, lying, cheating, or telling me what they think I want to hear for their own selfish reasons. I want someone who makes me feel GOOD about myself, not who makes me feel unwanted and bad about myself, and hurts me or plays with my emotions. Yes, I am emotional, not a nutcase, just show my feelings and say what's on my mind. I want someone who treats me with the respect I deserve, respects my feelings, not takes advantage of them or me, and in return, they would get the same from me and much more. I am just not into getting hurt anymore. I am NOT bitter or hating men, on the contrary, I love men. :) I've just learned that I give too much sometimes to people who refuse to give back and take advantage of that, then disappear. So I'm just a bit more cautious now, simple. :) I also would like someone funny who makes me laugh and who likes to go out and have FUN, not sit around doing nothing but watching TV all the time. However, I do enjoy staying home and watching a movie sometimes too, just like everyone else. Sorry if I sound harsh, just want to be honest about where I am right now. If you're not interested, that's fine too. **There also must be a spark right away~I believe in chemistry. Having said all of that above, I certainly don't expect to jump immediately into a relationship with someone I may meet here. I don't even want that right away, frankly. I need to go slow and work towards a relationship if that happens. If I meet someone I really like, and we hang out for awhile and like eachother, and a relationship develops, that's cool too, I just don't want to dive straight into it.I like going to see bands, like just about any type of music, eating out, (like trying new places) going to fests in the summer, concerts, hanging with friends and family, sporting events, (Cubs games or Blackhawks games first two on the list) and anything else interesting and fun. I can pretty much have fun doing anything, and am not difficult to please.*If I do not answer a message, I am not interested. Not trying to be rude, it's just easier than wasting time going back and forth with explanations. I get non answers too, and I don't get offended, I move on. Thanks.A song about love that I looooove~ *** Whatever, talk and decide together
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PatriciaOffline
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
hmmm.... I'm self sufficient, quite able to take care of myself, support myself and my girls. I'm done having children, but will welcome yours I have 2 beautiful girls who come first, one still at home one on her own, a couple dogs, cats possibly some ninja mice in the creepy basement.things I like in no particular order summer/warm weather, PVR T.V., ice cream, going for walks, hanging out with my girls, laying by the pool soaking up the sun, going to the zoo, holding hands, dancing, sex, vacations on a beach at least once a year, kissing, alternative medicine, gardening, renovating my money pit so you need to be handy or take direction well lol ~ I live in the country, but still close enough I could walk to whatever I need if I had too, I can't ever imagine living on a postage stamp lot, though wouldn't mind a place in the city toonon - smokers only please. But ***friendlymust like big dogs ......but not be one, and can tolerate catsIf you want a response please have a recent picture!I'm looking for a man not boy, though some boyish attributes are charming I do not mean to offend if I read and delete your *** reply. I thank you for taking the time , but if I don't think there will be a connection then I do not want to waste anybody's time good luck, all the bestThe following is from a compatibility test and who I would best connect with so if you can relate let me know, by relate I mean you agree with the following statements and are natural and comfortable doing so always not just during the courting stage.You should know I demand a lot of demonstrations of affection, romancing, and quality attention -- and am willing to give it in return. the minute-to-minute PLEASURES of relationship - touch, laughter, play - are also a big part of life and worthy of lots of time and effort. Such a person offers flowers (buy them pick from the garden it the thought that counts)and writes poetry(quick short notes or texts or message on the steamed mirror again it the thought that counts), will still flirt shamelessly with me ten years into our romance, and in general is one who wants the process of "falling in love" to last as long as the beating of both of our hearts. I won't need to guess what your thinking or feeling: this playful, even flirtatious, courtship behavior is a big area for me. "Falling in love" may work more easily here than "staying in love," but that's not nearly as bad as it sounds -- falling in love can take a long, long time.You will have tenderness and sensuality, be an earthy, grounded person, not confused about the physical body, and deeply aware of the wider erotic palette -- touch, cuddles, the delights of a friendly, warm, familiar body sharing the bed on a winter night. For me, stability and reasonableness are tremendously desirable qualities in a partner.I like a lot of mental stimulation and exchange, and am willing to provide plenty of it in turn. Such a person is rarely if ever bored, leads an active--perhaps even a hyperactive--life of the mind. Moreover, you can still stay up into the wee hours just talking deeply with me, years and years into the relationship. You have, and enjoys using, a busy brain. my mate doesn't have to be an intellectual, but should be curious about the world, and enjoy exploring it and comparing notes about it with me. After you ask me out ;)I'm sure we can come up with something
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UrsellaOffline
Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
It takes just as much energy to be happy as it does to be sad.Happiness gives us energy back.I believe that hope is a thing with feathers which can purchase a soul..If we live with hostility we learn to fight.....if we live with tolerance we learn to be patient. ****** ***can start a forest.One smile can begin a friendship.One hand can lift a soul.One word can frame the goal.One candle can wipe out darkness.One laugh can conquer gloom.One hope can rise your spirits.One touch can show you care.One life can make the difference.Be that ONE today. Appearance captures the eye, personality captures the heart...I would love to meet you beyond the words..:0)