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Abagael, 41

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About Me

I am originally from Upstate NY, in the country. Seeking SINGLE, WHITE male, with a JOB, your OWN PLACE of residence (roomate? ok - but not your ex, or your parents), and a CAR (TRUCKS PREFERRED!)Did I really need to put all that in here? Apparently I do.MY CATEGORY IS LONG TERM RELATIONSHIPS.Please do not waste my time or yours if that is not what you are looking for. I don't play games. Relationships take some time to grow. Please respect my desire to get to know each other.Wanna know about me? Read on...I don't really have a "hobby" - If you physically cannot or will not ever ride with me, or do outdoor activities, it will not work. (You can always learn, but I am NOT teaching you.) Some call me an "educated redneck" I'll take that as a compliment. My goals are to stay successful competing with my horses and help others do the same. I like to dance and sing to country music and southern rock. No rap, pop is getting annoying. Even classic country is good. Pretty much anything with a good guitar.I aspire to find an outdoor-loving, country minded man who can compliment me and work together at the things we mutually decide to do. I will remain a rural resident though I am not partial to where at this point.I have wanted and deserve an honest, loving, growing, relationship where I am not the only thing in your life but a priority. Too often I have met men who are so capable of love but not willing to let go of their past. Bury the hatchet already. Go on with life if you are grieving. That does not mean you have to forget the person you were once in love with. True love never ends but it may change. Be willing to appreciate what you have in front of you if you can no longer have the love you lost. Look forward, not back.I have been loved and would like that feeling again.I want a best friend who is willing to include me in all parts of his life as I will do the same. I also want time together that is just ours alone. I like kids. Don't have any of my own. It is not a burning/ticking desire. Maybe that is because I cannot see myself as a single parent. And without the other half I have no desire to have them alone. I would welcome children into my life as a step-parent or mentor.I have dogs and horses that I love as my own kids. I would never exclude them for the sake of a relationship, so the man I am with must love/respect animals. I am a communicator. I hate text messages. I prefer talking - in person, or by phone obviously but digital media is not for me. This profile is about it. I am not looking for an *** chat buddy. I am not looking for an FWB either!!!So if you are still interested at this point - send me a message. If you want to talk then say so. I don't care what the "rules" are. If you want to talk - then make it happen.I do not have the internet at home, so if you send a message with no reply, I am not *** I reply to all messages at least once. If I am not "feeling chemistry" I politely say so and would appreciate the same respect.If I blocked you, there is a reason and I do not want to waste your or my time. Chances are you weren't willing to let me take the time to get to know you or there was some sort of deal-breaker for one of us. In my age group, not many people change.) My career and character depend on me living a clean lifestyle, so drugs are non-negotiable. We all have our vices, and any one of the other habits I mentioned are not total deal breakers alone. Seriously though, Look at your personality, would you date the female version of you???Thanks - AlynnPRIVACY NOTICE: Warning - any person and/or ***/or Agent and/or Agency of any governmental structure including but not limited to the United States Federal Government also using or monitoring/using this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including, but not limited to my photos, and/or the comments made about my photos or any other "picture" art posted on my profile. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action against me with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee , agent , student or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, and the violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. UCC ***ALL RIGHTS RESERVED WITHOUT PREJUDICE Music - live or even a jukebox or car stereo? Food? Drinks? Good atmosphere, but low key. (Probably no movies on date ***can't talk to get to know each other.)SOMEPLACE PUBLIC!!!!!! I deserve to be courted like a lady and want to get to know you. Second date? Long drive? Bonfire? Fishing? Boat ride?(Save the movies for bad weather)Date 3? Target Practice....... :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    After several uninspiring dates, I kind of threw up my hands and took a hiatus. So, I am returning after being away for a few months and thought I would try this again. To be honest, I am a bit bored with the whole dating world. I need someone who is fun, energic, can keep up with my sense of humor and can take my bantering.I am self-sufficient, independent, honest, I have a great sense of humor, and family & friends are very important to me. I'm a very generous person in all aspects of my life especially in friendship, family and love. I'm smart and sensitive, although I also tend to be a bit modest too. I am a professional and sometimes too serious when it comes to business. I do consider myself pretty active. With a strong competitive side to me. I play darts on league both soft tip and steel tip. It started out as a way to get me out of the house and meeting new people. It keeps me out of trouble...sometimes. I also enjoy playing softball in the summer. And getting out in the winter and playing. I enjoy going to the gym, belly dancing, and more. I have been single for quite awhile, divorced for the second time with almost 21 years marriage between the two, my girls are grown ***& 22). If you want to know anything else I invite you to send me a message. Please do not send winks as I will not waste my time replying. I also will not reply to anyone with a pictureless profile as I will assume you are married or in a committed relationship and/or hiding something.So, what do you have to lose?OK here is an Important Update: If I have children your age or you are young enough for that my girls could be dating you then you are TOO YOUNG FOR ME!! Sorry Kiddos!! :)PS...Not sure I will be staying on this site much longer. The first time we meet in person I do not consider it a date, but rather a casual meeting. I do not drink coffee and do not expect a fancy dinner. I am open to options but nothing too serious upon first meeting. If, by chance, an opportunity for a real date then we can stress over the details. Until then...let's keep it casual, lite and above all fun!!

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I love to spend time with family, friends and meeting new people. I love to have get togethers at my house every occasion. Cook outs with my family is the best. My goal is to become a supervisor in our area at my job. Helping handicap people receive more in life than being just a number. I am a go getter when it comes to finding things to make peoples lives easier.My kids are first in my life and spending as much quality time with them as I can. I love a variety of music, it depends on the song. whatever we decide together.

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