SIMILAR PEOPLE
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BenjaminaOffline
Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
First off, I have no time for players who just want to serial date, or see how many women they can meet. I run into that too often from guys on here, and am just about ready to give up. Always seems to happen with the more attractive guys who obviously want a certain type that isn't me, like younger, prettier, whatever. They can have you. So, don't bother to message me if that's the case. Thanks. I'm 44, have two kids, a daughter, 14 and a son, 17. They live with me, but I can date. And they're with their father every other weekend. However, whomever I would potentially date would have to understand my schedule with them, (their activities) as well as the time I spend with them. I am not one of those mothers who goes out every weekend leaving my kids on their own, despite the fact that they are teenagers, or put whomever I'm dating before them, spending every weekend with him and *** kids. I like to be around for them, as I said, even though they're teens and may have other plans. So I mostly go out when they're with their dad, with an exception for something planned once in awhile, or during the week occasionally, depending on their schedules. I have brown hair, brown eyes, and am petite. I've been described as cute with a 'bubbly' personality, pretty, sexy. Don't know about those things, I'd let the guy be the judge of that. I am confident, but not conceited, and am perfectly aware that there are plenty of beautiful, sexy women out there that I can't compete with. However, as I said, I am confident, and feel good about myself and how I look and feel, being over 40. More importantly, I'm very friendly and outgoing, fun, funny, and in a relationship I am loving, sweet and affectionate, flirtatious, playful, open and honest, and say what I want and how I feel. What I don't want in a guy is someone who won't talk, or communicate, game playing, particularly messing with my head, lying, cheating, or telling me what they think I want to hear for their own selfish reasons. I want someone who makes me feel GOOD about myself, not who makes me feel unwanted and bad about myself, and hurts me or plays with my emotions. Yes, I am emotional, not a nutcase, just show my feelings and say what's on my mind. I want someone who treats me with the respect I deserve, respects my feelings, not takes advantage of them or me, and in return, they would get the same from me and much more. I am just not into getting hurt anymore. I am NOT bitter or hating men, on the contrary, I love men. :) I've just learned that I give too much sometimes to people who refuse to give back and take advantage of that, then disappear. So I'm just a bit more cautious now, simple. :) I also would like someone funny who makes me laugh and who likes to go out and have FUN, not sit around doing nothing but watching TV all the time. However, I do enjoy staying home and watching a movie sometimes too, just like everyone else. Sorry if I sound harsh, just want to be honest about where I am right now. If you're not interested, that's fine too. **There also must be a spark right away~I believe in chemistry. Having said all of that above, I certainly don't expect to jump immediately into a relationship with someone I may meet here. I don't even want that right away, frankly. I need to go slow and work towards a relationship if that happens. If I meet someone I really like, and we hang out for awhile and like eachother, and a relationship develops, that's cool too, I just don't want to dive straight into it.I like going to see bands, like just about any type of music, eating out, (like trying new places) going to fests in the summer, concerts, hanging with friends and family, sporting events, (Cubs games or Blackhawks games first two on the list) and anything else interesting and fun. I can pretty much have fun doing anything, and am not difficult to please.*If I do not answer a message, I am not interested. Not trying to be rude, it's just easier than wasting time going back and forth with explanations. I get non answers too, and I don't get offended, I move on. Thanks.A song about love that I looooove~ *** Whatever, talk and decide together
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SharonOffline
Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
Im trying the site again.....Im not into REAL SERIOUSNESS YET, but I want to meet a man who is not a LIAR, CHEATER and HAS THINGS HE HIDES!!!!...i want a true relation w a man who wants the same: FUN, LOVING, COMPASSIONATE, ACTIVE, LOVE THE OUTDOORS and the BEACH, Loves GOD,Loves family outings and of course one on one companionship together!!! i would LOVE to belong again and get married eventually and shre my life w my mans life!!! I love all types of music,but ROCK is my favorite!!..love to barbq, cook, swim, road trips, love the beach, occasional outings w a few beers and i love to be home too! Im simple, laid back and true! ONLY SERIOUS APPLY PLEASE Basic hang out at a restaurant/Bar & Grill type atmosphere for a couple of drinks and go from there......
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DejaOffline
Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
Looking to make a new friend...hangout....see where the friendship could go. I am a city girl with a country girl heart....movie and dinner or a hike in the woods, A steak and glass of wine or Open Pit BBQ with sweet ice tea. A Sunday morning drive or Mudding. A Hotdog and Beer watching the Rays (cause they are close) or cause you like them or A Hotdog on a Stick over a Fire Pit watching fire flies. The beach and a Hotel Room or A Camping Trip. A Little Black Dress and Heels. Or Jeans and a Shirt. My favorite.....shorts, t-shirt and flip flops. I am clean, smell like a lady....soft and sensual. I can get down and dirty playing with you....and clean back up when we are through!!!! Oh, please shake the fantasy from your minds....you get what I'm saying.....or rolling around in the sand I clean up well!!!!!!Staying up late watching a movie cuddling on the couch or Waking up early on Sunday morning to visit a local Mom and Pop Breakfast Place....coffee and me!I am a simple girl who's special moments are time shared with you!!!!! A Hot Ir Balloon Ride to leave behind all the stresses. A drive on a cool night across the bridge to pull over and lay back and watch the stars. A Hay Ride. A Carriage Ride. A weekend away.....with a "Do Not Disturb Sign" on the door. I want you to respect me, your friends to like me, your dad to adore me and you mom to love me. I am not your ex....I am not in your past, I want to be your present, looking forward to becoming a part of your future. Your children are a part of you. If I become a part of you....they become a part of me. If their mother is in their lives she regardless of circumstance will be respected as such. If she is not.......I will be a shoulder to lean on...and a friend regardless. There is NO DRAMA from or with any of my past relationships. Our pasts are just that...the past. They are still love and care about me and would rescue me if I were stranded or needed their help. A mutual respect......as people. Their spouses all respect our friendships as well and me as a person.....We are all here a short time.....live as if today was your last. Be a man....grow up and follow your heart. Enjoy life. What I seek.....to meet someone, share our time, build a solid friendship, and hope a long lasting relationship. Until then....meet guys, go out, no expectations, hangout, no pressure, have fun.....until "HE"......comes along......I am an adult and act like it......BUT at times love to get silly and childlike.......I want to pick a pumpkin with you. I want to spend Thanksgiving fighting over the Turkey wishbone! I want to kiss you under the mistletoe, I want to count down the New Year with you. I want to walk in the rain with you. I want to make love to you across the room. Breathe, Smile, Relax and Enjoy!!!!!! Karen We can decide together.