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Laurinda, 45

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About Me

My life is pretty great. I have a lot of happiness; I have an amazing son who brings a lot of humour and adventure to my days, and a large dog who keeps me company on the trails. I am a pretty happy, easy going person with a lot to be grateful for. I love the outdoors and am out there somewhere every day. I love running and hiking, finding new vistas and hidden little paradises. I am constantly in awe of the beauty all around us. I like to keep active and am up to try new sports and activities. I do a little of a lot; some kayaking, snowboarding, skiing, mountain biking, camping, travelling. I love being in the sun and near the ocean; it is a perfect life!I have had the same job for 17 years (although I don't think I like how that sounds) and am fortunate enough to still enjoy going to work (most days). I do shift work so my schedule is a bit random. I have been blessed and don't feel that I am missing out on much, but I also know I have room for a partner, someone to share some laughs with, some good conversation, some company, to build some memories to share and dreams to chase.In a relationship I expect what I offer; kindness, honesty, adventure, understanding, laughter, stability. I have a lot of happiness in my life and am pretty busy. I have a lot to offer the right person but only if it is going to bring us both happiness. If not, time is precious and best spent doing something else!I have selected that I am looking for 'long term' because I am! I will go through with the 'dating process' because that is the rational way to find someone that I want to build a relationship with, but I am not interested in dating for the activity of meeting a bunch of people. If you are looking to date several people and just have fun exploring a variety of relationships, have a great time but this is not for me. I am not rushing into a really serious relationship, but I do want a monogamous one. That is it for now... Something by the ocean?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Devorah

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    **LOOKING FOR VANILLA TOO, NOT ***D/s** Read my headline. If you don't like my interests, don't contact me. If you had to look them up then you are not experienced or hardwired, so don't contact me. I'm very upfront for a reason. I WILL NOT TEACH YOU!! No wannabes or posers. Must be attracted to you and vice versa. I'm looking for someone in-shape and considered attractive. Polite questions MAY be answered, or may not. I'm not here to explain the life.(Google is your friend ;***If you do not reference my LIKES in your message I will NOT respond. If you want to just look at the pictures, get a coloring book! If you are a "Dom" who does not know the value of a sub, (or a relationship in general) move on. Been there, done that. I know my worth as a person and a sub. I will not tolerate condascending attitudes or a dismissive nature, or someone who only thinks of themselves and not the needs of their partner.I am challenging, opinionated, and speak my mind. I am also a VERY caring/loving/giving person and expect the same. I am sarcastic, have a great sense of humor, love to laugh, and can be a bit of a devil ;-) My desire to be submissive does NOT mean I am a doormat. I have attitude,a mind, and a sense of worth. Do NOT underestimate me.I have the D/s part as the main part of my profile because I realize finding someone compatible is not going to be an easy find. I don't want mine or anyone's time wasted. Vanilla is the start, the D/s part we build and evolve together. If you are just looking for kink, I'm not for you.

  • Olevia

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I'm a bit old fashioned and I hope to find someone to form a friendship with first, and then build on that. I’m not looking to jump into a physical relationship right away. I am a very affectionate person and enjoy being in the company of friends and family. I am a caring, friendly, spontaneous, honest and romantic person. I enjoy going out spending time with friends, but also like to spend a quiet night at home. I am just as comfortable in a dress & heels as I am in boots, jeans and flannel shirt. I don’t go work-out every chance I get, but I'm not a couch potato either. I don't have the athletic abilities that I would like, but I enjoy getting out for a walk, or a hike. I love listening to music, mostly country, but I enjoy many genres. As shallow as it is to put this in, unfortunately it’s human nature, but appearance is important for that initial attraction. After that it’s all about feeling that connection. I’m pretty open minded about what I find attractive in a man. The first thing I usually notice is eyes, and smile/teeth. If you take good care of your teeth, you probably take care of yourself. You should be healthy, but don’t obsess about working out. I believe that chivalry should not be a thing of the past, it’s just good manners. Yes I can open the door myself, but it’s nice when a man opens it for me. I believe that honesty is extremely important in a relationship, without it the relationship has no future. You must be drug and disease free and a non-smoker.My kids and grand kids are a big part of my life, they kept me going during my divorce and I spend as much time with them as I can. Please have a pic, unfortunately appearance is a big part of initial attraction.If you live out of state or don't have recent pics, I won't respond to messages, sorry. I think a first date depends on what our common interests are, but something that allows us to talk to get to know eachother.

  • Mayola

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I no longer believe in the idea of love at first sight but I believe that a very few times in your life, if you are very lucky, you might meet someone who is exactly right for you. Not because you are perfect but because your combined flaws and mine are arranged in a way that allow two separate beings to live together.Mean what you say, say what you mean and do as you say!I am looking for a long term partner in crime. Someone that compliments me no complicates me. You know that getting along without really trying...We are who we are . I am not looking to fix anyone up.I consider myself laid back and easy going. I like the simple things in life but would enjoy trying things outside my comfort zone.Sense of humor a must.....along with a great smile.I would rather be alone than with someone that makes me feel lonely.Good luck to y'all..... A quiet place..grab a cup of coffee see if there is a connection.

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