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Merla, 42

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About Me

Tried the online thing several times w/out much success. Did meet and date someone for 6 mos but distance and schedules made it difficult to maintain the kind of relationship I want. I did walk away from it a stronger person tho.. learned some valuable lessons about myself so even tho I wasn't happy to see it end I l wouldnt change it for anything. Really would like to meet someone who has time to put into a committed relationship. looking for my best friend..partner in crime.. soulmate.. Lover..life partner.. Tall order I know lol! I've tried casual dating but enjoy the closeness that comes when in a monogamous relationship. Sharing inside jokes and looks that only the two of us know. Want a partner to walk thru life with, share the good and bad times. Be my rock when necessary and know that I will always be yours. Someone who realizes that sometimes it's difficult to maintain a relationship w/the craziness of life but if it's important enough you stick with it. I'm honest, trustworthy, great friend and mom...believe that family and friends are what makes us who we are.treat them right and you cant go wrong.. im sarcastic at times and always ready to laugh. Want to find someone that has same qualities and moral compass as me. Believes that good outweighs the bad... Love concerts, sporting events, bonfires..beer..wine.. couple time, family time.. Anything is enjoyable w/the right company;-) Look forward to hearing from you!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lashon

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I didn't want to do this, but a friend talked me into it, so here I am...stepping out into the boat and making my first cast out into the online sea of fish. And for once, I'm totally at a loss to know what kinda lure to use lol :PABOUT ME: I'm a happy go lucky girl that is blessed and grateful to have worked hard to achieve pretty much everything in life that I've ever dreamed of. I'm just missing the cheese to my macaroni (bonus if you know what movie this is from); a companion who can commit to enjoying this ride called life with me. I will say up front that I'm so much more than meets the eye and will give you a run for your money activity wise lol. I am very laid back, have a huge heart, am extremely loving, and am a unique combination of a tomboy and a lady. I dress for the occasion, but on average, I wear very little to no makeup (I'm told this suits me) and am perfectly comfortable in a tshirt and jeans or stilettos and an evening gown.Indoors, I enjoy reading, doing jigsaw puzzles, playing brain games (logic puzzles, sudokus, crosswords, etc.), video games and watching sports. If you LOVE sports and really enjoy spending Sundays watching the NFL ticket and keeping up with your fantasy team, we are definitely going to get along. One of my bucket list items is to go see a game at every NFL and MLB stadium. I have plenty of stadiums left to see and would love to share that with a guy that would appreciate that type of thing.I enjoy being outdoors too biking, hiking, fishing, shooting, and going to concerts (and so much more). My music taste ranges from country, top 40, metal, to rap and I even play classical music (flute) and I love to dance. If you can drive a boat you get bonus points!! :D ABOUT YOU: I am looking for an unselfish man of integrity that knows how to prioritize and treat a woman with the love, common courtesy and respect that she deserves. He knows what he wants, is honest and true to his word, is willing to commit (if it comes to that), and doesn't cheat or play mind games. I need a kind-hearted man that is emotionally intelligent, is confident in who he is, loves to laugh and play and would be proud to have a girl like me that: enjoys many of the same activities, is intelligent, owns my home and car and makes a good living. Ideally, my match would enjoy spontaneous (or planned) traveling...whether it be day trips to museums or historic sites, weekend trips to the beach, lake, mountains, or awesome vacations to go see some of the many wonders of the world. He would also enjoy evenings in cooking dinner, sipping beverages of choice and just spending some time together watching our favorite tv shows, movies, snuggling and chatting. A sports fan would be a bonus. I would be blessed to find a guy that values family (and wants to build a strong one) and understands that his companionship, love, and willingness to play don't cost a thing, but they are are priceless in my eyes. If it sounds like I'm what you're looking for...what can it hurt? I'd like to hear from you :) Going to a sporting event, grabbing lunch, dinner or drinks, hiking, biking, dancing, playing pool, etc. Honestly, I would be up for almost anything and just happy and appreciative that you took the time to plan something fun for us to do :)

  • Lesley

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I LIKE TO RIDE AROUND! GO OUT TO EAT! LOVE YARD SALES! I LIKE TO JUST BE HAPPY;) I LIKE.THE SIMPLE THINGS: ) WE COULD GO EAT ....RIDE AROUND! WALK ACROSS THE BRIDGE DOWN TOWN! LAUGH, TALK,BE FRIENDS.... JUST BE OURSELVES: )WE CAN BE THIFHY.... OR GO ALL OUT! I'LL BE HAPPY EITHER WAY; )

  • Cordie

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm starting to think that maybe, just maybe, this "magic" 8 ball thing might be a scam. It has given me some really bad advice. For ***, a couple of months ago I asked it if I was going to meet someone and fall in lovewithin the next month and it told me "You may rely on it". So I did. I relied and relied and relied. I'm all relied out because I haven't met anyguys in the last few months. Strike one, Magic 8 Ball.Exhibit number two: I asked the Magic 8 Ball if I would get the flu this winter and it told me "My reply is no". Armed with this prediction, Iblissfully *** those flu shot offers. Did I get the flu? Boy howdy. I cursed my Magic 8 Ball with every curse of the English language as I laydying in my bed from the flu. Strike two.Now in a last desperate attempt to reinstate my trust in my 8 ball, I asked it, "Will I meet a guy on POF?". Just to be sure, I asked the 8 ballnot once, not twice, but three times. Every time "You may rely on it". So here I am posting an ad praying to God that I don't have to throw away mymagic 8 ball.I am an attractive lady, outgoing, and fun. You get bonus points for height, more if you have an accent, and extra bonus points if you can carry on an interesting conversation while you're cooking me dinner. What happened to manners and class? I'm holding out for both. I am tired of almost being run over when the elevator doors open. I have a small dog. And a great appreciation for a sense of humor. Along with fine wine, great food. Please..Don't make me throw my 8 ball out. That's your call

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