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Totty, 41

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About Me

I'm sorry but I won't respond to the "meet me" so please step up and ***, it's a free site after all....I've had wanderlust since my teens; I immerse myself in the places I go, learning about the food, culture and people. I take my camera with me as it reminds me to look at the world from different perspectives and to bring some of myself to and from the places I go. I have more brain cells than pairs of shoes, and do not freak out if I chip a nail. That being said, I am not a tomboy. My style is elegantly sexy and I grew up in a family that puts greater value on integrity and practicality than vanity and labels. I am straightforward, intellectual, spontaneous, self-confident, compassionate and have an insatiable curiosity. I exercise regularly (mostly strength training and yoga, which keeps me strong and focused..and I can stand on my head!) I am toned but will always have curves. I can be reserved at first, but when comfortable, am very open, warm and romantic.I started my own company three years ago and am looking for an equal partner to enjoy theater, museums, exploring the world, long walks in the park, dining out, wine tasting, movies, weekend getaways (yes, I can hike and hang out in the jungle too), and lazy Sundays..and perhaps even more. I have a basenji puppy -- no yappy fluffy dog here. He's hunter, racer and clown all rolled into one. I know there are habitual daters out there. Not me. I am looking for an honest, fun, grounded and ethical guy to develop something special with and who views intelligence and strength in their partner as assets. Although I may come across as a ducks-in-a-row kinda gal, I do prefer a partner who is not afraid to take the lead. Someone who thrives on sharing and learning from each other, who can laugh with me and at ourselves and not take life so seriously all the time, is an optimist, who is just old fashioned enough to exchange love letters *** text messages, and who has the emotional courage to share his dreams as well as his vulnerabilities with me. Who finds those special unexpected moments are as romantic as I do.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Rachyl

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I'am easy going and like to have some fun. I tried this dating site and I cancelled before because it wouldnt let me update my profile. So now I'm editing this better.I want to meet someone that has the same interest as me.. What I want for the first date is to meet and have a drink and see if this would go anywhere.

  • Sandra

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I enjoy going to movies, museums, concerts, sporting events, and outdoor outings. I like an evening out or even a quiet evening at home. I enjoy reading, crafting, and traveling.I have a nerdy side. I enjoy comicons, Star Wars, Justice League, Lord of the Rings trilogy, comic book art, and 80s movies. I like motorcycles, fishing, zoos, boating, firearms, MMA, Brazilian Juijitsu..... I love to have fun.I have twin daughters who are 12. They are my life. I'm raising them on my own. Their father has no involvement in their lives which means no 'baby daddy drama'. I'm a sweatshirt, jeans, and tennis shoes kind of girl but I will put on my cowboy boots or dress up fancy for the right guy. Something simple, no pressure, relaxed, and informal.

  • Gaynor

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    About me:I'm fun, flirtatious, silly, sweet, and a little bit shy, till I get to know you. I'm adventurous, romantic and passionate woman looking for a partner who likes to laugh and have fun. I definitely appreciate a good sense of humor and a bit of sarcasm. You must be able to take it as well as dish it out! I like activities such as biking, hiking, long walks holding hands and a bit of PDA. I am young at heart and a bit goofy at times. I love to vacation in the sun, though I'm not the type to sit still on the beach for too long. Romantic nights at home or spontaneous plans after work spice things up and I love surprises--both giving and receiving. I also enjoy quiet times at home cooking together or working on projects, watching movies on a rainy day or cold winter snuggling. What I am looking for:I hope to find someone with whom I have enough in common to click and enough that is different to keep things interesting. You are a balanced, accomplished guy who enjoys adventures, exploring common interests, travel, a cozy fire place just to mention a few things. Whatever you like to do--I'm very open to sharing that experience. It's great if we have some individual interests as I think having independence is healthy in a relationship. You value spending time with friends and are open-minded and willing to take chances. One thing that is important to me is honesty. PLEASE...Keep looking, if your only looking for a hookup...don't waste my time!!!Disclaimer:Most of my photos have been taken in the last 12 months and I appreciate that your photos are relatively current as well. I am a single Mom of two teens, my Ex that lives out of state. I have them 100% of the time. So if I have to cancel, to do something with my Kids. I hope you understand.If you think we would be a good match, I would love to hear from you! If not good luck with your such!!. Suprise me! Lets make it unforgettable!

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