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Totty, 41

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About Me

I'm sorry but I won't respond to the "meet me" so please step up and ***, it's a free site after all....I've had wanderlust since my teens; I immerse myself in the places I go, learning about the food, culture and people. I take my camera with me as it reminds me to look at the world from different perspectives and to bring some of myself to and from the places I go. I have more brain cells than pairs of shoes, and do not freak out if I chip a nail. That being said, I am not a tomboy. My style is elegantly sexy and I grew up in a family that puts greater value on integrity and practicality than vanity and labels. I am straightforward, intellectual, spontaneous, self-confident, compassionate and have an insatiable curiosity. I exercise regularly (mostly strength training and yoga, which keeps me strong and focused..and I can stand on my head!) I am toned but will always have curves. I can be reserved at first, but when comfortable, am very open, warm and romantic.I started my own company three years ago and am looking for an equal partner to enjoy theater, museums, exploring the world, long walks in the park, dining out, wine tasting, movies, weekend getaways (yes, I can hike and hang out in the jungle too), and lazy Sundays..and perhaps even more. I have a basenji puppy -- no yappy fluffy dog here. He's hunter, racer and clown all rolled into one. I know there are habitual daters out there. Not me. I am looking for an honest, fun, grounded and ethical guy to develop something special with and who views intelligence and strength in their partner as assets. Although I may come across as a ducks-in-a-row kinda gal, I do prefer a partner who is not afraid to take the lead. Someone who thrives on sharing and learning from each other, who can laugh with me and at ourselves and not take life so seriously all the time, is an optimist, who is just old fashioned enough to exchange love letters *** text messages, and who has the emotional courage to share his dreams as well as his vulnerabilities with me. Who finds those special unexpected moments are as romantic as I do.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am a single mother of a 16 yr. old daughter. I am looking for a friend and depending on how things go it could turn into more. I am looking for someone who is honest and fun to be with. I like movies, going out to dinner, and just hanging out enjoying each others company.

  • Johnie

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I was married for 18 years. I haven't been on a first date in about 20 years. I'm a little rusty, I've been practicing my flirting on random people, but I'm still kinda feeling awkward. LOL.I have two kids who are the most improtant things to me. They take precedence over most things. I work two jobs and have other obligations, so I don't have a lot of time for myself. I enjoy the movies and staying home to watch tv. I like good restaurants, good bars and watching sports. I'm not very athletic myself, but I can watch and carry on a knowledgeable conversation about many sports.My taste in music is pretty low-key.I like to read, but I rarely have the time. I like to go on car rides, but I hate to drive. If you'd like to learn more, message me. However, if you can't spelling or communicate coherently, don't bother. Typos I understand, not knowing the difference between your, you're, there, their, and they're. Forgetaboutit. Makes me a b****? Maybe. Honest, heck yeah. I've got no idea where to go on a first date. Haven't been on one in 20 years, and that was a hookup at the 4-H fair! I guess I'm thinking a meet and greet at a bookstore or coffee shop. I guess someplace low key, with little pressure to perform (I am NOT going to go rock-climbing on a first date. Maybe 2nd) Let's figure it out together.

  • Reatha

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I'VE GOT A ROUGH SIDE, A WILD SIDE AT LEAST A COUNTRY MILE WIDEA FIGHTIN SIDE AFTER A FEW...IF YOU WANNA SEE MY SWEET SIDE, MY SOFT SIDE , MY BEST SIDE....WELL I GUESS YOU'LL HAVE TO GIVE ME A TRY.I'VE BEEN HONEST AND TRUE ON HERE WITH MY FEELINGS AND BELIEFS.I DON'T REALLY THINK IT MATTERS WHAT I PUT ON HERE. YOU'RE EITHER GOING TO SEE SOMETHING YOU LIKE OR NOT.I MEAN LET'S FACE IT. YOU HAVE TO BE ATTRACTED PHYSICALLY TO SOME EXTENT. something non traditional. exciting. dinner and a movie doesn't really leave much time to talk and get to know on another. and talking while your eating may be somewhat of an uncomfortable scenery. something like hiking or riding or amusement parks is a good choice.

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