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About Me

Not really great at talking about myself but figured it is time to update the profile with a different mindset than the one expressed before. I have been on this site for a little over a year and though I have met some great people I have not found the one. I lost my job in December of this past year and have started my own business. I am a much happier person now that I set my own schedule. I enjoy working in the yard, DIY projects indoors or out, listening to music on mp3 and live, reading (mostly self help books these days), fishing, spending time with friends, and working out at the gym. Would love to find someone that has the same or similar interests to spend time with. I want someone that takes care of themselves, loves to laugh, doesn't mind affection (even in public). I do not date outside my race but am not racist (so don't bother messaging me BS about it) just a personal preference. I am not looking to be someones mistress or piece on the side. I also prefer men that are atleast the same height as myself. I am a very open person so feel free to message any questions you may have. Look forward to hearing from you. breakfast, lunch, dinner, workout at the gym, coffee, juicebar. Anything where we can get to know one another.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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