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Theresia, 41

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About Me

Right now I am just looking to meet a friend who can become my best friend and my potential mate. I don't want to rush into anything! Let's just go out and get to know each other. Do fun activities and have a good time. Does that even exist any more? Is there still a man out there that knows how to treat a woman like a real lady?? Hopefully you are someone who likes to let loose and just have a good time laughing and having fun with your special person. No drama filled men please. If you are not happy with yourself in life, you will not be happy with someone else. Please have your sh*t together. :-)Ideally looking to find my best friend, SWM. Someone I can trust and tell all of my secrets too. Someone to laugh with, to share the good and bad times together. Some who is a good communicator, affectionate and not cold hearted. I am a very affectionate person and definitely need that in my partner too! kissing, holding hands, I love that and am all for that in public too. Nothing wrong with showing the world love *** hate! :-)If you are full of tattoos sorry that's not for me. Please white males only. I really am turned off by the hairy guys. lol Sorry, I am attracted to a man who is well groomed and I'm not crazy about facial hair. VERY IMPORTANT, if you own a motorcycle please do not message me! Sorry I love looking and listening to them but that is about all!!!!! You should have a car though. I don't care what kind, as long as it gets you from point A to point B. lol Also if you still need to be out with the guys then you are really not ready to find your soul mate. I have spent the first part of my life alone quite a bit and now want to find someone that wants to be with me and do things with me and not the boys. :-) If you can't communicate in English by writing or speaking fluently, then I am not interested. I am perfectly bilingual though.P.S. If you send a message and I see that we are not compatible, I will not respond to you. Tired of angry men sending nasty messages if I don't want to chat wth them. If on your profile where it says "do you want children" you put "Prefer not to say or NO", I will defnitely NOT answer you. Please stop wasting your time with one liner messages or *** Rest assured you are not getting my attention like that. To the black men out there, sorry but I can't change what I'm attracted to and you guys are not one of them. Going for a coffee to talk.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Katerina

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    As the song goes: I'm a little bit of everything all rolled into one. I'm a b*tch, I'm a lover, I'm a child, I'm a mother. I'm a sinner, I'm a saint....Aren't we all a little bit of everything? I find it difficult to describe myself. I'm a professional, fairly intelligent person with a decent sense of humor. I prefer meeting people and seeing if there is a connection. The chemistry is either there, or not. I want someone who has their life in order, knows how to work hard and still have fun. I have a son who is with me during the week. What else do you want to know? Just ask. Dinner and good conversation. Keep it simple.

  • Winter

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    This was my original post two-plus years ago when I signed up: " Looking for a long term - it doesn't have to mean marriage...but I want someone who wants to actually DO boyfriend things! Hang out, go places..... I do not want a friend with benefits.... If it's going to work, I come with two little boys and a big black lab...and I want that person to actually WANT to know about the boys ...not just know about me :) Sexy to me means...more than physical..I want someone who can get attached emotionally, who is smart and motivated, who I can have conversations with or just watch a movie and share some wine. I want to relax and I want to feel warm in that person's arms. Is it asking too much to want to finally feel like a princess? ha ha....well?"So after a few years of dating here and there, meeting interesting people who stayed in my life....and quickly did not...even though some of us never even met..ie. a guy who who owns a PT/Massage therapy business who I never met (you know who you are) but over the short years gave me advice about whatever I needed, and the guy I met once but only once who became the only knowledgeable one to give me the best and most profitable financial advice, etc...I made friends, I made simple "acquaintances" and in one *** short term relationship turned in to what is most likely a life long friendship... I had one real long term ...10 months anyway....my record.. ... and he was not a guy from meetville ...but he was great and wonderful to me and my boys....and I just dont know... We ended it mutually and for personal reasons. I guess I learned that putting in that "I want a long term relationship" thing is harsh but this site doesn't give you detailed options. I think I know what I want in a man.... but ...I know I won't settle because even if my boys really like that guy....(of course i want only the best for my kids!) but when they leave for college years later....it's me and that guy....and I want it to work in a chemical, loving, best-friend, physical/sensual/sexual way. I hope I don't sound selfish....not sure I'm explaining it all but I'll be honest at this point....Relationships...I'm not sure I know what I want in a relationship...I just hope it comes some day and "boom"...I just know it's whatever it should be ........ I learned that I need a companion, a best friend...but one who is also attracted to me in so many more depths ....and can talk about anything....someone who loves me first (so we dont get wrapped up in family life before we know each other one on one, ...next phase...that person wants to love my boys and supports the life I lead and the structured way I can be sometimes so I can be everything to my family ..I'm the mom and the dad, and I work hard ...(freaking 100,***times that I hear..."but it's only 99 Cents!" downloads.....) ...etc I am a person who needs personal space and time alone with my kids.....go out on boys night! Just be happy. I need my time, too. I'm not a jealous person .....if you're trustworthy. I will give 110% and I hope it's reciprocated....unconditionally. So this is my latest attempt at updating my profile. Be true to thyself. Ps. I'm a Taurus ... Not sure why meetville picked up Gemini .... meet for coffee or drinks ....a meet-&-greet and figure out if there's a second date at hand....you pretty much know in the first 10 seconds.......

  • Laurissa

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

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