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Aideen, 41

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About Me

I'm a great girl who just so happens to be looking for a nice, respectful guy to hang out with and enjoy life. I am not looking for one nighters but I am open to dating and or just spending time together. No long distance friendships with the promise of meeting one day which never pan out any ways. Guys that I am interested in must live in CT or nearby states. They must also have a job and live on their own. I prefer someone close to my age as well. I am confident and outgoing. I treat people the way I want to be treated.I'd like to think of myself as a smart person. I'm always learning and growing in my profession. I have a good job that pays the bills but keeps me busy. I am independent and live on my own but I would rather spend quality time with a great guy. I don't think that a first date should be very serious...too much pressure! Maybe go to a coffee shop or meet for a drink. Another good option would be to do something outdoors, taking a nice walk or exploring a farmers market. We could always plan a second date if things go well.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    I enjoy BBQ'n with close friends, girl time and a good bottle of wine :) I have been blessed to have a great family and some really goodfriends. I like to laugh, both at others and myself...so a good sense of humor is a must! I'm over the club scene, but do enjoy a local dive bar or brewhouse, sporting events, happy hour with friends, etc. If you are still into going out every weekend with "the boys"...then I'm not the one for you. I am a single mom. I have an amazing job that I do travel with, so my time is limited. But, for the right person, I will always make time :)I am well rounded and have a big heart. I am told that sometimes I am too nice, but that is me and if I get hurt in the process, then you were never the person for me. I believe that everything happens for a reason and life is an ongoing learning experience and it's up to you what you chose to get out of it ;-) Something casual

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

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