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Lashell, 42

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Please do not write unless you read the profile and have looked at my pics, life is too short to waste my time or your own, .I am far from perfect, I dont look for perfection, but dont write to me unless your pics are clear where I can see who it is I am speaking to and you have a nice smile...I dont ask for much but come on??? ..I am at a point in life where I have raised my children and accomplished most of my goals. I have been a Cosmetologist for 18yrs and changed careers. I am currently in the Medical field now and absolutely love it!! I work in an operating room and assist with all surgical procedures....it is such an honor to be part of an amazing team.....I have always been an independant woman and i expect the same from a man, I have reached a point in life where I feel it is time to find someone to share my free time with and have fun with. I am honest about everything, sometimes too honest. I speak whats on my mind and ask questions when in doubt, I dedicate myself to my kids and my man (when I have one) I am loyal very understanding, and I ask the same in return, I have been single for a few yrs but by choice, I was very involved with college when I went thru a my separation so i remained single, I didnt want any interruptions in completing, Besides how would I be able to give all of my heart into trying a relationship, if my heart was wrapped up in accomplishing my goals, So with this, now is my time. I am not sure where to start with the whole dating scene again but here is goes. When in a relationship I do not believe being out in bars is the way to be unless with each other...family is always most important. My taste in music, I love all Music. If you would like to know more just ask. What I am looking for ::: a smile with teeth is a must and you must be fun, not all the time, but i love to smile and laugh! I would like to find a man who takes care of himself, works and respects women.,one who believes in creating memories with me and the family *** his friends.......My range in age is pretty strict...nobody under 35 and nobody over 48...and some people no matter how many times i write this dont get it....I dont care if your rich and old.....im not interested!!! .please dont bother if you are married im sure there is other sites for that....I want MY OWN....not someone elses. it doesnt matter what we do , you need to communicate to get to know someone , in order to know if two people are compatable.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Dara

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Please don't message me if there is more than a 5 year age difference between us. I am just not interested so please don't take it personally.You'll never know until you try! I have never been one to be aggresive and make the first move and I know how difficult it is to do so. Figured what the hell got nothing to lose and that's how you should feel too. I apologize up front if I don't respond back, but I know the type of person I'm looking for but try anyway cause it might be you!I know that I want a passionate, caring relationship. Of course, it should be exciting as well. I want an equal. Someone who will be there for me when I'm down and can just bring me back up by just by hearing their voice on the phone. I want to *** when that person enters the room. I want to see in their eyes their joy in seeing me. I excel when I feel I am making someone happy, but not because I aim to please, but because I am just me. I am attracted to men with a great sense of humor with a sarcastic side as long as it is not hurtful. I also need a man to be serious when the situation dictates it. I am extremely jealous of people who have "quick wits" as I tend to think of the good zingers way after the moment has passed.Living life as positively as possible is very important to me. I am a glass half full kind of girl and try to be as open, understanding, and positive as I can be. Don't get me wrong....I am an extremely confident person who has no problem telling you what I think. I am easy going, but if I want something you will know it. At this stage in my life, I am beyond sweating the small stuff and don't deal well with drama. Life is too short. I'm a take it as it is type of person. Not into beaches, but love to spend time at my pool. I found a niche in cooking in the past few years and have experienced trying foods I wouldn't have dreamed of eating just a few years ago. I am not big into sports but will engage in the viewing as long as my life is not required to sit by a television every Sunday between September and January.I love animals and have 3 cats. I was raised with both cats and dogs. Would love to volunteer at a shelter or similar organization, but hesitate because I would take them all home with me.I am financially stable and have an extremely stable job as I work with extended family so they can't fire me! I truly enjoy my job and don't mind getting up each morning to go. I love the people I work with although there are a few who can drive me crazy!!! I would think the best first date would be to hang out for a drink and just get to know one another to see if we click. No pressure.

  • Renee

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    There is so much that all of us can write in this blank space that we feel might *attract* that right person. Looks always grab a person at first but if there is nothing there to keep you beyond that, it would all be a waste of time. Physical looks and health are important but character, integrity, loyalty and honesty are the foundations of someone/something worth trying for and fighting for. I strive to be those things and look for the same in my partner/companion. Marriage is not my end goal but a life-long partner in life to share all my happiness and shenanigans with would be a wonderful addition to my life. Remember: Looks, physical attributes, cars, wealth, big homes and designer items... all these things fade or lose their worth and cannot cover up or make up for what is lacking in a person's life. Laughter, joy, authenticity and love for our fellow man is what will keep up going today and every day until we die. Your car and job may impress many women, but they won't impress me. Tell me a joke that makes me laugh and show kindness to strangers or someone who really needs it ... and THEN you will have gotten my attention. The hard part is keeping my attention ;)It all comes down to making sure you enjoy every single minute of whatever it is you are doing. Time is what we can never get back... so we should make great use of it - especially since we live in one of the most beautiful places out there! Set out on a quest to find the best fresh roasted Ethiopian coffee we can! Walk along the beach while singing "Reminiscing"... something that is fun, crazy and completely different!

  • Jennine

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Ok so I love to laugh, live music, sports (hockey, baseball, basketball and football), fast cars (mscle cars) and anything having to do with water. I also love to travel and have done a lot of that but it was pretty much all domestic. Someday I hope to get to explore Europe, Africa and Asia. There isn't a type of music I don't listen to. I swear I have the most diverse play lists on the planet. I would love to meet someone that is up for enjoying the moment, having fun and laughing. Please be passionate about something! I thrive on learning new things and love adventure. I love to read - especially on the beach or on a plane. As far as movies go I will pretty much watch anything except chick flics. I am more of an action/drama/comedy person. I have also been known to watch a foreign film now and then. For food, well the fresher the better and I try to eat healthy. I love to cook but never cook for myself. Ok so I am weird. LOL I am also a painter ande have a great appreciation for the arts. The beach, the stars, sunsets/sunrises, camping, a fire pit, good friends, animals, museums, living life is all good. TV --O and Criminal Minds. I am not looking for a one night stand or a FWB. Sex can be amazing with the right person but requires a connection. Anything else you want to know? Feel free to ask… ...a great first date would be watching a game at a sports bar- relaxing enviroment where we could talk and get to know each other without pressure. Of course if you are a yankee fan then the game can't be baseball. I am a Red Sox fan but the Rangers are my second favorite team. As for other sports hockey is my first love and basketball I have recently started to really like. This means I missed the Bruins parade and I pray to be forgiven by the hockey gods for that one. I prefer college football over pro. If you don't like sports, the zoo a picnic or car show are also great first date. Just be spontaneous and tell me about yourself.

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