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Becka, 42

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About Me

I enjoying doing many things from cooking and entertaining friends, eating out, biking, gym, wine tasting, beach, spa, and so much more. In the past, I have been goal driven and inspired by many people. Currently, stay busy raising my children and love ever minute of it. They are my inspiration in life. In my future, I would like to see myself in a loving/nurturing relationship. Obviously, not jumping into things. I like to take things really slow and get to know each other and see where things go. I have three wonderful children....the oldest two who are my rock that help keep me grounded daily. I enjoy being silly with my children and you would never guess that from a first date (as I can be shy at first). I enjoying laughing, lounging, being busy or lazy...you can say I'm across the board. I happy with the simple things. I am happy dressing up and dining out, doing outdoor activities, or just putting on some sweats and enjoying down time on the couch. Our first date, how about coffee or wine at a quite place we can actively listen to each other?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Adelaide

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am DEF a creative, dreaming square peg in a round hole.; am extremely independent. BUT... I do like being treated like a woman, I pray chivalry isn't really dead. Believe me... you guys pull out ALL the stops these days just to get laid, but I'm very good at spotting the BS. I can give as well as take. Yes... I am looking to get into a relationship, not just a fling. I've had my share of those the past few years... it's boring & tiresome. I want an equal, someone who compliments, not complains & I hope to give that in return. I just beat Cervical Cancer, so to say I have a new lease on life is an understatement. I love artistic & creative guys, but also appreciate a man who knows how to use his hands building, saving, fixing & playing. I am very girlie, but can most definitely hang with the guys. I hate when people talk while my football team is playing, soccer is my porn :)It says here to talk about the music I like... How about books,film, music & food in a nutshell?Y The Last Man, The Alchemist (Anything Paulo Coleho), Where the Red Fern Grows, Where the Sidewalk Ends, Watchmen (graphic novel &-essentially anything that allows meat-I'm not a rabbit & don't do much raw organic stuff much This question is hard, because this almost means setting expectations & that is something I hardly choose to do. I can say my first date will NOT consist of dinner & a movie or dinner period. I need time to get to know you & that means talking & sitting 2 hours in a theater in silence won't help & shoveling food in your mouth isn't always an attractive sight.I would hope whatever we do there is lots of conversation & more importantly a lot of laughing. That is KEY. Other than that... if it's not a movie or dinner... I'm down to try anything

  • Consuela

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am an intelligent, open minded, educated and accomplished woman looking for someone to laugh with, hang out with, be spontaneous with, and have fun with! I like being adventurous, romantic, surprising , sensual and very playful. I try not to take life too seriously. I’m looking for someone who has similar qualities and desires. Someone who believes love, honesty, communication, respect and trust should be the pillars of the relationship. Random things about me:A romantic.Faithful, kind, caring, sincere, sensual and lovingWould love to dance in the rain.Love the water.Yes wine.Love going outside the city limits.. Any city limits. Most any type of music.Love for the outdoors: hiking, camping, fires, kayaking, rivers, beaches, stars, etc...Fires..Fires. Fires.The moon.The zooRoad tripsFavorite cartoons when I was a kid: The Jetsons, Scooby Doo, The Flintstones. A great smelling man!!Looking to find someone who is secure in himself as I work in a predominantly male field. Confident, trusting . Most importantly I want honesty...be up front and you will always get the same from me. I think we have all been hurt in past relationships but I believe we should learn from it, move on and not punish the next person in your life. So be warned!! Everyone is fair game! Communication is also a must!! If you don't have good communication then there is no chance of any future. ..just my opinion. I need someone who is affectionate and who is not afraid of a little PDA. A man who is caring, loving, generous, honest, patient, believes in communication, fun, spontaneous. **Apparantly I now have to add this: If you don't like affection, holding hands, being touched, kissing, please do not contact me. I am a very affectionate person without being clingy but I expect the person I am with to want affection and to give back as well. If you have never been married and not had fifteen years of psychotherapy please do not contact me. You have issues.. I don't need them... No games please. Already been that route. MUST love dogs!! I have a rather large dog with whom I am very close to. He is usually a good judge of character... But I take him places with me frequently.

  • Delice

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I enjoy all sorts of sports. Learning new things is always positive so I like to keep an open mind. I\'m looking for an honest caring loyal person.

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