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Payten, 42

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About Me

About me: I'm creative, and playful, assertive but polite. My friends would describe me as genuine and loyal with a great sense of humor. I enjoy summer nights, Sunday mornings, live music, red meat, black boots, bon-fires, cooking, old school punk, Johnny Cash, breakfast in bed, and laughing 'til it hurts. I have a good time staying in, watching a movie, cooking, going out to the local hole-in-the wall, or dressing up for a nice dinner out. I'm not the extreme outdoorsy type, however, I enjoy some activities such as ATV's, boating, shooting, maybe other activities I just haven't experienced yet. I'm adaptable to new adventures with the right person.The type of guy who usually captures my attention, is laid back, slightly irreverent, and is good with his hands--knows how to fix stuff. He makes me laugh and appreciates my quick wit. I live by what I call the "3-D rule"...If you're interested in knowing what that is, and knowing more about me, I'd like to hear from you! Happy fishing! For a first date, something casual where we can talk and get to know eachother.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Margarette

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I'm a very kick back low maintenance girl, but like girly things, I love traveling!!!, trying new things, eating out..... eating in....,snuggling up watching a DVD, or going out to a movie, I'm pretty happy in any setting... I'm an open book so *** you have questions & ill let you know the answer.. I am LDS and would like to date someone whom is also LDS. As for friends I'm open to meeting anyone, you never know where you will find THE ONE!!!!! I'm huge into open honest communication, there are 2 ways to get from A to B & my way isn't right or wrong & your way isn't right or wrong, we can both have our own way & were both right...(if that makes sense) My motto is "HURT ME WITH THE TRUTH, BUT DON'T EVER DECEIVE ME WITH A LIE."Just keep it real, and be yourself.. Happy searching?? ....PS... Speaking of being honest & keeping it real, I have had cancer a few times, but I am in remission & doing great. But with my 2nd cancer I did have very extensive chemotherapy & radiation that did fry part of my lungs, so I only have 65% of the oxygen capacity that you have, & a few other dings & dents. So while I LOVE fun physical things I do have some limitations. I will still play as hard as I can, life is too short not to, but it does take a tole on me if I have a couple of really active days back to back, but I recover within a day or so. hopefully that doesn't scare you away, but as I said I'm an open book & I'd rather tell you now than spring it on you later ( & yes I was bald as a bat for a year, but the upside to that was not having to shave anything for a year.... I just think that anyone that looses their hair from cancer should be able to request where they want their hair to grow back, cause I'd love to never have to shave again. Muahahaha ) OK, one last thing, if you have made it this far into my novel, I only check this site 1-2x per month, so if i don't get back to you ASAP, PLEASE DON'T TAKE IT PERSONAL, or as a sign. I will get back to you though.. OK, you have past a huge part of the test by reading this as far as you have.. If you survived reading this you must be a good guy :-) I think for a first date its nice to keep it short & sweet, see if there's a click & if WE want to continue on and do something after the initial date we can decide that then. So for a 1st date, id say meeting for a soda, hot chocolate, ice cream, lunch, is a great way to start, but a dinner & a movie date is fine too, typically with the guy paying, I don't want to waste his money or time (or mine) if that initial click isn't there... But if the click is there id play it all by ear & see where it goes!!!

  • Dara

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Please don't message me if there is more than a 5 year age difference between us. I am just not interested so please don't take it personally.You'll never know until you try! I have never been one to be aggresive and make the first move and I know how difficult it is to do so. Figured what the hell got nothing to lose and that's how you should feel too. I apologize up front if I don't respond back, but I know the type of person I'm looking for but try anyway cause it might be you!I know that I want a passionate, caring relationship. Of course, it should be exciting as well. I want an equal. Someone who will be there for me when I'm down and can just bring me back up by just by hearing their voice on the phone. I want to *** when that person enters the room. I want to see in their eyes their joy in seeing me. I excel when I feel I am making someone happy, but not because I aim to please, but because I am just me. I am attracted to men with a great sense of humor with a sarcastic side as long as it is not hurtful. I also need a man to be serious when the situation dictates it. I am extremely jealous of people who have "quick wits" as I tend to think of the good zingers way after the moment has passed.Living life as positively as possible is very important to me. I am a glass half full kind of girl and try to be as open, understanding, and positive as I can be. Don't get me wrong....I am an extremely confident person who has no problem telling you what I think. I am easy going, but if I want something you will know it. At this stage in my life, I am beyond sweating the small stuff and don't deal well with drama. Life is too short. I'm a take it as it is type of person. Not into beaches, but love to spend time at my pool. I found a niche in cooking in the past few years and have experienced trying foods I wouldn't have dreamed of eating just a few years ago. I am not big into sports but will engage in the viewing as long as my life is not required to sit by a television every Sunday between September and January.I love animals and have 3 cats. I was raised with both cats and dogs. Would love to volunteer at a shelter or similar organization, but hesitate because I would take them all home with me.I am financially stable and have an extremely stable job as I work with extended family so they can't fire me! I truly enjoy my job and don't mind getting up each morning to go. I love the people I work with although there are a few who can drive me crazy!!! I would think the best first date would be to hang out for a drink and just get to know one another to see if we click. No pressure.

  • Chasidy

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I enjoy going out and doing different things such as the movies, dinner or even just taking a walk. I don’t ask for much, however on my nights/days off I would like to spend my time with that special someone.

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